Ask a Guy: Does He Like Me?

Hello! So i had a relationship of 3 yrs , and tbis yr we broke up due to several reasons. Now , after breakup we talk but i dnt know sometimes he says that he still likes me . Now after our break up when we takes wid me abt his girl -frnds i dnt y but i get jealous. I dnt know what to do. I dnt know how to moe on from this current situ. I really need help

Eric,
There’s this guy…he showed signs of a person who’s interested on someone. He always looked at me when we were talking, initiates talking, ask questions about something i’d mention before or something about my family, ask my opinion about things even in ordering food, always lean closer to me when we were talking and ask me to repeat things while looking straight into my eyes, looks away when he thinks I’ll look in his way, sometimes he’s too close to me which he never did before and I was really afraid because I am not used to this. So I tend to flinch or stay away from him…I don’t look his way and pretends I don’t care nor interested in what he’s doing. And now he seems to be pulling back. And there’s more, I was thinking he’s gay when I first saw him that’s why I told myself that maybe he’s just like that to everyone or maybe I am misreading him and just assuming that he likes me. He’s already 40 something and still not married. What do you think about it? Is he really into me or is it just I am misreading him?

Hi,
There is this guy at my school, we have been friends since September 2018. I’ve known him for 5 years, but I haven’t really talked to him before now. A few days after we became friends he started this game of tag that we still play now. Our group of friends always goes outside. Last week it was really cold and I complained-ish about it, so he went to his locker and grabbed his jacket and we headed outside. Just before we got outside he offered me his jacket, but I said no… I think that might have set him back a bit. Today he kept trying to touch my knee with his own. (kinda enjoyed ;) ) He has been doing this for a while now though.

There is also this guy on my hockey team and he is in the grade above me at my school. when we pass each other in the hallway he looks at me and when I catch him, he looks away. At our last game he kept trying to talk to me and he usually doesn’t really talk to me. Then he kept looking at me on the bench.

Im confused with both boys as I haven’t had much luck in relationships. HELP!

I’ve known this guy for 8 years of my life. We met when I was only 15 and he was 17. Over the passed 8 years we have both been in relationships- long ones and short ones. But, despite having dated other people, he has still made sure to remain in contact with me respectfully of course over these 8 years. Now we are both single for the first time in 5 years, and he says he’d like to go out with me on a date because he’s always wanted to. I’m not really sure what to make of this guy since he has listened to me so many times about my relationship problems but has still continued to want to talk to me. Any clue on what this means and what should I do?

I need some help pls. There is a guy that I catches staring at me. Sometimes, he gets closer to me. He makes an eye contact to me but I am the one who break it. Then sometimes I can see him grinning while looking at mebut he never admitted that he likes me and i never admitted that I like him too. Does he likes me??
But there’s a rumor that he has a girlfriend that’s why I’m confused right now. What should I do? Should I stop liking him or not??

CAN ANYONE PLEASE TELL ME IF THE GUY LIKES ME OR NOT IN THE COMMENTS HERE PLEASE!!
TELL ME AM I TOO LATE OR I CAN MANAGE EVERYTHING EVEN NOW(IF THERE IS)!!

He looks at me a lot
His friends look at me with a grin
He smiles at me whenever i am around and tries to hold my gaze but i often neither smile and even break the eye contact 1st
He once got red when i entered the class and stopped talking to his friends
He once was looking over and over again at the door with a tensed face and when i entered the class he looked relaxed
He once laughed very loudly on one of my most silly jokes and even he tried a lot to make me laugh
Etc etc
BUT HE HAD NEVER TALKED TO ME OR MADE A MOVE
Does he hate me or does he like me comment please please

I got drunk at a party and sent a guy nudes when I got home. He is popularish and I was confused at first as to why he was asking me but he did. I sent him pictures and the next day he told me we should hook up and continue our “relationship.” I thought this was very funny considering he acted like I didn’t exist in public. I told my best friends and they laughed with me but then told other people. Today he texted me and said, “you need to stop telling people you sent me nudes.” I responded with the very appropriate wtf and went on with my business. He texted later saying people were asking him about it and he needed me to stop because he doesn’t want that kind of reputation. Does he mean I have a reputation and by associating with him I kind of transferred it or does he mean the reputation of someone who receives and sends nudes? Which he already has.

Hi Eric,

I am so confused and would love your advice.

I met a guy through online dating He put an amazing first date together with a few things I mentioned I liked doing, we ended up the day / night with beers and lots of kissing and said we’d catch up again. Since then, we have hung out and been a few more great dates all in which he has put together. He has had some emotional things happen to him with a person close to him getting really sick and he come to me for support and we spoke about everything. Everything when I am with him is AMAZING!! Thing is, our dates / catch ups are very spread out (maybe once a week), we have been seeing each other for just under 3 months. I know he’s still online dating as he’s matched with a friend of a friend and following her on social media and has continued to do that with other girls… Am I going crazy, do guys still do that when they supposedly really, really like someone (as he’s told me so many times)… Should I continue dating? He seems like a genuine and nice guy but from my history I keep second guessing him. I am so insecure at the moment I can feel myself about to sabotage everything as I don’t know where I stand and feel it’s too early to ask>?!?

I’ve been talking to the guy I like for almost two weeks now. I do find him attractive, but his personality and just how he is is what draws me in. I first gave him my number almost a month ago, but never received a text. Rather than leaving it alone, I asked him to go to the Military Ball with me, to which he replied that he would. However, he hasn’t been replying as frequently as he would before (within five minutes).
Our conversations aren’t very awkward, rather, we talk about a lot of things like favorite stuff or ambitions or what we’d like to do in life and generally, we agree with each other’s views and add on our own opinions. With this, he has asked about things such as “how far have you gone with someone”, “what’s your opinion on love” or things that seem to be related to relationships, how I am, and/or how I feel. Both of us are shy and introverted with anxiety, so, in order to take stress off him, I usually text first.
He does show signs of interest such as body language (he’ll copy mine at times and also I’ve caught him staring, too). On the other hand, he said that he finds relationships to not be as worth it at an earlier age (both of us just turned 18). So…why are there so many mixed signals?

Hey I am in desperate help of your Eric!

