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Rose
This dude I met on a dating website wanted my phone number kind of quickly and well, we started texting, not much really. Last time he asked me what I was looking for and I was honest, I told him I wanted to date, and see if that can become something meaningful, I told him I was already in bed and said goodnight. That was like four days ago and not a peep from him until this morning when I got a notification of him adding me to a social media I don’t even use lol… But still no text or call???? … I obviously didn’t add him back because I don’t even use that particular media. Anyways, I saw his profile and no pictures of him and he’s added like 500 people from which only 50 something have him added. This is so weird. I don’t know what to do, text and ask why he added me, add him back? (Doesn’t sound good) … I have nothing up anyways because I never use it. Haha … This is weird.
What to do? … I usually never initiate texting so feels weird to ask.Khadija
Rose,
I must say some of these men on dating sites can be a little odd.
There’s no reason to contact him about why he wants to add you.
If he hasn’t asked you out on a date, I wouldn’t pay him any attention.
Don’t add him and keep in mind there are plenty of other men online.Raven
Ignore his lame, lazy ass…
Rose
Yeah, he probably wants to “get to know me” without making any effort??? … Weird! … This one’s new for me lol
Sherri
I never friend guys I’m dating
redcurleysue
So he added you and 499 other women? Lol.
patsytshirt
unless he send you a text msg or call you stating clearly the day hour of a date, ignore all those stupid social media requests. He is lazy like most guys in this cyber era, other women ruin it for good women like us because they accept those requests (oh my god he added me on facebook! *faints* “I’m gonna inbox him and ask him out!”) and initiate a conversation and start pursuing those guys. He has fingers, he should type a proper msg. Plus online dating guys usually send mass requests and msgs to several women hoping that one fall in their net.
Rose
Yeah, I don’t know if the others are dating prospects too or he’s just one of those guys with 1000+ friends lol… It’s not even FB by the way, It’s Google Circles, haha… I don’t even know how that one works.
Still not a word from him…
I’ll just leave things as they are, if he expects me to add him, he’s gonna be disappointed, haha… too bad cause he looks kinda cute.
Rose
patsytshirt,
I used to be one of those girls, hahahahaha… Until I found out they add so many women and have them feed their silly little egos by liking their pictures and following them like little puppies, it’s sad.
I got a friend request like two months ago from a super HOT dude out of nowhere, model face and body so I asked him why? … He said he liked to have hot women as friends… I got curious and stalked his profile for a while lol… all women from all ages, whorshiping him and his hot, hot body. I ignored him and his stupid request after what I saw.
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