425+ Never Have I Ever Questions: The Ultimate List

So you want to play “Never Have I Ever” and feel included in the somewhat silly but entertaining  game.

Never Have I Ever is a good icebreaker if you’ve just met someone and want to get to know them better, and a fun way to get even closer to someone you already know. You can find out all sorts of wild, embarrassing stories that might shock you (for example, your straight-laced best friend might have had a wild past snorting drugs on top of a cop car. OK, not literally, but you know what I mean…)

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The point of “Never Have I Ever” is to discover information you wouldn’t have otherwise known, whether it’s interesting facts or surprising stories.

How Do You Play Never Have I Ever?

So how do you play this fun party game? Here are some “rules.”

 Step 1) Arrange yourselves into a circle

Step 2) Hold 5-10 fingers up and take turns saying “never have I ever ____”

Step 3) Insert something interesting you haven’t done

What you will do here is reveal some kind of personal information about yourself, a random fact or funny circumstance you’ve been in. This ranges from personal topics like cheating on someone you love to dancing naked in front of a mirror to getting the stomach flu (my own personal worst nightmare).

You can play it safe and mention something like, “Never have I ever gone to Hawaii” as well. You do not have to bear your soul—the point is to join in and have fun.

Step 4) As each person says their “Never have I ever,” anyone who has done what others are talking about puts a finger down.

If all their fingers are down it means the person is out of the game. The “winner” is the person who has fingers up at end of game.

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Twist: Never Have I Ever Drinking Game

If you are feeling frisky you can turn this into a drinking game. Instead of putting your finger down, take a shot. Warning: drinking games can get wild and out of control. Do not go into a dark place and start using a silly game to publicly humiliate your best friend or worst enemy!

I know two women who both had a crush on the same man. One liked this man for years, one just met him and found him attractive. These were women in their 30’s, mind you, acting like 12-year-old-girls.

So here is what one of them said while playing never have I ever…

“Never have I ever tried to steal someone’s guy right in front of their eyes.” You can imagine the train wreck!

Another obvious warning is not to drink illegally and do something crazy and take so many shots that you cannot sit up and end up going to the emergency room. This is not something I am advocating and don’t want you to take the wrong way.

Peer pressure is stupid and honestly makes zero sense; if you feel like you have had too much alcohol, stop! And don’t drink if you do not feel comfortable.

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Some Do’s & Don’ts

Don’t mention people’s names personally in a sarcastic way.

Examples:

“Never have I ever peed my pants drunk, Samantha.”

“Never have I ever been fat, Amy.”

“Never have I ever cheated on my boyfriend, Melissa.”

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Keep it lighthearted. Don’t take this game too seriously. Do not use it as an excuse or platform to air the dirty laundry of other people. And remember … no one is forcing you to play this game. If it makes you feel nervous, don’t play it! Don’t create problems for yourself that do not exist. Either have fun, let yourself feel free and silly, or don’t.

The key here is to understand that what you are looking to do is to build some kind of connection and rapport with others. I am not saying this is a way to build a long-term relationship and foster a connection, but it is certainly a learning lesson with regard to how important it is to be comfortable, lighthearted, and have fun! Your mood will determine whether you have fun playing something such as this. It’s something lighthearted, not serious and heavy.

Don’t take things personally and don’t put too much thought into it. As I said, the purpose is to get to know someone better (other people, your best friends, new people you’ve met, etc.). And hey, you might find out some crazy embarrassing moments about your friends and see people in new light!

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Now let’s get into specific questions. Since this is quite a long list, I divided it into categories:

1. Innocent
2. Sexual/romantic
3. Deep/serious
4. Embarrassing/funny
5. Shameful

All you have to do is add, “Never have I ever…” to the beginning of the this list to make an awesome never have I ever question:

Innocent Never Have I Ever Questions

The following are fun and lighthearted never have I evers. These are things you wouldn’t be ashamed to admit. Some of these are experiential and include fun and wild experiences. This is a great way to discover common ground, and learn a bit about someone. These questions are a good starting off point before the game really starts to heat up.