There is this guy I really really like. We met in holiday vacations for the first time. He was kinda my best frnds ex boyfrnd! But they are still frnds as they have a whole group of old frnds from uni. So they as far as I know are jst good frnds now.. So during vacations we started liking each other.. And he told me that how amazing he thinks I am and how much he want to be with someone like me. I kept putting him off and then finally the whole flirting and all turned into hooking up.. Things were going smooth until my best frnd showed that she wasn’t in support of this! And asked the guy to shop with the whole thing.. This guy let’s call him ” RS ” is still a really good frnd to her ex! So he wanted me to be more private and not show our affection infront of her.. I was ok wasn’t happy but was like ok.. Then After the holidays were over he called me the next day saying it can’t work out and by doing this we are hurting a lot of people.. And that he thinks we should jst be frnds. I was taken by suprise as I was the one who didn’t want to break the girl code and be with my best frnds ex and now after everything he doesn’t want all this, and wants to be jst frnds. But well I tried to take everything in a cool manner I didn’t show anything to him and told him that it was ok and maybe it’s best for both of us! Thought it hurt me inside real bad. Couple of days passed he called me up being all nice and sweet again telling me how much he was missing me. So ransom txt and calls started .. He would call me once a day or drop in a couple of txt every day.. And then one day he came to meet me ( forgot to mention we live in different countries but only 1hr far by plane) all the way from his country saying that he wants to spend time with me and he wants to tell me something. I thought Maybe this was it.. We met spend the whole day together had an amazing time . He told me that he doesn’t want her ex to find out that he was here to see me so I keep it to myself as well.. Which was very hurtful for me.. I mean she is his ex! And he cares more about her me? But then he told me that he jst doesn’t wanna hurt anyone one so I Jst closed my eyes and said ok.. he kept on praising me the whole day and evening! Telling me how special I was and that how amazing he thinks we are together.. That night we stayed together at my place.. Everything was going well until the time came to take off his pants! He freaked out.. and got all cold feet . And started telling that he isn’t looking for anything serious and that he is not in his life phase in which he wants to commit with anyone but what we had was amazing! ( random hookup ) I don’t want that! I want him to commit to me! Be only mine! He started off that he want to do it with me someone who he thinks he can have a long relationship with (which is weird! Guys don’t think like that) and then him not doing it made me feel like there was something wrong with me! But all night long he kept on telling me while we did other things that how hot I was! And how he couldn’t have enough of me! And that he loved me And how hard it was for him to control! I tried so hard so hard to turn him on enough that he could not control! But he jst didn’t give in! Coz he thinks things become more serious if u have sex! Well I didn’t push him more . the next day he left.. We have been talking more on call and txt.. He has been more caring towards me.. But he doesn’t say I love u or anything! And today he told me that he wants to come over again but this time for a week.. And want to spend more time with me.. I am scared! I am falling for this guy! And I don’t know if he will commit to me or not! And I don’t know how to make him commit to me! Should I ignore him and show him that I am a high value women he can’t jst get me easily he needs to commit to me to get me. Or should I keep loving and taking care of him until he feels the same way for me.. Is he still in love with her ex? I really like him.. I don’t know what to do.. ????

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so there is a guy I liked and he use to like me then said he liked me as a friend. and before he told me things he would use to rub my lower back and touch my thigh and hold it. Now he is giving me mixed feeling and mixed looks. and he still looks at me still. and then when he saw me he told one of his friends that he as a girlfriend
can u tell me
1)If he actually liked me when he said so.
2) still likes me
3) is he trying to make me jealous.
sincerely,
confused girl

Oy, where to begin. I have a manager who became a friend over the years. We both have kind of hit relationship snags lately. I’m married he just broke up with his girlfriend. He always asks how home life is going. He pulls me in his office to talk about personal life stuff. He wants me to help him with work stuff all the time. When I walk by him he always smiles and says my name. Most the time my full name. He comes up to me randomly at work to vent or to just talk or say hi. I’ve been married for 8 years (separated recently) and know I developed some sort of crush does it seem he’s feeling the same. Thanks from this super naive girl.

hi Eric Charles,
please help me with this situation. So there’s this boy in my class and we always talk and end up laughing, at first I didn’t have any feelings for him but then I started to like him. His friends always would say something if I was there and they still do, I even took the quiz mentioned and it said he definitely liked me. Up until yesterday I thought he liked me as I always saw him glancing at me. But my best friend texted him and asked him if he liked me, his response was only as a friend then changed to maybe. She then asked him what he did like about me and he texted I don’t wanna about it and stopped replying. When I went to school today he did talk to me and we laughed like usual but something seemed off. The last period I had at school we had a couple minutes to ourselves and my teacher felt generous enough to let us talk amongst ourselves. I was talking with my group of friends and he was nearby with his, I heard my name in the conversation and I couldn’t hear anything after my name was said. Me and him then started to have a conversation and he was asking who one of my guy friends liked and that topic came up but whenever the topic of liking someone came up he never asked me who I liked but neither did I since I liked him and didn’t want to ruin what we have. He even complimented me multiple times the day before, he looked serious and I thought he did like me but I’m not so sure anymore despite the fact i did just take that quiz. I thought I saw him glancing at me today but he might have been looking somewhere else in my direction. I don’t know what to do anymore. should I tell my best friend to try to talk him into telling her how he actually feels or just see what happens?

Hi! I would like your advice on a situation i can’t quite get please ????
The son of my dad’s best friend got me a job at his workplace on my father’s suggestion. Two weeks after my first day he texts me, we talk and we agree to go drink in tokyo and spend the night there. However, 1 month after he has never spoken about going out again (we still haven’t gone to tokyo). When we are alone he never tries anything, never speaks about us and has not initiated a text convo. I have when i needed him for something but he has not answered to the last one (just quietly done what i needed him to do). It’s not like he’s shy….
At work i am always associated with him and we occasionally spend the day as if we were best friends.. He has introduced me to literally everyone that he knows. I always catch him looking at me… gently touches my arm/back in a friendly way
However he has been in a relationship for 5 years but says he wants to be ‘free’ as she has moved to America.
I used to be sure he liked me after our text convos and have tried to give hints that i like him too, but now i am not sure ???? is it possible that i have been friendzoned?

Long story here.

I started working at a grocery store a year ago.I was very shy and not very talkative.
This other bagger was very nice and started conversations with me.Of course I wouldn’t talk to him much because I was shy, but slowly I opened up.About 2-3 months later, he started asking questions such as “Do you have a boyfriend? What was he like? Why’d you break up? Would you go back to him?” I just answered, to be polite.

One day he told me another co-worker said that I was the perfect girl for him and that he should take me to dinner.It didn’t kick in there that he might be asking me out.I just told him our co-worker is being silly.

Slowly, things progressed, one day I was having a bad day, so I went outside during break and he was going home, He noticed I was sad, so he walked over, I tried to pull away, but he kept getting closer.And asked what was wrong.I wouldn’t talk, then he said “You can tell me when its just the two of us.I’ll be here.” Then he rubbed my cheek and told me I was beautiful.

A couple weeks later, we were in the break room, and he was playfully teasing me.I accidentally tripped and felt stupid, but he found it cute.He said “You need a boyfriend to catch you when you fall.” I responded with “When I find a boyfriend, I will let you know.” He gave me a puzzled look and then said “How about going out with me?” I said yes, we set up a day.He gave me his number, but didn’t want mine.He added me on facebook as well.

The day came to go, and I went there.After about 20 mins, I texted him.He told me his brother had a heart attack and asked if we could schedule, so not to be a bitch, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and said sure.

The next day at work, he wanted to make sure I wasn’t upset.He kept asking if I was mad and apologize.I told him I understood.He brought up rescheduling a few times, but I never did.

After a while, his flirting and attempts stopped.And so I assumed he wasn’t interested.So I stayed away, and didn’t bother him, but when I did this, he assumed I was upset with him, and kept trying to get me to tell what was on my mind.

One of our co-workers got divorced, and I saw these two come from the yogurt shop.So I assumed he was interested in her, She was on my facebook friend list and so is he, and she was on his as well.Until recently, he started in again.

