Ask a Guy: Does He Like Me Or Am I Bugging Him?

my friends introduced me to a boy about 7 months ago, and we started talking after knowing each other for 4 months. i never really was the person to talk to boys. we talked constantly for the past few months. now when i text him sometimes he reads or views my pictures and doesn’t respond. even though he straight up told my best friend he likes me, i feel like i’m being annoying. i really like this guy too. there are some days when i text him that we talk for hours. he does flirt with me sometimes though. i’m still getting mixed signals about whether he likes me or i’m just annoying him. what do you think?

Eric I need desperate help, I’m so confused.
So I have been talking to a guy for about 2 yrs, at the start we would always talk so much, and throughout the 2 yrs we have met up about 4 times and then later through the first year we stop talking and then we get back to talking, so we have been talking on and off throughout the 2 yrs, we always disconnect because I feel like he doesn’t want to, and that most the time I start the convo, which I don’t mind but just in my head I feel like I’m annoying him. He says to me that he can’t text a lot anymore because he got a new job, that takes a lot of his hours up. And now we are back talking to eachother, and we talk and talk and then he say that he wants to treat me right and doesn’t want to fuck it up, I say what do you mean by that and he said he didn’t want to lose a friend like me. I’m confused there Eric, so he says to me that he does see me more than a friend, and that he wants to do all that kissing and cuddling that relationship couples do, but then last time I talked to him he says he didn’t want a relationship ATM.
Please help,

I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months. I’m in love with him. I’ve dropped several hints but I’ve never said I love you. He says he cares about me and is serious about me too but last night I said let’s talk and he said I don’t want to talk. Why doesn’t he want to talk if he feels the same way?

Actually few days ago i texted him jokes, greetings, he replied. But to avoid me he made a plan to irritate me by saying that i wanna have sex with you. He is doing a job. By saying this everyday he actually had fallen in love with me. Badly in love with me. And he had fallen for me more when he noticed that am the most beautiful girl in the whole world-both in looks and from heart. He wanted to marry me. But he took revenge on me by saying that it was his plan and he want space . And as i told you earlier, he again interacted with me.. But whenever we chat with each other he again became psycho, talking rubbish about sex. Now iam confused whether he actually took revenge on me or he is deeply in love with me but couldnot express it. For him, am totally stressed. Should i go with him by giving space or permantly leave him? What should i do?

I’ve recently started talking to him
At first he answered everyone of my text but then he started giving me these lame one word answers and I always had to start the conversation
Recently ive asked him about it and he says I always assume the negative and I took that to mean that he does like me but I just don’t know
In my experience guys who like you love to text you and he doesn’t he just started falling off
He answers all my text either excitedly or nicely but it’s one worded and he’ll continue to answer all my attempts to make conversation but I’m starting to feel like I’m just bothering him and he’s a really nice person
Help please