Never have I ever…

… shot a gun / been to a shooting range

… used a fake ID

… quit my job

… lied about my grade on a test

…. missed an episode of :insert show:

… ruined a surprise party

… heated something up in the microwave and forgot about it

… walked barefoot outside

… stayed up all night

… talked to a stranger about life

… been on a rollercoaster

… ran a marathon

… been on TV

… broken a bone

… dyed my hair

… cut my hair myself

… dyed my hair myself

… gone skydiving

… been fishing

… been electrocuted

… got a tattoo

… taken the subway

… gotten food poisoning

… lost my wallet

… swam with dolphins

… had an allergic reaction

… broken a phone

… stayed up for 3 days straight

… gone surfing

… pet a snake

… danced on a table at a club

… been to a gay club

… laughed so hard I almost peed

… had a conversation with someone famous

… hitchhiked

… picked up a hitch hiker

… wished I had a superpower

… traveled by myself

… gotten locked out of my house

… had poison ivy

… been locked out of my car

… rode a motorcycle

… cried while watching a movie

… laughed at a joke even though I didn’t think it was funny

… said I had to go to the bathroom as an excuse to get out of a conversation

… canceled plans so I could stay home and binge watch a show

… gotten gum stuck in my hair

… been obsessed with a boy band

… chopped off my hair and regretted it

… went on a camping trip

… been trapped in an elevator

… googled myself

… slept past noon

… stuck gum under the table instead of throwing it away

… eaten a bug

… been on the radio

… been to a music festival

… ridden a skateboard

… been in a food fight

… fallen asleep in the sun and gotten burned

… snuck food into a movie theater

… accidentally knocked over a sand castle

… been to Disneyland

… read all the Harry Potter books

… walked in my sleep

… driven a stick shift

… broken out in hives

… done the cinnamon challenge

… won a raffle

… over-plucked my eyebrows

… been in a hurricane

… been snowed in

… smoked a cigarette

… dreamed of being famous

… been to a fashion show

… ridden a camal

… pretended to be British

… been to mardi gras

… been in a haunted house

… gone hunting

… played chess

… dropped my phone in the toilet

… moved to a new city to start fresh

.. forgot where I parked my car

… changed a flat tire

… had a two day hangover

…. been an extra in a TV show or movie

… read an entire book in one day

… fallen asleep on public transportation

… accidentally broken a window

… been yelled at by a homeless person

… got a spray tan

… tried to be a vegan

… applied to be on a reality show

… eaten ice cream for dinner

… participated in a march/protest

… burned myself with a curling iron

… fallen asleep in a movie theater

… gotten a massage

… deleted a social media account

… ordered delivery every day of the week

… been in a helicopter

… been scuba diving

… played laser tag

… gone snow boarding

… been in a snowball fight

… gone on a juice cleanse

… eaten an entire carton of ice cream

… donated blood

… left a horrible review on Yelp

… been in a band

… smoked a cigar

… fooled someone on April Fool’s day

… been stung by a bee

… hid my face to avoid having a stop and chat with someone on the street

… completed a Rubik’s Cube

.. gone on a road trip

… played with a ouija board

… gone to a psychic

… killed a plant

… played spin the bottle

… dyed my hair a crazy color

… hated a present but said I loved it

… snuck into a concert

… snuck into the VIP lounge

… been the the opera

… lost something valuable

… crashed a wedding

… cut my own bangs and regretted it

… ridden a mechanical bull

… gone cliff diving

… swam with sharks

… been horseback riding

… broken a mirror

… believed in a conspiracy theory

… thought something that happened in my dream happened in real life

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Sexual/Romantic Never Have I Ever Questions…

Where’s the fun in this game if you’re not going to get some interesting sexual secrets out of the participants? These questions range from sweet and romantic, to “OMG I can’t believe you did that!”