I was upstairs and he was waiting to clock in.I was sitting there.He starts looking at me and smiling.I glance his way, and he smiles, I look away and go back to texting.He looks back at me, and then finally I say “What’s your problem?” He laughs and says nothing.I start watching youtube videos and he starts making weird noises.I start laughing, and he does too.He said “Good, I’m getting you to laugh” I looked away.He’s like “That’s a good thing you know.” I responded with “Yeah, okay.” He then said “I dare you text me right now.” I was like “Ok” but kept watching youtube vidos.He said “Come on, text me.” I asked him what he wanted to text me.I said “What do you want to text me?” He told me to text anything.So I wrote hi.He responded, what’s up.And then he sat and watched me, I read it, but I kept watching youtube.He said “Come on, keep the texting going.” I was like “Why?” He said “I have a surprise text for you.” I said “We’re sitting across from each other, just say what you want to text.” He goes beat red and laughs.And keeps looking at me until I finally text.He asked me to lunch again, and gave me his days off.I told him I worked both days, and he yelled at the top of his lungs “Darn it” I said “say that again, I don’t think they heard you in africa.” He laughed.

The next day, same situation. Except I got the hiccups, and he started teasing me.I went to take a drink of soda and he was like “I don’t tink soda’s going to help.” I said probably not, but oh well.He laughed.And he started talking about how much was his favorite month and asked me to guess.I again got the hiccups and got up and got a drink of water from the fountain.He said “Your funny.” I was like “I’m not trying to -hiccup- be” and he smiled and laugh.So I guessed he liked march because it was his birthday.He said yep, guess my day.I said the day and it was a day off.He was like “that was a great guess, smart woman.” Then he asked me what he should do for his birthday, I told him I didn’t have any ideas.He said maybe go to hard rock.I said “That sounds good.” He then went to tell me about a place he flies to that he enjoys, that he thinks I might enjoy.I told him “Sounds fun, but I hate flying so I won’t be traveling there.” He then went on to ask why I hated flying.I told him how I have very bad panic attacks on planes.He said “What if your mom or friends were with you.” I said said “Nope, they hate flying as well.” He then looked over and said “What if you were with me? Would you feel better?” I paused and said “Maybe, I don’t know.I really hate flying.” He responded “You could hold on to my hand for as long as you wanted, I wouldn’t let anything happen.We’d go to Vegas and have a good time.” I kept insisting that I hate flying, he kept insisting he’d protect me and we’d have a good time.Then he asked if I liked hockey and had ever been to a game.I said yes and no I haven’t.He did a “hmm” Then it was time for me to clock in.

That night when I went on to facebook, our other co-worker had posted a disney quiz she shared.And I noticed facebook no longer said “1 Mutual Friend: so and so” so I checked my friend list and both were still there.I was puzzled as usually facebook states when we have mutual friends.Then I noticed he was no longer on her list.Either he removed her or she removed him.Made me think that he was just leading me on and their involved.Got a bit hurt, but I went on with my night.

Next day was my day off, so I went in and got a haircut in the salon next door to my store.Then I went into the store to buy a snack and kitten food.I was cashing out and he was bagging.He said “You got a haircut? It looks lovely.” I said “Thank you” and then he said.”It smells nice too.” This embarrassed me a bit, I admit.I turned away and said “Thank you.” the cashier turned to him and he said “Are you hitting on her?”
The guy in question laughed and said “I’m not.” The cashier responded. “I’m gonna tell your girfriend.” He went red and said “I don’t have a girlfriend.” So I joined in, and I was like “Yeah, we should tell her, she’s not gonna be happy.” He was like “Really, I don’t have a girlfriend.” I was like ” We’re embarrasing him.” He responded. “Yes, yes you are.” I responded.”Good, you embarrased me multiple times.” He laughed. I grabbed my bag and he said “See you later, sweety.” I said bye and left.

Yesterday at work, I wasn’t feeling well.I was waiting to clock in.He was walking by to go bag, and then he looked and saw me.He stopped and said “Hey,(used my name) But I didn’t respond.He asked if I was okay, I smiled, but didn’t say anything.He started walking over in my direction, but I pulled a way a bit.He said “Oh….I’m getting a drink” And I I noticed I was blocking the fountain.I responded. “Oops, sorry.” He asked again if I was feeling okay.I said “Yeah, sure.” He touched my shoulder and told me to let him know.

Then He was bagging next to me, he keeps looking at me all the time when we’re working together, I can see it out of the corner of my eye.But I don’t look because I don’t want him to catch me looking.He always fidgets with his clothes a lot.More than what I consider to be “needing to be fixed.” Anyways, he was talking to a customer.And the customer asked how he was doing.He said “I’m doing good.But I need a good woman in my life.” He said it loud enough for me to hear.And I took it as
“I’m not interested in you”

But I’m so confused because he has done a lot to make me think he was interested.
He always is trying to please my mother.And has told my sister that I’m a beautiful hard working girl.

What is everyone’s thought on this.

There are these two guys in school, one of them I’m sure really likes me and he has made some moves while the other one has told me and has chased me for complete 4mnths but I turned him down and now he has backed out and I miss him although he steal glances at me, but when he was after me he didnt regularly call but he texts regularly on social networks. The first guy regularly calls but don’t always text, he is the shy type though. I just want to know how I’ll start up a convo with the second guy that will make him chase me again without looking awkward. I try to make him jealous at times by hanging out with other guys.
Jay

I have been seeing this guy since july, we met online and he was charming. Throughout the summer we saw each other on a good basis but then school started and we only saw each other once every month. We haven’t had sex since october and we recently a week ago or so finally got alone time but did not go further than making out and touching there and there. And the times that we saw each other after the last time having sex he would make the effort of taking the train from his school to come see me in my town but he has only done that twice right before the last time we have sex and after. At that time( the 2nd time he came to see me) I felt myself being kinda clingy to him and him being kind distant but still good to me) after that time we had made plans to see each other thanksgiving weekend because he was going to have his car. a week before i made a comment that i might not be able to have sex because there was a chance i would be on my period. later that week i told him that i wasnt sure i wanted to see him because i felt like he was distant or something and he responded “oh.. well whatever decision you make is fine” of course i felt awful but all i wanted was to keep him and went back on what i said a few things went back and forth. so the next day we were talking and i asked about saturday and he told me that he couldn’t. so i asked about sunday and he ignored, and i could see he read my message so an hour later i said “?” and he read too and ignored me of course i was furious so later that evening i told him he was awful and he ignored that too so in the morning i txted him saying stop ignoring me, its the worst u could do so to this he texted back im sorry i didnt mean to, and all im thinking is yes u did u could ignored me without thought. and his excuse was that he was going to a concert with friend for his friends birthday i was still really up (upset in way that i was crying all night) but i asked him a few questions and forgave because all i wanted was to be with him. and tbh i think that im still really hurt till this day, i just feel like betrayed or something so later that month i asked him if he could see me that weekend and he said ill see if im free. dont ask how i found out but later that night this other girl asked him about the weekend too and without hesitation he said yes to her (it wouldve been the first time meeting with her) of course i was angry with him so i texted him saying nevermind i have other plans and he said okay.. the next day he texted me saying hi and i acted like nothing was wrong because i wasnt supposed to know about this girl. i have also found a lot of things about him that later i have casually asked him about myself like “i bet youve told other girls u want to see where things are going” and i knowing that he has when he says no i know he is lying to me. and this has happened a few times. but a week ago when i saw him, he kissed me with intenseness and told me how much he had missed me told me and that he wanted to see me again. there were times in that date where i was just sad because i had been hurt by him even though i acted like everything was okay at the end of it he asked me if i was okay because there were times where he would look over and i had a really sad face on( i didn’t think he had notice) and i told him that yes i was okay and fine. lately ive been the one texting first but occasionally he does. and when i lash out on him for not responding to a text (even a simple text like mhm, i dont know why i do this) he tells me that he does care and this stuff that in my head im just think god this is bullshit. and i have rambled on probably havent made much sense in this comment but all i want is just someone to look at this and tell me im wasting my time or something. i just dont know what to do and i feel lost. every conversation with him sucks and we have nothing to talk about. tbh what i really what is for him to tell me truth u know tell me that he is not interested anymore that he is only leading me on or something because he keeps saying that he isnt leading me on and that he cares and such but i know that his doesnt and maybe he is trying to distant himself but i won’t let him and idk how many times ive told him to stop ignoring some of my text (he never ignores hellos) but he just doesnt t and from your articles ive been told that the nagging only encourages them to keep doing it so idk if thats the case or its his of saying i dont care. theres also been times ive been like one more time and its over of course he doesnt again and its not over and maybe he sees me backing down from my remark so he knows i wont go away. but thats the thing though i like him so much that i find impossible to just get up and leave and i guess what im asking is how i can make him tell me the truth and give me straight up reason to be done with him.