Eric, Please Help me
I met a guy, he’s 27 I’m 31. We hit it off really well and had instant chemistry (like I’ve never experienced before), He brought me a drink and cheekily told me I owe him 3 dinners for it. His mate on several occassions pointed out we would make a cute couple. We both blushed, he sat rather close me the whole time. There was alot of teasing from him and flirty banter, At some point he put his hand on my knee for a few seconds and took it away. All his mates were making an effort to get along with me and including me in the group. We exchanged numbers. We lost each other at some point as I took my mate to the tiolet and they went to get more ciggys. But when he learnt I was alone…lost my friends, They all came back and stayed with me until I was reunited with my friends. I gave him a hug and kissed his cheek bye, he smiled. We texted non-stop at first, asking about me, telling me about himself, his 3year old son (he shares 50/50 custody of), and his plans for his new house etc…as he lives a very busy life texts got less frequent. We have talked of going on a date… he said I seem like a really awesome chick but he’s crazy busy atm with work, perkies and his son, the house but when he frees up abit we’ll definitely do something. (between morgtage a son he’s broke, but has no choice but to work overtime and work weekends…he’s trying to get the money to get heatpump in before winter…our winter is in june) So I text a single text about once a week (See how he is) he replies we have a lil text chat. I told him I hope I’m not annoying him. He said I wasn’t annoying at all. But so far he has never left a text unanswered and always apologizes when his replies are late. For the first time, I texted him and he took two days to reply… but he replied last night! He made a point of mentioning he hopes I don’t think he’s a rude prick for not replying. I told him narh you’ve explained your not much of texter and super busy, But you can make it up to me later… which he replied can I? so I said “if you play your cards right” he said “all my cards are jokers” (Not sure what he meant but he has a good sense of humor and very cheeky). All of sudden after Me saying I do owe you 3 dinners. He said “that you do” so I was cheeky and said well we’re gonna have to sort that out… I can cook lasagne (He’s of Italian decent). He replied “mean I like lasagne, Hey what are ya looking for from this? Just don’t wanna put out the wrong idea” I said “looking for fun and see where it takes us” (I didn’t want to come on too strong and scare him away) Now I have heard nothing from him. Does that mean my reply wasn’t what he wanted to hear…what was he wanting to hear? …After all, that is what you do when you first meet someone? You met someone, you go on dates, you have (allsorts of) fun…then you start to question where it’s going. No-one ever knows where it’s gonna go? Where did that question come from? We haven’t even been on a date yet and he’s already asking this question. Plus guys don’t usually ask that sort of thing? I’ve asked that in the past (previous guy) when I’ve been scared (of getting hurt) and confused on behaviour. I never got the impression from our 4 weeks of texting that he just wants a fling/just sexual, up until he asked that question. What was he implying when he asked that question? I took from that he just wants a sexual relationship…But he didn’t jump at the prospect of just having fun. I Did texted him tonight…”how’s your head today? How was work?” No reply yet. So I think he’s given up. If I have read this wrong and he did want this to be the start of something more…is there anything I can text that can turn this around and how long should I leave it to send it.

OK – so here’s my situation, a few days ago I approached this guy who comes into my store. I asked him if he had a girlfriend he said no, so I proceeded to ask if he would like to go out sometime he said sure. So I got some paper and wrote my name & number down. He asked me if this was my cell number and I said Yes. Then left. Everyone that knows him around the area says he’s a man of few words. But when I talk to him I get him to smile, joke, even laugh. He talks to me more than my other associates. My problem is that he still hasn’t called or texted me. I thought he might have liked me, can I have a guys perspective?

The guy I like an I were hanging out, we started playing twenty questions, I asked if he would ever kiss me, he said yes then kissed me, we kissed for a while then my cousin walked in, he was the one that said his friend/the guy I like could kiss me, after that they had to leave, we haven’t talked since, I’m scared that I will come on as annoying if I try to talk to him, what do you think?

