2 days w/o texts, is it time to delete his number?

I am just confused by the signals he is sending, why doesn’t he ask me to be his gf yet?

Does that indicate he does not love me enough?

He is preparing for graduate school application so he is busy with studying, but he was busy like this before. Is it time for me to drop him?

umm, I don’t really understand that girlfriend status/exclusivity concept, cuz in my country (middle Europe), if a couple starts holding hand, kissing etc., it normally means they are boyfriend and girlfriend already. most of the people I know never asked such question like will you be my official exclusive girlfriend or whatever.

but. I’m pretty sure that not texting for 2 days may really mean just nothing at all. I even think it wouldn’t hurt, if you contacted him first this time. actually, my bf did this a few times in out first two months of relationship, and once or twice even later, which got me a bit nervous, but I waited and he eventually got back and everything was ok. and sometimes I just texted him first, no big deal. in those first two months, he was silent usually because he got something on his mind and yeah, he needed his cave. i know it, because he told me, I didn’t even have to ask. and other times he was just very tired and busy, or sick. what I mean, if you didn’t hear from him for like a week, it would be really weird, but 2 days are not so much, so don’t worry, be happy :)

Relax a little…

Are you sure he’s physically ok?

2 days are nothing, some guys disappear for 5 or a week and come back like nothing happened, maybe he regretted that ‘gf thing for a party’ that he said to you, or he is trying to test you if you will freak out without communication. You also said to him: “I miss u already”, he probably felt a girlfriendish needy vibe with that phrase. Why should he keep in touch when he knows you’re so into him? he probably thinks ‘hmmm let me ‘soft next’ her, I will disappear for a bit and talk to other chicks because I know this one will be right here waiting for me.’
Don’t message him. Just keep doing your things, see other people, he might text you again in a few days. If he doesn’t, you know it’s over

relax and wait it out.

Do not contact nor blow up his phone.

he’s freaking after the l word and waiting to see your reaction.

just go about your own life and he’ll be in touch

Of course not! It’s been two days, just relax and let it be.

Don’t wait by the phone. Go make plans with your girlfriends, or make plans for yourself.

Your radius of control stops at the tip of your nose. There is absolutely nothing in his behaviour to suggest that he’s not into you, but if you do something like delete his number or get mad, you’re going to ruin it.

I’m going out on a date later tonight with a guy I hadn’t heard from in 3 weeks, before he rang me last week and chatted for over half an hour. I don’t know where it’s going, but it’s fine, because I’m busy enough without creating drama where none exists.

Don’t create drama where it doesn’t exist. ????

Hi all,

Something not right for sure. I had a class with him today, he did not show up. Of course there has not been texts from him since Wednesday night.

I could not help but texted him, hey are you ok? No reply.

2 hours later I texted him, are you alive and breathing? No reply so far, has been 3 hours.

This is so unlike him, maybe he is DEAD? Omg, can people receive text when they are out of country? Maybe he is out of country? Has anyone had a smiLar situation before?

I am getting concerned.

you need to calm down! if he is dead you will find out soon. Maybe he got a cold, had a car crash or was abducted by aliens, maybe he skipped class because he doesn’t want to see you. guys are capable to do anything (even skip class, or work) when they are fed up and don’t want to see a woman. If you keep messaging more it will only make you look desperate. I think you should read an article called “Disappearing Reappearing Man: What To Do?”, google now, it will help you a lot.

Maybe he is dead and you just need to move on.

Lol, whiterose u may be right, I think he is dead, seriously.

First of all, it is Not his personality to run away from me. He has a very manly personality. He is confrontational and is not afraid of getting into fights.

Secondly, iPhone still shows those messages are not read yet, it will mean different things if they were read but he has not responded.

Thirdly, he just recovered from flu 2 wks ago. It is hard to imagine that he is sick again?

Fourth, last week he skipped class as well due to a business trip. He called me before class and told me he won’t be there. This time there was nothing. It is just odd

Fifthly, he is just not a jerk like that. Anyway, I feel like he is either dead or out of the country. This is too much drama, I am getting tired of him.

You’re going to burn this relationship because he’s not responded when you want him to?

Have you read NONE of Eric’s articles? You’re sabotaging yourself, and you’ll only have yourself to blame.