Does it mean he likes me when he stares and then i see him and he looks away?

Eric:

Hi, how are you?

I need you explain at first the circumstances of all of this. So I was working at the switchboard head office of a Bank last summer and as you can imagine we actually receives thousand of calls every day from professionals. Some of these calls were always from the same compagnies, and with one of the guy who used to call, Thomas, (because he said that he was crazy about my voice and because I was always making people laugh) we started to talk about more than “professional staff” and it became more personal. He asked me many questions about what I like, what kind of person I am, and blablabla. he called like 30/40 times a day, and when he couldn’t be in touch with me, he asked my colleagues about me.
My job at the bank ended on Monday 4 August so he gave me his e-mail address, as I couldn’t give him my last name. Before he had to leave on holidays (4 August), he asked me to join him on a BBQ(the 1 August) with all of his colleagues at lunch but I couldn’t cause i was working. But right after the BBQ ended, he called me at the office, and said that he had to drink mojitos because I was not there. (see this is the kind of staff that he used to tell me, or like “after this call , which is the last of the day, you’ll be in my mind”) However on the 9 August I sent him an e-mail, asking how he was doing. the thing is that he answered really nicely, and told me that I had a message from him on Facebook. since that day we became friends on Facebook. In our first messages, we used to speak very politely, and the 30th August he started speaking casually. so I think that it was a big move. One thing, that might be important, it is that after he came back from holiday and before I had to leave to my new city, we planned to meet. however, I had to leave earlier, so we couldn’t make it.
The thing is that I’m always the one who send the first message. and well, it’s been two time, now three that he doesn’t answer right away, have gotta wait like days or sometime one week. well, for the first message he said that he was at work when he read it and completely forgot to answer. The second, during one week I had no news so I sent him a message back and he explained that someone died and this was on 2th October. yesterday I sent him a message to ask him how he was going. But no answer. he read the message, but no answer. when we start texting, it doesn’t stop. We talk about many subjects, but it’s not as it was before when he used to call me at the office. He always ask me how I am doing, if a made friend in my new city (cause I moved from Paris to Grenoble). We laughed about a funny subject, however about it he just said that the principal is that I still be myself which is the most important. and at the same time, cause I didn’t know what do do after he told me that someone died, he just told me that I was cute.
So after all this, I don’t know what is going on. Before we became friend on Facebook, he never sees me, no pictures, nothing. and so before Facebook, it was great. but before Facebook, I was working at the office where he called all the time.
And after Facebook, there was pictures, there was no more office, so no more calls.
I do think that if it was because he didn’t liked the way I look, then today we wouldn’t be in touch anymore, right? but then, what should I do?
how do I know that he likes me as a friend or more?
Because I wanted to to hear he voice again, I gave him my phone number, saying hat he could call anytime, and so he said that he would call me by the end of the week and it is been one month.
So please, tell me, what is going on? cause I’m completely lost!

Thank you for reading it, for your answer, and also for everything you do here. cause it kind of very helpful. because I have to say that when our heart is not at its right place, then we are completely upside down.

girls if you have answer, i take it!
my pleasure,
sam

I REALLY like this guy, Danny. I’ve known him for about 2and a half years now. I met him the summer after my freshman year now I’m going to be a senior. Right now he’s 22 and I’m 17. He’s Said he like me but he said it months ago but at the time I didn’t catch on so he thinks I don’t pay attention to when he talks. I ride the bus for 2-3 hours to go hang out with him at his place, nothing really happens but usually I stay with him from 9am-8pm. One of my friends asked me to date him 6 separate time

This guy I thought was cute started to flirt with me and I flirted back, we were like this a couple days, he complimented me a lot, updated his status with things related to me and we laughed a lot. He told me my smile could make him fall in love, and we joked that we were together. He tend today flirted with me further, implying he felt something but then he told me he only liked me a bit and that my personality was awesome but liked a lot of girls the same way. Then I reacted because I hate getting screwed over and I said it was okay and that I was still hooked on my ex. He then reacted to that saying he never meant he wanted a relationship with me. So i said everything was cool and we continued as if nothing happened. Lie, it did hurt me I really thought he really liked me. But I do know that he likes me, that’s pretty obvious by the way he talks to me. Did I do it right? Can I still pursue something with him?

I’m a high school senior who recently transferred to a new school. There’s this guy in my class who I recently developed feelings for. We’ve known each other for about three months now and we’ve been texting/chatting everyday for two months now. We use to text each other paragraphs, but now its a few lines. He’s a nice guy who gets along with everyone. But he confuses me. I really like him, i can’t tell if he feels the same way. I don’t want to tell him because I haven’t picked up clear hints. I dislike feeling vulnerable and putting my heart out on the line. Ive been hurt before.
He’s never complimented my physical appearance but he has called me extremely smart, modest etc. Im not completely sure if he treats me differently but he does tend to get a little awkward around me sometimes. When something is wrong with me, even though i don’t make it apparent, he always asks if I’m okay. I asked him once how he knew, he said he watched my body language. I always assumed that he occasionally looks at me in class, but i was never really sure.When i do catch him looking at me, we have this mini stare down, where we both squint until someone blinks.
Here are a few things he’s done before: 1- He always asks me if I’m okay. 2- We have a lot of things in common and he always points that out. 3-He nicknamed me. 4-I didn’t reply to his text, so he facebook messaged me. 5-When he’s around me, I can tell he’s looking in my direction, but i can never clearly tell if he’s looking at me.

I have a guy-friend who i have like for a while now, but i dont know if he like me back… We usually hang out in a group of all female (excluding him) but we are all friends with eachother. We have inside jokes, but we’ve known eachother since preschool and hes really close with a couple other girls in the group too… do you have any advice?