Hello, I’m a 54 year old recently divorced woman who’s been talking with this man who’s 47 years old for the past 2 years. He’s the one who came on to me. He told me he had been watching me for awhile. I never knew this. He always would compliment me on my style of dress and he must’ve had a foot fetish because he would compliment me on my feet and tell me what he would do to them. I would laugh and say ‘is that so’. After a couple of months he asked me my name. I told him and asked his name. A couple of weeks after he asked me for my phone number and I gave it to him. I believe after a week later he called me. We talked it was nice conversation. He told me where he lived. Anyway, we both see each other every day because he has what he calls a hustle. I see him on my way to work because he’s on the same street where I catch my bus to go to work and that’s where he does his hustle. He said he’s trying to pay for his new car that he had just got which he showed me. One day he stopped me to ask if I was going to be at a concert that was going to be in the community that we both grew up in (Brooklyn, NY). We found out that we both grew up in Brooklyn. Though I live in Manhattan, NY now and he still lives in Brooklyn. Anyway I told him yes, but he didn’t come. I did text him that night but didn’t hear from him til I go home late that night. He said he didn’t come out til late and I was already gone. I told him I texted him but he said he doesn’t always have his phone on him and that he doesn’t do a lot of texting, though we have texted each other for a little time. I remember I once asked him about his daughter, who he told me that he rarely calls his daughter because her mother always put stuff in her head. He showed me a picture of her and him going to her graduation. He said he and her mother are not together. He has asked me how come I don’t have a man and did I live with my boyfriend. I told him I don’t have a boyfriend that I live with my sons. Then about a week or two later I asked him the same, he told me that he use to live with an elderly man who died and he kept the apartment, but then the Housing Dept. heard about it and they tld him he had to leave. So he told me that a friend (female) he went to school with allowed him to stay with her and he pays her room and board ($200) and that she has two kids in college. He said he’s been staying there the past 6 years and that he has to find a place of his own. We only see each other on the street when he’s on his hustle and I’m on my way to work. He always would tell me he’s going to call me and I would say ok, but he never does, though I would never call him either cause I don’t like to be the first to call or text. But there were times I would text him just to say how his day was but it was very rare only because he didn’t text me only at times he would surprise me with a text. Whenever he wasn’t going to be on the block where we would see each other he would tell me because he had to go out of town to travel to his mothers hometown or his fathers hometown. This past summer I took a trip away for a week and when I got back he wondered where I had been. So I said to myself ‘Oh he must have missed me’. I remembered how he had put his arms around my waist to pull me closer to him. It felt good. The past year while we were being friends we grew to hugging each other to pecks on the cheek and somewhat on the lips. That’s as far as our physical friendship has gone. He’s never asked me out only on two occasions he asked when were we going to get together and I told him when he is less busy because I remember him saying he’s trying to make money since he didn’t have a real job, though he told me that he is looking for a job and he also told me that he has a court case waiting because he was in a car accident and injured his elbow which he showed me, and told me he went through therapy and his arm is good, but still awaiting his day in court. I remember one day when I got to work I called him and asked what he was doing for the weekend and he said he was going to a barbeque, so he asked me ‘why’ did I want him to come see me. I said to him know that I wanted to come out to see him, but he said ‘ok but I told you my situation. So I thought about it and said that I would call him later. I didn’t go because I felt out of place asking him that and I apologized to him the next day. He said it was ok. Then I asked him again about his situation is the woman he lives with his girlfriend and he got upset and indignate with me. He said ‘I told you that’s not my girlfriend I just stay there until I can find my own place’, and he said that the woman is fat and lazy. So after awhile I started not making myself acknowledging him when I see him only because I read that you sometime have to let the man come to you because men like to pursue and not that I always went to him when I saw him because I was never that way, don’t like making myself seem available. So when I began to do this he would come to me and I said woow! Because I didn’t think he would but he did and I liked it. But then after awhile he stopped coming to me which was ok with me only because I do remember one time when he and I was talking I told him I didn’t like people looking at us and minding our business when we greeted each other in the morning. We were never obscene or disrespectful it was always respectful, just a hug and a kiss on the cheek that’s it. And just a few weeks back he told me the same that he didn’t like everybody in his business and I felt the same. One day a couple of months back though I had to tell him how I felt about him. I told him that I had grown a fond liking to him and that I liked the confidence that he has and how he has a lot of potential with people and I would like to get to know him a little more. He received what I said and he said ‘that’s good to know’ and that we can make that happen. But we continued on with our same routine because I didn’t want to push him because I remembered one time that he told me he just wants to take his time with me. So I respected that and didn’t want to push because I’m not that kind of woman and since his situation was the way it was as well. The last four/five months he told me that he was going to be leaving the block he’s been looking for a real job and a few weeks ago he shared with me that he was going on an interview and I told him that’s beautiful. I asked him what kind of work did he use to do he said a porter. Then a couple of days ago he went on another interview for a construction job. So a week ago Friday he saw me on the block and as I was passing he came to me and said ‘hey I got the job’, I said ‘great that’s wonderful’. He told me to call him and that he would tell me all about the details I said ok. I did call him that afternoon only because he use to tell me to call him after 2pm because he would leave the block at 1pm to drive back home. I never called him while he was on his hustle during the day because he was always about making money as he use to tell me. We talked for a good little while, I asked him did I catch him at a bad time he said ‘no’, so we talked further about life and relationships he said ‘you don’t see people in love or holding hands any more’ and I agreed with him though I was surprised he said this. I remember one time he had texted me that he took a nap and had a dream and I was in it. I said woow, was I being nice to him. He said you don’t even want to know that I would think he was nasty. So I said ok you don’t have to tell me. But anyway, we continued to talk and he asked was I going to miss him, I sorta-kinda said yes, but asked him was he going to miss me he said yeah and when were we getting together and that he would call me. I told him like I told him a few months back when I got tired of him telling me he was going to call me that the phone works both ways and I told him that he’s been calling me so much I lost count because in the beginning he would call but not often and he would text at times but not often there either. So I haven’t heard from him this past week only because I’m not calling him since he started his new job. He said he’ll see how the job works out if not he’ll be back on the block. I told him I will keep him in my prayers that all will work out. I haven’t heard from him this past week and I don’t want to call him unless he calls me first. I did like him but I’m not going to try and figure him out. I figured if he likes me he would show some interest. But can you tell me what should I do because I really don’t want to call him or text him and make myself look silly. I’m not that kind of woman. I don’t have a problem waiting for him to call but if he never does it’s ok. Can you help?

