… (Previous page – Ask a Guy: Am I Just His Fallback Girl?) in a place where your relationships will work effortlessly and love will magnetically attract itself to you with zero effort on your part.
Right now, you are still chasing love and feelings from a guy as if a man’s love is something you can get, like it’s an object like a stone or car or purse. You can’t have a relationship. You can’t possess another person or love.
Relationships are like music… you experience them in the moment as they are happening… there is nothing more than that. Relationships are simple and experienced in the moment, nothing more, nothing less.
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Instead of worrying about whether your actions look a certain way or could trigger a certain reaction, forget all that crap. Instead, focus on one thing and one thing alone: Your mood – which translates to relating to every moment in a way that feels happy, joyful, inspiring and full of life to you… no matter what is happening in that moment.
Your mood – your happy, inspired, fulfilled mood – is the most attractive energy possible to any man. When you master your mood, you will never again worry about a man’s feelings for you. It makes a man’s love and devotion automatic… it is irresistible to men… we are programmed to seek out and bond with women who are happy, comfortable and full of love for every moment of life. That is the energy that makes a man want to protect you, hold you, love you, please you, chase you, adore you and devote himself fully to you. It is irresistible.
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You’ve been brainwashed by crappy relationship books and women’s magazines to pay attention to crap that doesn’t matter. Your mood matters… stop worrying about “how you appear” or “how he might react”… make your mood your number one priority and focus… do that and all of your other concerns, worries and fears will disappear.
Hope this helps,
eric charles
Written by Eric Charles