I’m so confused. I met this guy through a mutual friend and I before I left for school he texted me and wanted to go out unfortunately it was too hectic and I didn’t have time to go out with him. He still texts me everyday while I’m at school and he is always the one to start the conversation. One day he told me “I’m so glad I started talking to you you’re awesome” and my friends told me that at that point I was friend-zoned. But I am unsure, I am pretty sure he’s into me and we talk all day long about anything and everything. Is he just looking for a friendship? What do you think is going on?

Strap yourselves in, this is very long………. But I desperately want some advice… Please Help!!

I have been married for 5 year (together for 8) with 2 small children. I recently found out my husband has cheated on me – again!! A year ago I started getting my car serviced at a new place, the owner immediately caught my attention. Everytime I go in there he is always really nice, smile, etc. Most times he offers to give me a lift somewhere (even home, which is 6kms away) it is in my car, but still. In the car he talks about a lot of personal things with me – like his relationship with his fiance and the fact they have nothing in common, things that I don’t really need to know, he glances across at me whilst hes driving and always smiles at me. I asked him how old he was and discovered that we are both Aquarians born in the same year. When I call to book my car in for a service he knows its me by my voice.. He always appeared to be flirting with me and made sure he was available when I picked up my vehicle. His partner was the office lady and she was always there so I don’t know if he was flirting or if thats just him.

Anyway I went in there thursday night to pick up my car, I rang earlier in the day and said I couldnt get there by 5:30 he told me the other mechanic would be there until 7pm working on his own car. When I got there he walked out. He seemed happy to see me, he gave me the price but said he couldn’t give me an invoice because he was training a new office lady, he then went on to tell me about him and his partner having dramas and after 12 years, she wanted a break. He told me how upset he had been so I told him about what had happened with my husband we spoke for at least 5-10 minutes before someone pulled up out the front. So I left in a hurry and said “well if you ever want to go out, give me a call” he smiled at me and I said “I’m serious” then left. He said “no worries” and I left.

After I left I realised I had a new number he didn’t have, so I sent an email to the business saying if you ever need to contact me for anything heres my number. He pretty much immediately sent a text to my phone asking how the car was. One thing led to another he told me he loved my bluntness and it got him going and we should catch up soon, I suggested the Friday night. He said yes but have to go out with his sister first. We agreed to meet later in the night at a particluar suburb, but not where. his last text was “nite, sweet dreams”.

Then on Friday didn’t here anything at all. At 9pm I sent a an sms saying where I was. Didn’t here back until 11:50pm he said “I’m on my way baby xxx”. Then at 2am he still hadn’t shown up I sent a couple of messages saying “are you still coming? If not i’m outa here”. Got nothing so I sent another one “we are in the car are you still coming” Got a msg back about half hour later saying “just dropping my sister at her house”… So I said “So am I going home?” He said about 15 minutes later ” sorry I can’t make it in bed at my sisters place”. I didn’t reply. The next day I heard nothing so I sent an early evening text saying “sorry for the drunk texting, I was sporting a massive hangover all day, lol”. He said “No that’s fine I had a bit of an upset night just 1 of them things”. I said “I hope you’re okay and our conversations haven’t made things more complicated for you?” He said “No just a lot going on can’t seem to get my head right”. I said “I’m in a similar situation, things can change so quickly.. I’m staying at a gf’s tonight to much awkwardness at home. If you ever need to chat we can compare stories x”. He said “Thanks I will keep that in mind”.

I can’t stop thinking about him and I’m really annoyed he was so keen and then gave me nothing?? If he had never shown interest I wouldn’t feel this way. Should I have not sent him the texts?

I have the car booked in again for Thursday, but the conversation got really off topic and I don’t know if it was booked. Should I send a text confirming the booking? Or cancel the booking, give him some space and let him chase me?

Omg Eric Charles. I f****** love you. =D

Theres this guy, (no kidding) lol.
So he smiles lots and we text a few times a week. and when we see each other, mostly in passing we talk for a bit. He asked my advice about another girl. just saying “this girl” not mentioning any names or anything. Do you think he is interested in me or is this other girl actually who is is interested in. cos i read somewhere that sometimes they do this to find out what you think?

well, there is a boy i have known for ages, and i have always had a soft spot for him. he has always teased me, and recently has become more sexual towards me. He began sexting me a few months back, but then i found he did it to loads of other girls who all seemed to gang up on him and so i decided to stick up for him, however… since then he has spoken to me but he just seems weird. sometimes it is serious and other times, he askes to meet up and wonders what we could do when we would get there (he would ask for sexual favours basically) – but he teases me at school, and often i do catch him casually staring at me, and mocking me,… today for example i saw him leaving our class first with his friends and as soon as he walked out the door he look through the glass panel and he stared at me … when there were other pretty girls around. i just don’t know what to do, he is a popular kid at our school and im just merh – retarded. i’m really confused and i have no idea how to behave when im with him, on facebook and texting him i can just mock him without thinking about it and i know it makes him laugh, but when i see him at school i go red and my heart beats so fast. i can’t think when im near him and just resort to calling him an idiot or rolling my eyes if he gets to be a nuissance, which i don’t think he likes much. i have confidence issues, and if i was really confidence i feel like i might actually have a shot, what do you think?

ok so im totally confuzed!!!! theres this guy i really like… but i dated him a year ago for a round 4 months. he always screams my name down the hallway at school, and he always gives me high fives. and in class he always sits next to me and like shows me his new shoes or is just acting funny! he also is really cute, he has blone hair and blue eyes. And he plays football!!! :) lol but i dont know if he likes me or not….please help me!!!!!!!

Hi!I’ve been reading your article a while ago and this question keeps bugging me..A year ago,there’s this guy in my class who’s 20 cm taller than me that always make me annoyed sometimes..I don’t know why he doesn’t do anything to me but I still feel annoyed..one day,during the first term exam,one of my boy classmates named F (I don’t want to mention he’s name here) wanted to change seat with me..knowing him,I know he only wanted to change with me so he can cheat on the exam..at that time,I’m a really,really,really shy girl and I don’t talk much in school..unluckily my usual seat is surrounded by my boy classmates so without thinking,I agree because I don’t want to stuck sitting around boys for 3 days..I won’t survive that long..and since F’s seat is at the back of my bestfriend’s ..and the next day,I happily sit on F’s seat knowing that I will be sitting behhind my bestfriend..Wee!!I’m soo happy..but at the same time,I have make a big mistake..you see,the guy I don’t like is sitting behind me and I didn’t noticed!!I was surprised!!
During the 10 minutes before the first paper exam starts,he lean behind me and whisper’Eizza,you give the answers to me,okay~’.I was surprised at that time because at that time,I know he is a SMART guy and well-known for his mathematic solving problem brain since he always get an a+ in the exam..he wanted ME!a typical absent-minded girl to give him the answers..I was very displeased..then one of my girl classmates said that he’s doing that must mean that he likes me..’LIKES ME?! PFFT’ I can’t believe my ears..5 minutes before the exam starts,I heard a screeching noise behind me and I can’t believe my eyes..he’s pushing his table closer to mine and I don’t have enough space for me to get out..I

Hi
i’m actually going mad about a guy of 22 years old. Well i go to college and he works.
I knew him since very long but its strange that i didnt get a crush on him.
3 weeks ago i participated in a competition and he was the one to drive my friends and I to our destination. When he looked int0 the mirror in the van, i looked into his eyes directly and since that time i just cant forget him..I’ve started having a crush on him..There is not even one day i haven’t dream about him..I’m so lost in him..
I get to see him everyday.But i actually dont like the way he looks at me..
How will i know if he likes me or not??
{sorry its a bit like an essay ;) }
any help plz???