Hi everyone, I’m really in need for advice in this one. I’ve met a guy over a year ago, we used to see each other occasionally and we kinda hook up. He was always respectful. Recently for the past 2 months he has been more caring and been messaging daily – short messages just asking about my day and stuff and our conversations grew deeper. The last time we met (a wk ago) we had sex and it was a nice night. However it’s been a week since I have heard from him (since we last met), please advise me on what to do or what might be the reason of his backing off.

Thanks

Hello I’m 27 year old and I met my guy friend on yahoo chat room 7years ago, we lived about 2hrs away from each other but never meet face to face yet… Me and him been text buddy all this years until now we finally talk on the phone it was wonderful…Anyway he do not initiated the first texts or calls and couple of days ago I text him one night asked him how he doing he reply back ” nothing bored h**** and sleepy wbyb?” I was so shocked what he text me, then he was question my relationships… I told him last night that I got feeling for him ,he told me he do not know me as compacity me and him never meet or hung out…so we are trying to make plan to finally met face to face

I just met this guy twice. He lives in other country. I met this guy when I hung out with my friend whom also best friend with this guy. He’s very nice, and perhaps a lil bit shy. I was like love at the first sight. I’m done looking, I just want this one. At his last day, I asked for his number (in which I never asked or made my first move). So the next day, I texted him saying if he’s in town, he should chat me up so we could hang out. He agreed and asked me to add his snapchat if I want to. So I did, and the conversation stopped the moment I told him I already did, and he said I’m on his list already so I said okay. Then it stopped. Should I text again? Wouldnt it be a lil bit desperate? So confuse!

I met this guy at this weekends past Pride festival. I met him, because he was cosplaying one of my favorite t.v. shows: Supernatural. and we kept bumping into each other through out the day, him with his two friends, and me with my too.
Anyways, towards the end, we all were by the stage talking about books and movies and everything, and dancing around like idiots. It was a blast!

We’re both 16, but we go to different schools, in fact, he lives about 40 miles away from my house :(
After pride ended, my friends asked them if they wanted to go grab pizza and hang out some more, so we did. and I just found myself crushing so hard /.\ like every time I would talk, my words would turn to mush as soon as I looked at him. (im really big on eye contact with others while im talking, even if its a group)
Long story short, we all got each other’s numbers, and decided we’d try and hang out again sometime.
I texted him while we were still together, so he had my number. And then twice again (once sunday night, once Monday morning) and its Tuesday now, and im anxious to talk to him.
My friends keep poking fun at me because I “fell right into the deep end with that crush” with butterflies and day dreaming and all of the things that come with Crushing. Bleh.
Anyways, he still hasn’t texted me back, and his friend, A.K.A ex / waiting girlfriend says she thinks its weird, because he’s usually really good with texting people back.
Maybe im over reacting. Maybe I don’t stand a chance……but I don’t know what to do about anything anymore, and I just want to talk to him again so badly.

Help? Help would be so nice. Please and thank you, loads!

