2 weeks-unread ex-boyfriend's messages. Should I read them?


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    Ess

    I hooked up with a guy too soon and loved him too soon. Within the same month, I started seeing his true colors. He was rude, unempathetic, a hater, a snob, extra selfish, and so much more. I decided to leave him before it was too late, so I broke up with him, and ignored him when he continued pursuing me. A few days later he sent me a message full of insults and slut-shaming, accusing me falsely of sleeping around with men. I couldn’t believe the words came from him. After seeing no response from me still, he apologized. In the process of getting me back, he insulted me again. I felt so offended that I decided to leave without a goodbye. It’s been two weeks. I’ve not opened the messages that he sent. They could be positive or negative, I don’t know. Should I open them, or delete them? I’m scared to find more insults that will affect me. Should I read the texts? Should I also contact him for closure?

    #834649 Reply
    Raven

    Oh Honey, What good would reading the messages do you?

    Are you hoping they are nice messages? Maybe he’s reconsidered? Maybe you’ll get back together?

    Closure?!
    Blocking him is the only closure you need…

    #834931 Reply
    Caetru

    No, don’t read his messages, just delete them and block him. You made the right decision to leave when you did. He’s showing you his true colors and things will only get worse later down the road. You don’t deserve to be hurt and insulted. Don’t invite that back into your life.

    #835042 Reply
    T from NY

    No. You should not.

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