Alright so my friends and many other people tell me he likes me and this is what he does around me.
-cares about me
-makes me feel special
-sticks up for me
-asks my friends if I am ok when im sad
-starts conversation with me all the time
-talks to me whenever he gets the chance
-acts stupid around me
-pokes me (Poke wars)
-talks to me 24/7 on FB
-video chats with me whenever he can
-and 22 people (yes my friend counted!) think we are dating or should be a couple!

So do you think that he is into me or is this average?

i have a question when a guy keeps asking u if u like him and u keep saying no but i really do think he is hot but does tht mean when he keeps asking me if i like does it mean he likes me or am i overreacting because he kinda is nice to me and he does tease me and talk to in my art class and he keeps saying that i think his hot and i tell him no i just dont want him not liking me and i like him i am fat so tht makes a differentence to so thts y i want to knw.

So obviously there is this guy, and we are pretty great friends. We don’t have any classes together, but we do ride the bus together. We are a year or two apart, him being older. In the mornings, I sometimes catch him looking back at me (In a effort to make me laugh, he does it all the time and knows it doesn’t take long for me to realize) and we will just smile at each other. Before school starts we’ll sometimes talk to each other, sometimes he seems to sneak up on me by surprise. After school, he’ll be waiting outside of the bus for me and walk with me to it, insisting I sit beside him. We always chat, and lately he has taken to ticking me in mini-wars. Very funny! He baked me some cookies for Valentines day; and when will sometimes randomly pat my head and mess with my hair. I just can’t tell if all of this is just his way of being my friend or if he likes me! My friends think he does, and a few people on the bus have commented that we seem to be really, really good friends.

This guy I’ve been hanging out with a lot…is fun, seems like there is a spark/connection. Some of the things he does and says makes me think he likes me, but then other things make me think the opposite. I asked him if he would be my date/+1 to a friend’s wedding. He said “I guess I can go with you.” He later asked what he should wear to it. I don’t see a whole lot of guys going to weddings, was just wondering if this could mean anything for potentially being more than friends? If it is a big sign or anything. Your thoughts Eric?? Please :)

So, I really like this boy, and I have for a while, (since grade 6) and we’re good friends, even though he’s a year younger than I am. We were put in the same class this year, and we sat with each other at the beginning, but we talked too much, so the teacher has never let us sit together again. We talk all the time, and I catch him looking at me in class sometimes, and all of my friends say he likes me, even though I think he doesn’t. He also flirts with pretty much everyone but he teases me A LOT and grabs my arm while we’re talking and stuff. But he also, like, hugs my other friend all the time, and she asks him to let go and he won’t, and once he told her he loved her, but when people asks him, he looks dead serious and says No, I don’t like her, so that’s also really confusing…
I’m graduating this year and since he’s in 7th grade, I won’t see him again when I’m in high school, but I think I’m in love, pretty much.
HELP.

So obviously I’m having a guy problem. I’ve known him for a while and we always talk and text. When there are plenty of other seats in the room he comes and sits right next to me during classes. He also ditches his friends to come and talk to me. I’ve caught him looking at me a couple of times and he gets really close to me when we talk like he’s about to lean in and kiss me. He also grabs my hand a lot and rests his head on my shoulder. Apparently all my friends say we flirt with each other but I don’t think I do, on purpose anyways. I admit I think he’s cute but I only see him as a friend. He says he isn’t interested in anyone right now, but I want to know if he likes me or not. It’s driving me crazy. I’m not obsessing, I just really don’t want to hurt him if he asks me out.
Advice?

Hey, im 14 year old girl right, tht goes to college, well i have my eye on this certain guy, and well one day at athletics he kept on staring at me from a distance, and when it came to relay, he came over put his hand on my shoulder and said “go well” to me! and i was thinking (OMG) lol as ya do, and then he said to this other guy that hurt me last year for athletics “dont stand on anyones foots okay?” bcuz he stood on my foot with spikey shoes and i had to get stiches. and so i thought he was like ya no, watching out for me, but when it comes to school, he just like doesnt stare at me as much, well maybe at lunch time and interval time, if im near him but, im in his class he just doesnt stare at me, but maybe im in an awkward sitting place so i probably cant notice him, but still, when im near he jist doesnt, and hes like one of the popular people ish and im just like un-popular but im kinda confused cuz one day he does like me and then the next he doesnt. its like wat da fug, and he doesnt really talk to me, but yeah. i think hes just to scared to ask me out bcuz im like un-popular and hes like popular and other people will think thats weird…. ya no so help me out here, just saying…. c(:

I know it’s stupid that I’m even on these websites when I should be working it out myself but it’s driving me crazy.

I thought this article was really helpful and a lot of what you said really made sense. I’m really unsure of whether he likes me or just as a friend though. I have band with him twice a week and since he’s older we don’t see each other at any other time but when I walk past him at random times or he’s having a conversation with someone else he doesn’t seem that happy (not sad, but not smiling either) and his tone of voice isn’t that gah, I don’t know. But when I’m talking to him he’s smiling and his tone of voice sounds that little bit happier. (and he has the most gorgeous smile). Like the signs have said, he has started a conversation a few times (note, I’ve only had band 4 times this year because it’s a new school year) and he has said general things to me a few times when one of his friends is sitting on the other side of him.

I’m just scared that I’ll do the same thing I always do, ignore my feelings until they pass. But what if there’s even a small chance of it working? He finishes school in 2 and a half terms and I don’t wanna feel like I wasted my own time and let myself down once again.

I really want to do something, SOMETHING for once but 1. I don’t know what and 2. I don’t know if there’s a chance of it working. And he’s not that much older, 2-3 years. And I know I should at least work on my confidence because my confidence is close to non existent, only with a few of my friends am I more openly confident.

Anyone, I would really love some advice.

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you see, i really love this guy, okay i’m still in high school
but we had been classmates since grade 4 until we graduated but now we are far apart
i started having a crush on this guy but i dont know if he really likes me, every night i dreamt about him..about that we are together talking….last time…my crush and i seldomly talked,,,he just talked to me when he needs something….but i just blushed
sometimes i would caught him staring at me but when i am able to look at him…he glazed away….what is this feelings for?

Hehe also it seems like he is very confident around his friends then when he’s around me it seems like he’s toned down or something.. And I know that my feelings for him are true cause it’s been a year that I started liking him and I still do :) and 2 days ago he was in my class during reccess trying to get this bottle from a boy in my class and so they were like ‘fighting’ for the bottle and the one I like was like hey “my name” :P get the bottle for me so I grabbed it from the other boy and gave it to him, so what I’m getting to is that he asked me to do something for him so is that a good sign?? Btw he knows my name but I’d like that to remain a secret :) and last year when we sat beside each other he would always make his knee touch mine and I never pulled my knee away and he didn’t either :)) good sign??? Please respond cause I really want him to like me or I really would like to know if he does like me before our grade 8 grad cause there’s a dance during that so I’d kinda like to dance with him :)))))) thx :)

I think this guy in my class is flirting with me..he always does silly things like messes with my computer when I’m not looking and i also noticed him starin at me from his seat…and when I catch him in one of his little tricks he gives me this what seems to be a flirtascious smile(this is almost an everyday thing)…but I haven’t acted on this because I’m in a very committed relationship and though this other guys sweet….I’m devoted to my boyfriend of 2 years.