Never have I ever…

… said “I love you” first

… had sex in public

… had a crush on a teacher

… done the walk of shame

… joined the mile high club

… went skinny dipping

… watched porn

… taken naked pictures of myself

… been caught having sex in public

… had sex with someone the same day as meeting them

… dated two people at the same time

… flashed someone

… questioned my sexuality

… gone skinny-dipping

… gone commando

… kissed someone without knowing their name

… done body shots

…. gone to a nude beach

… slipped my number to a waiter

… said I love you even though I didn’t mean it

… drunk dialed/texted someone I liked

… fallen asleep during sex

… flirted with a guy at a bar just to get a free drink

… had a friend with benefits

… hooked up with a friend’s ex

… asked a guy out

… booty called an ex

… made out with someone of the same sex

… wore a whipped cream bikini

… had a sexy dream about a celebrity

… sunbathed topless

… dated a coworker

… fallen in love at first site

… texted a nude selfie

… made out with someone twice my age

… sent a dirty text to the wrong person

… kissed two different people on the same day

… hooked up with someone 10 years younger than me

… regretted breaking up with someone

… been naked in public

… given a lap dance

… sent a sext

… received a nude picture

… had a threesome

… hooked up with someone while thinking about someone else

… lied about my “number” to avoid judgment

… been attracted to someone of the same sex

…. hooked up with a famous person

… broken someone’s heart

… been rejected by someone I like

… dated someone I met online

… kissed on the first date

… made out with someone in public

… been on a blind date

… kissed in the rain

… kissed someone I found unattractive

… played matchmaker

… made out with someone on a pool table

… been proposed to

… had a one night stand

… slept with an ex after we broke up

… performed a striptease for someone

… had a crush on a married man

… been to a strip club

… eaten food off someone’s naked body

… worn lingerie

… slept nude

… participated in role play in the bedroom

… kissed someone who doesn’t speak english

… kissed at the top of a ferris wheel

… been in a long distance relationship

… made out in an elevator

… had sex on the first date

… played strip poker

… gotten a Brazilian wax

… had sex in a jacuzzi

… hooked up with my boss

…had to cover up a hickey

… gone topless at the beach

… hooked up with someone while someone else was in the room

… taken a shower with someone else

… been to an “adult store”

Deep / Serious Never Have I Ever Questions

These are the more heavy topics, the ones that  might hit a nerve and bring up some unpleasant memories. This is where the game may get more intense…

Never have I ever…

… gotten physically hit

… been in a fist fight

… called the police

… been in an ambulance

… felt the presence of “paranormal activity”

… been in a car accident

… wished I could trade lives with someone

… been to jail

… faced my biggest fear

… been cheated on

… been in the hospital for a serious illness

… gotten stitches

… gotten arrested

… gotten fired

… taken the morning after pill

… fainted in public

… seen a dead body

… drove drunk

… lied for a friend

… wrote someone a letter I never planned to send

… cried drunk tears at a bar

… gone to bed angry

… punched someone in the face

… been really jealous of a friend

… accused a partner of cheating

… had a near-death experience

… slapped someone across the face

… had a pregnancy scare

… blocked someone on social media

… been blocked by someone on social media

… threw something when I was angry and broke it

… punched a wall

… hated a friend’s boyfriend

… had an STD scare

… made someone cry

… been bullied

… liked someone who didn’t like me back

… broken the law

… been slapped across the face

… crashed a car

… cried for absolutely no reason

… called the cops on someone

… been in the back of a police car

… run away from home

… been in handcuffs

… had a panic attack

… wished I was the opposite sex

… been to the emergency room

… accidentally started a fire

… been depressed

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Embarrassing Never Have I Ever Questions…

These are just part of the game! We’ve all had painfully embarrassing moments in our lives. They’re not the kinds of things we like to openly discuss, but it can be funny to think back on these moments, and it’s a bonding experience to find out others have experienced the same mortification!

Never have I ever…
… thrown up in front of someone I like

… sent an e-mail or text to the wrong person

… thrown up from drinking

… tripped and fallen in front of a lot of people

… had a wardrobe malfunction

… thrown up on a rollercoaster

… walked around with toilet paper stuck to my shoe

… fallen into a pool

… run out of gas on the highway

… had my bikini knocked off by a wave in the ocean

… gotten really drunk on a first date

… had an embarrassing picture or photo posted of me online

… asked someone when they were due when they weren’t pregnant

… walked in on my parents when they were doing it

… realized my outfit was on inside out after wearing it the entire day

… forgot to wear a bra

… wet the bed

… accidentally butt-dialed someone

… burst out laughing at a really inappropriate time

… called someone the wrong name

… gotten to the checkout counter and realized I didn’t have my wallet

… been caught picking my nose

… messed up when making a speech in front of a lot of people

…. had a foreign object stuck in me

… tried to subtly pick a wedgie in public

… sent my boss an e-mail meant for someone else

… walked straight into a door

… been embarrassed about something I did when I was drunk

… fallen down the stairs in front of a lot of people

… fallen while wearing heels

… laughed so hard water shot out of my nose

… snap chatted while drunk and immediately regretted it the next day

… drunkenly confessed my love to someone

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Shameful Never Have I Ever Questions

This category is for things you might not want to readily admit. Now I’m not saying you should be ashamed if you’ve done any of these things, but they’re the sort of things you don’t usually post on social media for all to read about, which is why I’m putting them in the “shameful” category. These are some of your closely guarded secrets, moments you’re not exactly proud of, mistakes you may have made. And sharing them is all part of the fun in this game!

