I met a guy 4 months ago when I was on holiday. We connected instantly and ended the night with a kiss. He mentioned that he was seeing someone but she was in another country for 6 months for work.
Soon enough, we were texting each other every day and it was only a matter of time before emotions grew, we met up and spent some amazing (and intimate) time together. I think we both knew it was heading somewhere special. On the last night, he received a phone call from his gf saying she was pregnant and coming home. Disaster and heartbreak….
He said that he cares for her and therefore must give it a go and do the right thing. I agreed and walked away, admittedly very sad.
I thought it was over but he won’t stop contacting me! Sometimes 5 texts a day, mostly about what he is doing, eating, thinking etc. – so nothing emotional. I don’t understand. I gave him an easy out and the option to leave and have a life with his girlfriend and baby.
Why is he staying in contact? Is it his man way of saying he misses me? What should I do as I really care about this man…. Horrible timing I know.
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