So im wondering if this guy is interested in me. He is drop dead gorgeous and im unsure if I stand a chance. We never talked at school, then one day while I was talking to a mutual friend of his he jumped in the conversation, although it didnt last long. The next day on facebook I posted a status and he commented on it with something from the conversation we had the day before although it was completely irrelevant to the status. The comments exceeded 300 comments before we finally stopped. A week later he messaged me on facebook and we have been messaging for 2 weeks now, although the conversation is just random things. Could he like me, or just wants a new friend?

Well, obviously there’s a guy I’m into, or else I wouldn’t be here!

He’s in my class, and we don’t really talk that much. However, I keep catching his eyes a lot during class or in the hallways. I know that this is going to sound like I’m being too hopeful or that I’m looking into things too much, but once when he was in the front of the class reciting an improv speech, he was looking at my eyes the whole time.

And now for the part where I go completely bonkers and read into things too much.

I don’t know if this is teasing, but during drama, he continually blocks my ideas when we’re improvising onstage. Once, when he had the power to “control” the people on the stage, he even made me sing. I refused of course, but he smiled at me afterwards.

He’s also very good at sports, but recently whenever I’m in his group for basketball, he seems to have trouble getting the ball in net. Though I suppose he could just be having an off day… But once when he was on the other team, he actually passed the ball to me intentionally (but another more likely explanation is that his team members sucked and I was a decent player).

There was also a time when he was one of the science fair participants I was researching on. At first he kept messing around to mess up my results, but he stopped when I asked him nicely and scored much higher. I’m not sure if this is a sign of interest, because he’s just one of those guys who looks to joke around. The fact that he only messed with my testing makes me wonder if he likes me or if he just plain out hates me.

A possible reason that he’s not interested in me is that when I asked for his number for a dare, he smiled and told me “I’m not telling YOU.”.

I like to smile at him in those instances in class web we HAVE to work with each other, but I think I might have said something to make him mad. A male friend in my class (he’s not into me) wad trying to prove that my crush wasn’t attractive to the entire female population of our school. This was several months ago, so I was still a new student. When he asked me if I found Anonymous attractive, I told him no (downright lie, now that I think about it), and my crush heard me.

The same male friend asked me if Anonymous had hit on me yet, though I may have heard wrong (my friends chose that moment to have a loud debate over Harry Potter and The Lord of the Rings). Or he could have been speaking to the girl beside me.

But it’s obvious he thinks I’m smart, and he told me so when we were working on a group project.

Anyways, you don’t have to reply, as I’m pretty sure you have better things to do than listen to the problem of teenage girls.

Eric Charles help me please…. so i am in high school and i am in 9th grade (15 yrs old) female and he’s in 11th grade (17 yrs old) maybe idk…. well anyways i really like this guy and i kinda think he like me too… he always staring at me ALWAYS staring at me and i never stare at him even thou i like him… he talk to every girl (my friends) but he doesnt talk to me like one day his friend sat at my table at lunch time and he move…and one time his cuzzin told me he said i was fine and he think he have a chance with me but he doesnt know how to approach me… then i went from being attractive to just decent which i am okay with… his friends are always staring at me it’s like they watching me and telling him everything i do…. i am just tired of the stares i don’t know if i am ugly to him i really need your help… one day i broke the ice… sooo one day i was walking to spanish class and i see him so i hung out a little in the hallway…. and i caught his eye and i ask him can i talk to him he say yeah and i told him i have a crush on him, i thought he was cute and he was blushing and smiling soo hard i swear… it was cute it was… and i also told him i wanted to get to know him more and he told me i can but i never talk to him… so after that day i use to say hi to him and then i stop because when he seen me he’ll never say hi first it was me doin all the work and so it last until a week in a half ahaha i kno…but now it’s just staring again… and i am losing my interest in him and i am not gonna take this any longer… also he has a lot of girls that like him and that always on him but me i am not the type to be all on you i am a relax chick…. and he just always following my ways and tryna get close to me and copying me and if i leave to go somewhere here he comes… but then he play the ingoring game and i do too but i am trired of it now…. sooo what you i should do!!!!thx u=)

I have this classmate of mine who is my crush. He’s a nice guy and treats girls nicely. Whenever we see each other in the hallway, he can’t look at me and act like I’m invisible. We never talk in class because I am shy and he always try to talk to me by asking senseless questions. He’s a mysterious guy and lots of girls like him. I’m wondering why he acts nice and cool with other girls, but when he’s talking to me or near me he can’t talk neither look at me in the eye. What does it mean?

There’s a boy… :)
We started talking and texting about a month ago and we would text every night and he would flirt with me and it was really sweet :) after we came back to school from winter break we kept talking and texting and then one of my friends talked to him. he admitted that he kinda liked me. when he said it he blushed & smilied. I really really like him. We talk every day at school and we make each other smile and laugh. I wanna know does he like me?

ok so i like a guy but my friend likes him to and we both know each other likes his but she went out with him any ways and dident ask me if it was ok with me and when she did go out with him she didnt even tel me so i had to find that out on my own then another one of my friends told him that i like him and i didnt want her to so i dont know what to do pease help me any one please

P.S the guy that i like is nova my freid who is going ou with him is leslee the girl who told nova that i like him is amani and i am brittney

P.P.S PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

there this guy! and my friends say he likes me.because he talks to me when he sees me.
he asked me where i lived (probably because he wanted to walk home with me)
the first time we meet he asked for my number.
he touches me in a playful way eg. touches my leg.
his called me hot and cute before.
he all ways stares at me (in a playfull way) and doesnt trun around when i look at him.
hes laid down on my lap before.
however hes touched a guy infrout of me in a playfull way but i was laughing.
also hes bi.
does this guy like me? or not?