Never have I ever…

… made up a rumor about my close friend

…. lied about where I was

… cheated on a test

… cheated on a significant other

… lied about my age

… lied about my weight

… snooped through someone’s phone

… called someone a “b****”

… bought an outfit too small as “inspiration” to lose weight

… gone on a starvation diet

… said I was five minutes away when I hadn’t even left the house yet

… taken illegal drugs

… drunk dialed an ex

… had a crush on a friend’s boyfriend

… said the wrong name while getting intimate

… been in credit card debt

… lied about how much money I had

… posted a picture online with the sole intention of making an ex jealous

… lied to a cop

… been caught in a lie

… totally blacked out

… been kicked out of a bar

… swore I wouldn’t tell a secret … and then told it

… stolen something cheaper than $10

… stolen something more expensive than $100

… taken more than 10 selfies to try and get a good one

… stalked an ex’s new girlfriend on social media

… practiced kissing on my hand

… lied about why I didn’t call someone back

… faked being sick to get a day off

… ran over an animal while driving

… cried to get out of a speeding ticket

… dined and dashed

… peed in a pool

… gone more than 3 days without showering

… eaten an entire pizza

… gotten my car towed

… faked someones signature

… re-gifted something that was gifted to me

… told my friend she didn’t look fat even though she did

… lied to impress someone

… worn a really provocative outfit for attention

… lied on my resume
… peed outside

… given a guy a fake number

… texted while I was driving

… parked in a handicapped spot

… gotten drunk at work

… gotten botox

… taken a picture down because it didn’t get a lot of likes

… plagiarized a paper

… failed a test

… pretended to be on the phone to avoid someone

… forgotten a close friend’s birthday

… returned something to a store after wearing it

… not told someone they had food stuck in their teeth

… swore I wasn’t lying when I was lying

… lied to get out of jury duty

… snuck into a movie without paying

… been caught in a lie

… eaten food out of the garbage

… eaten an entire box of cookies in one sitting

… borrowed something from a friend and didn’t give it back

… taken a sick day when I was really hungover

… kept something that I found on the street

… said a baby was cute when I thought it was ugly

… told someone “I’m so sorry, I didn’t see this text until just now” when I really saw it as soon as it came but didn’t feel like answering

… lost money betting

… forgot a family member’s birthday

… ghosted on someone

… gotten a tattoo that I regret

… used someone else’s toothbrush

… faked an injury to get out of something

… cheated in a contest

… had a crush on my boss

… made a prank call

… toilet papered someone’s house

… spied on my neighbors

… said it was my birthday when it wasn’t to get something for free

… stuffed my bra

… passed out with all my clothes on

… tried a fad diet

… yelled at a telemarketer

… snooped through someone’s medicine cabinet

… gotten a fake ID taken away

… tried dog food

… said I wasn’t wearing makeup when I really was

… eaten food off the floor

… blamed someone else for something I did

… been afraid of the dark

… stolen a book from the library

… shown up places hoping to “accidentally” bump into someone I liked

… started a rumor

… made a friend take a photo off social media because I thought I looked bad

… rejected someone for a superficial reason

… said something was homemade when it was really store bought

… eaten my feelings

… ran a red light because no cars were coming

… pretended to understand a political discussion when I had no idea what they were talking about

… thrown a drink in someone’s face

… lied about liking something to impress a guy

… been scolded by a stranger for engaging in too much PDA

… photoshopped a picture to look skinnier

… broken a promise

… hooked up with a friend’s ex

… stalked someone I liked

… been caught shoplifting

… stolen money from my parents

… had a crush on a friend’s dad

… taken a “duck face” selfie

… stayed in my pajamas all day

… not washed my hair for a week

… been the other woman

… broken something that wasn’t mine and didn’t say anything

… worn the same undergarments three days in a row

… stole office supplies from work

… said I had an emergency to get out of a bad date

… wore the same outfit three days in a row

… broken something in a store and didn’t say anything

… lied about being a student to get a discount

… shared food with my pet

… gotten plastic surgery

… not picked up after my dog and left it on the street

… not left a tip at a restaurant

… drank a bottle of wine by myself

…. started a sentence by saying “not to be mean but…” and then said something mean

… lied while playing “never have I ever”

I hope this article gave you some good ideas for fun never have I ever questions to ask to really get to know someone and have some fun. Now I have a question for you. Do you know what inspires a man to commit to a woman? Do you know what makes him see you as a rare gem that he can’t let go of, a woman he wants to be with forever? If not, read this next: The #1 Things Men Desire in a Woman

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