so six weeks ago, i met this guy at my show rehearsal and i was kind of the new girl and whatever so he acts all flirty and takes candid photos of me and stuff and makes them his wallpaper and then he puts his number in my phone under “hottie??????” and says to text him so he has my number. so after a while, i text him and we legit text all day and all night and he’s SUPER flirty and stuff. always calling me beautiful and cute and stuff and i eventually develop some feelings for him. so on the fourth of july, probably about a week later, one of my friends who is REALLY good friends with him tells me she likes him and i panic. i just acted like i didnt get the text. so the same night, i text him and we ended up facetiming until 4 am and he just stared at me and i said “what” and he said “you’re just so damn beautiful” and i blushed etc.
so the next week, he reached for my hand one day and i take it and we like hold hands for about an hour and the entire time i have utter butterflies in my stomach. as the week goes on, he knows everything about me and i know everything about him. he starts to put his arm around me, gives me his jacket when i’m cold, and at one point had his hand on my thigh. my feelings for him grow stronger and stronger and we text 24/7 everyday.
so he starts asking me if i had my first kiss yet and i say no and he says “well thats only temporary…i hope”
and he keeps trying to kiss me but i always get scared and like go in for a cuddle.
so he keeps saying to me “i still haven’t kissed you” and explain how im scared etc. he says that its okay and he wants our first kiss to be perfect.
so after a show(which btw i got the lead haha) i was by myself getting frozen yogurt which is right next door to the theater, he texts me asking where i was and i tell him im getting fro-yo and then he rushes in through the door and gets fro-yo with me, and he hugs me from behind(which i absolutely loovvee). my mom is parked outside but can’t see in so i say i have to go and he says okay and then kisses me on the cheek and runs away saying “text me when you get home gorgeous!!”
so we text and he’s slightly embarrassed but then i tell him its cute and then we text all night blah blah blah.
so its the last show and the afterparty is at my house. so we’re all in the pool and his arm is around me and he’s playing around with me and the pool toys and whatever
and then we are all watching a movie and he has his arm around me and he ends up falling asleep. so he leaves and texts me all night etc. the next day, both of my parents are at work and i’m home alone with my best friend. he literally lives like 5 minutes away and so i invite him over. he rides his bike and comes in through the back blah blah blah. so we go to watch tv in the living room but the tv glitches or something and the remote doesnt work so we give up and go into my room and watch netflix on my bed. so we choose insidious 2 and he like spoons me.
so my best friend goes to the bathroom and he looks into my eyes and i decide not to chicken out and i kiss him. legit fireworks i tell you. but about 10 seconds into the kiss, that horrible insidious into music with the violins starts playing. and fyi: its super loud so we both jump and then i say “well that killed the moment huh”
and we laugh and then i go to check on my best friend and she’s literally sitting on the floor, on her phone and when i asked her why, she said he asked her to go to the bathroom so he could kiss me and i giggle with her about it for a minute or so and then we go back to my room. he starts calling me bae and my heart flutters. after he leaves, i text him asking
“what are we *his name*?”
and he says “idk. lets just see where this goes”

so we still text everyday and such but im so confuseddd
helpp meee

Hi everyone basically I started taking to this guy about two weeks ago, he’s a bartender and we have a few mutual friends and he also goes to my school, we flirt a lot and i’ve gone out to a couple of his events and everytime he would kiss my head before i left, we hooked up a couple of days ago and it was nice, no awkwardness whatsoever he even kissed me goodbye and i saw him the next day, we’ve been texting also, he always texts first so i felt that maybe i should too, so i’ve initiated it for the past few days but i don’t wanna seem clingy or needy or anything because i’ve been in situations where after we hook up, they always toss me aside and i’m scared it would happen again, how do i know he’s really into me and not just that he wants to get in my pants, thanks

I need help please? There’s this guy at my work I’m interested in, we say morning to each other every day I’m there, I have asked if he is single and he said unfortunately he is not, anyway I sent him a FB friend request and waited but nothing happened for a wk so I told him at work that I sent him a friend request, he said oh I don’t use FB much, I said I figured but thought I’d tell u anyway, he said thanks and he’ll check it out, anyway took him 2 days to accept, and so I have sent him some msg’s on there asking general info about him becoz I want to get to know him and be friends I also told him that but he never replies, after a few days I sent him my number saying if it makes him more comfortable texting then here’s my number, but still nothing, he is online quite abit and when I’m at work I catch him looking at me sometimes and smirking, he’s quite shy too and every time I do speak to him whether it’s just to say morning or something about work he goes very red in the face, yes I’m interested but I know he isn’t available and I don’t want to come between him and his GF but I still would like to get to know him and be friends, but how can I when he doesn’t reply? Should I just forget bout it and stop trying or what? It’s very confusing when he shows signs that he’s interested too but won’t talk! What are your suggestions?

What do you think?

Me and my 2 girl friends when out on a bar to have some fun. We ordered a 1 liter bottle of tequilla and since we couldnt drink it all, we ask the waiter we know to call 2 cute guy who was a band member, one was playing guitar while the other is a drummer. we started playing body shots at the bar then we transfered at my friends house cause the tequilla was still half full. when we went to my friends place, me and the guitarist made out then he started asking me to go upstair but i refused cause i know what will happen but i really like the guy. the other day i added the guy on facebook but he doesnt even pm me, so is there something or what.. im confused!