Heyy guys I really need some help!!
So there’s this guy and I think he likes me but I don’t know! So we play soccer together and we made a bet, that if he didn’t get scored on then I would kiss him.. And he didn’t get scored on. So I still owe him. He doesn’t text me often and when he does it’s because I texted him first. We don’t have much to talk about but he’s sexy and I like him. The coach told me that he has a girlfriend at school but I haven’t asked him about that. That’s all the info I have… Does he like me???

there’s this guy im good friends with at church who im starting to really like :3 . last week he was staring at me nonstop while in service. it creeped me out but i kinda liked it.. so i kept making funny faces and then he made those same funny faces back. i dunno he looks at me like as if im the most beautifulest gurl he’s seen in his entire life. and hes always talking to me… :o does this mean he likes me?? :o plzz reply

Okay… I really like a guy and for about 1 week every time i thought about him my heart would skip a beat…weird i no… But at the beginning of the year I noticed him looking at me alot at 1st i thought it was weird then i started liking hi and we made eye contact in class a few times but he would never talk to me so i went up to him and asked about the spanish homework because i have history and spanish and i started blushing a ton when i told them, and i never blush at all. But i really like him but he has kinda been like looking at me in class then just randomly not for a while then doing it again and now I’m confused but noe i really really like him and he is still looking at me and his friends keep getting his attention when i sort of look his way and look at me funny and smile if i look at him…. And today in spanish we were working by eachother and someone said something and he laughed really loud and turned a little in my direction… Like i said i really like him and I want to talk to him but not in person but i dont have a facebook…i’m not allowed ti have one but he has one… When ever he looks at me to like pass papers to me he smiles really big and when I talked to him he was smiling really big and looked at me for a really long time then i ackwardly was like ok never mind then but thanks anyways… and he seemed more interested since but idk…should i talk to him but like what should i talk about i dont know what to do I’ve never liked anyone like this even the guy i asked out for 4 periods at school then kinda freaked out and broke up with him…but we are best friends… but i like this guy more than the other guy and i asked the other guy out but i freeze around him… idk wut to do please help!

i meant class helper lol and also he randomly cOmes up and talks to me making an easy conversation I hope this extra bit of info helps!

So, there’s this guy who’s been looking at me for a long time. I always noticed him too, but was already in a relationship. Now, I’m single and ready for a new relationship, I’ve been looking back and smiling when we pass each other (same office building). He locks his eyes on me with a very direct and intense look whenever we pass. But this a.m. we ran into each other unexpectedly. He was with a colleague and I was alone. I noticed him there first; when he clamped eyes on me, we held each other’s gaze for what felt like an eternity. I was too stunned to even smile. Ergh. He even stopped in his tracks. It was almost like we both wanted to stop and talk, even though we don’t know each other’s names.

Anyhow, he looked away first, then walked to catch up with his friend. He didn’t even look back over at me. That felt brutal. I’m disappointed I didn’t get a chance to say hi or even smile.

Was that a sign that he’s really not interested after all? Or was he just taken off guard too?
Should I give up now or smile and say hi next time I see him?

there this guy at work who I don’t know if he likes me or not but I am guessing it is the latter.
he does pretty much everything on the list and some more like: saying I love you to me whenever he asks me to do him a favor and I do it, also hugging for no reason (this happened several times). he only invites me to hang out with him when he hangs out with his group of friends and I would say no because I don’t want to hang out with a group of his friends who I never met before because I’m not good with strangers in a group hangout. also, he has my phone number but he doesn’t text/call just to say hi or w.e, he would only answer back when I text him about whatever; I rarely text him though, only about something for work. I hope my explanation makes some type of sense. Please answer back if you think he like me or not. thank you!!!!

Hey, would anyone be able to help me out? Went on 2 dates with a guy (well, the second one was just a last-minute invite to hang out with him & a few buddies). Both times he was romantic & a gentleman but made absolutely no moves — barely even kissed me on date 2 (he seemed nervous). When next weekend rolls around, I have no set-in-stone plans with him, but then I get a text from the bar asking if I want to come over & hang out. I go, but when I get there, he’s clearly pretty drunk & still drinking a beer after I arrive. I don’t know what to do, so I make out with him for a while but say up front that it’s “too soon” to go upstairs/do other stuff. He gets a little distant after that night. Eventually we have a chat & I tell him, “hey you were just drunk that night, but I am still interested in sleeping with you/seeing you again… not anything super-serious but I liked you & enjoyed hanging out with you.” He tells me (when I ask) tht he’s “not reeeally” looking for a serious relationship. I tell him “hey if you don’t want to ever hang out again, it’s not a big deal, you can just let me know we aren’t on the same page.” He said “no no, it’s just that the timing is bad right now.” He has a lot of legit things going on in life, keeping his life hectic, and I get the sense that he knows he doesn’t have what it takes to be a good boyfriend right now. But do you think he’d ever come around and want to be with me when the timing’s better?

I need help too! So, I’m a single mom and just moved to a new apartment in May and my neighbor is a carpenter and making shelves for my daughter’s room. (He is also single & has kids). Whenever we talk, he seems to be flirty and into conversation with me and I’ve been interested so I recently asked him to hang out sometime. At first he said that he wasn’t sure & things in his life have just been crazy and indefinitely not getting better and anyone trying to get their life together should probably stay away from him, etc (his ex gives him a hard time about everything). So after responding with that I said that if it was me he could just say no, there would be no hard feelings …in which he then said, you know what why not, yes. What does this mean?? Is he into it or not?

Hi Eric Charles. Would you please tell me if this guy likes me or I’m just seeing things, since I have lack of experience? There is a guy, he and I work in the same place but different sections, at the begining, when he just started to talk to me, he always tried to make me smile,(since I don’t do that a lot, at all), he talks to me rarely, and I think sometimes he is looking for something into the section I work in, also everytime he sees me,(for the first time of the day), he smiles at me, but recently he hasn’t done that; so this is me asking you if is there any little chance that he likes me or he is just being nice or I’m just a desperate 26 years old woman who doesn’t even know what is a kiss, I’m just tired of see my colleagues/friends getting engaged/married, getting pregnant and still I have no one in my life. I am starting to believe that NOT everybody has a match, as in fiding the significant other. We almost never talk, so is it safe to say that he is not into me? and that, is he just being nice right?

Hi Eric,
Please do help me out with this situation, its literally driving me insane-
My brother got engaged and the girl’s brother is kinda cute and I’m definitely interested in him. He took my number from his sis and started texting me . He shares his problems and all with me and has also told me about his ex girlfriends and his past relationships. I know this is what someone does when u consider the other person as your friend but I’ve a feeling like it is something more than friendship or maybe I’m just seeing what I wanna see.
He appears to be too interested in my personal life and seems to be way too protective about me. Is it because I’m his friend/ would be relative or is there something more to it? He texts me almost all the time and sometimes he also calls up just to say hi or makes some excuse for calling up. When we meet up, he appears too shy and doesn’t speak much (or maybe he’s just dumb!).
The problem is I really really like him and want to get into a relationship with him(as desperate as it may sound) but he never seems to confess his feelings at all. I haven’t told him him anthing about my feelings either but I first wanna be sure if he is interested or not.
On one hand he acts like he is interested in me as well but on the other he never says anything. Its driving me crazy.
Please tell me if he is into me or or am I just assuming things. And either way how can I get him to ask me out ?

Eric:
i reallyreally likethis guy and we kissed just the other week but now he doesnt text me even though he thought i tasted good and wants to kiss me again we are not going out but i want to and im so confused about him all he does is tease me and make sexual remarks what do i do and does it sound like he likes me because i am so confused he has acted like this since forever and i play along just because he is funn please help

Good advice! Thanks..I like how u implied ur all famous “needing” remark. Made me laugh. Just one more thing though, what’s guys point of view of dating a single mom? His father and I are cooland he takes care of his son. I’m not looking for a daddy, and I make that clear.

Eric:
Is it a good idea to act like you don care and your to cool..when first seeing a guy non-exclusively? Even if he knows your playing that game? I need a good game plan for a very confusing guy..who does half the I’m Into signs, and the other half not Interested. I can usually read guys but not him.

Wow. You totally hit this one on the head. I am currently going through this situation in my current ‘relationship’ however over time when trust gets built all this comes as a piece of cake!