I swear this is EXACTLY whats happening to me… like EXACTLY… unless this was my question i sent in but changed around.. OMG SO CRAZY.

But great advice.. when the guy I like goes on facebook i’m going to talk to him.. but most of the time hes gaming.. uhg.

It was my first week back at school (now its my fourth) and I am like in love with this guy, but one of my ex-friends told him I liked him and he is completly ignoring me in the hall but im like his bff in math.He hates that I like him and I had to tell him a didnt like him so that he would stop asking if I still liked him.IM SO COMFUSED!!!! Now him and another girl might go out what should I do?????

I have been out of the dating game for a long time. Since my divorce 6 years ago my son and I have been living in my childhood home. I recently friended a guy who I grew up with and is now in the same boat. Back living with his mom and going through a divorce. He now lives 3 houses away from me again after almost 40 years. We were childhood friends so my friending him was just meant to be a friendly gesture. He immediately instant chatted me and told me how beautiful I still and how happy he was I friended him. Well we have been texting sporatically for a month or so. He did ask me out about a month ago but never followed up. He has 4 kids and is still technically married. I wrote him off but I found some cute pictures of us as children so I figured I would try the friendship thing again and sent him a msg. Of course he wanted me to email them and since then things have heated up. I got into a car accident and he offered to massage my aching muscles. He invited me over and I went. We ended up in bed and it was amazing. He texted me the next day and said it was great. But now its been 2 days and we havent talked. Do I text him or wait it out. I know two days is not that long.

Okay. There’s this Boy……He always hugs me & he always smiles at me & he like always comes up to me when he ain’t talking to his friends or something and I will always like flirt with him and act like I’m gonna hit him & he acts like he’s scared & then it ends up in a hug. & When he talks to me he ALWAYS says my FULL name. He says it when We start talking & when we end the conversation but the thing is is that he’s really nice & he usually is nice to all girls So I ain’t sure if he just being nice or if he likes me. What do You think ?

I’m feelling terrible, and maybe u guys can help me!!
I met this guy about 7 months ago and after 2 week he said that he love me but i told him that i need more time to get to know u!! he also talked about marrige to me and i said that i don`t know u good enough yet! after a while when even i loved him everything was going well and we used to meet everyday and he was always just trying to make me happy and i told him that i love him but after about a month or so thing just changed and now everything is just the opposite I am the one who tries to make him happy all the time and he is the one who just doesn’t see anything, we rarely even meet. sometimes even once in 2 weeks, and he doesnt put any time for me anymore!!! what i gotta do now! he doesnt even notice me! i want him to be just as he used to be!

Hi,
Thank you for taking the time out to read my dillemma. As i have met this man few weeks ago.We met on line then we kept calling and texting for a while then we met up. We both felt this strong chemistry between us.And then after that time we still kept in contact about a week later we were to meet up then he cancelled on me on the last minute. I was a bit annoyed.Then we texted and called each other and i thought it was cute that we both are that attracted to each other .So i called him few times and texted him but no reply and then he said oh u called me few time.But sure i told him that i liked hearing ur sexy voice.I did invite him for my birthday party and everything and txt him after that but nothin.So do you think that hell txt me or call me back any time soon?I have stopped calling him and texting him the ever since.Can you please help me with this pathetic situation plz?

There’s this boy in my school that is a grade older than me. I have a secret crush on him. I’ve texted him only a couple times. We don’t really know each other. I’m scared to talk to him. I think he will think I’m creepy. He just broke up with his girl friend. When I walk in the hallways we both look at each other and smile. At our last dance we didn’t just have one of those glances. We had a oddly long stare at each other, smiling. I don’t know what this means! I’m scared to tell him I like him. What should I do? -Angela

I like this guy in my high-school; we used to be semi close then ended up losing touch for about two years. This year we have gotten back in touch and are talking again because we have two classes together. Recently in our gym class we have been playing tennis; for the first time a few days ago while we were walking up to the courts and while jogging around them, he talked to me and only me, we left our friends a bit of a ways behind. Usually we walk with our friends and he just jokes aound and is his goofy self, but this time we actually talked, instead of just joking around, and this time there were no awkward pauses. He even played on my team; usually its me and my friend against just him or him and another friend. And he always asks me which activity I’m planning on playing when we switch, therefore were always in the same group. Before this day I told some of my friends I liked him and my best friend facebooked him and asked “Hey, do you like Sam? I always see you walking in the halls with her from class.” But he said no. Then a few days later my other friend asked if he liked me and he said no again but got all defensive in the way he said it. Does this mean he likes me and just doesn’t want other people knowing yet, or that they annoyed him? Them last night he prank called me; it was the first time he has ever called me. Does this mean he likes me or thinks of me as a good friend?

Well i’ve been talking to guy for 2 years but while we were talking he had a girlfriend and i had a boyfriend but we been liking each other ever since. When we see each other we have this special connection i don’t know its hard to explain but we get so happy when we see each otrher and we hug each other so tight! We both are now single and we are talking and told each other what we feel but we text each other whenever he has time and we talked on the phone twice. And i asked him if he was just leading me on and his response was “then i guess you must have not gotten the point?” What does he mean? Do you think we’re ever going to be a couple and start dating? Do you think he really likes me? Please help!!!!!!

So I met this guy about two weeks ago. He works a lot in the hospital. He called me as soon as he got my number and then there was a few days we did not talk. I texted him after two days because I was interested in him. We talked for hours, However he says that he likes me alot and that hes glad that we met. But several days have gone by ( three) and I have sent him texts but he has not responded. Im confused because we have talked a total of six days in the two week span and each conversation is at least two hours long. Should I give up and move on or should I try to call him. ( honestly I’m afraid to call but I don’t mind texting I suppose i dont want to be rejected). Any advice. We met on line a paid sight and after we met he took himself off the sight ( he really did I checked, lol) and he said because he was happy with me. I feel the chemistry but man am I soo confused.

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So i started talking to this guy again after we stopped talking for a bout 3 months? Then we would text each other, tells me im beautiful and i love you. (I know he actually doesnt mean that) but anyways i come to have feelings for him. The only problem is that we are so closeeee when we’re texting, buh in person its totally the opposite! When he walked me to one of my class it was soo awkward, buh when we text we would say ‘iloveyou’ and stuff, and now he stopped texting me. Im confuse :((

Okay. So i was with this guy for a lil over 3 months and we never had a fight but we hardly saw each other cuz of his work, and one day we had a random fight and it was over something really stupid so i told him we should break up. Well a month later we started talking again and it was going really well, but he was also talking to this other girl, who happend to have been really crazy and tried hurting him so he broke up with her. well a month after they broke up he calls me though not hearing from him for about 4 1/2 months he tells me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and that hes sorry for ever hurting me. and that he will do anything to make me happy and that he wants me to move in… Should i believe him or should i just move on?

to milly, honestly i think he likes talking to you but just because he says that doesnt mean he likes you the way you think he does, girls seem to interpret many things the way they really aren’t trust me ive been in that situation just get to know him better open up to him be yourself dont be afraid to ask him its better to get response even if its a bad one then to be confused and staying that way never knowing what is really going on in his mind(: i say you should tell him and see how he responds if its a good response trying hanging out with him and see how that goes! good luck

there is a guy who is always mean to me and it just annoys me and he is nice to all my friends but me i just don`t understand. So i started being mean to him back and we were going back and forth. Does he like me?

I like this guy a lot but I’ve never told him that. He says he loves to text me but I don’t know if he is telling me that to make me happy or not. I text him and he texts back but our conversations ain’t very long and I wish they were. I want to tell him that I like him but I’m afraid of what he will say.. What do I do?

Why does everyone get hung up on texting? For many people, texting isn’t a natural way to converse, even if they do it a lot. A text might not be seen right away. The person’s phone could be off or they are somewhere where they can’t check. Then, the sender interprets the person as slow to respond and reads a lot into it. I say grab the bull by the horns and meet him face to face somewhere. If you are nervous, you don’t have to invite him on a date, but something that might lead to him asking you on a date, like going for coffee, or being invited to a group activity and ask if he wanted to go. Those two things could be construed as interest but it won’t be so bold on your part if you are worried about it and gives him the chance to make a bolder move.

So in summary, drop the texting and get real :)