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Lane.
Caylee
OK I need some advice regarding this me and this guy have known each other for 10 years we slept together when 1st met then ended up best friends then ended up seeing each other again in last year or so after he got divorced we were just Fwb he said he only wanted this and it suits me as a Single parent who works etc. Sometimes He would get jealous if I spoke about another guy ask about my ex etc conplain I don’t text 1st. Last we saw each other everything was OK until after sex he went a bit funny we didn’t talk for 2 weeks then he texted me saying we prob should stop talking unfair him hitting me up just for sex etc he then deleted me off Snapchat etc. I have to admit I was a bit hurt as it came out of know where suppose I was maybe starting to catch feelings. So we’ve been no contact until today when he texted me just hi I’m over the hurt now moving on with my life and I’m thinking do I reply to him or just leave it as it is no contact?? Is he just hitting me up because he’s bored lonely etc?
I do miss him as a friend. But kind of feel this has gone on long enough now lol.
Someone please tell me what to do 🤣🤣🤣
Emily
Only he can tell you why he messaged you. I would not message back. Sounds like your casual situation ran its course.
Lane
I would respond with something short and light, such as “I miss our friendship. Hopefully we can go back to being just friends again when we’ve had some space and time apart.”
I don’t think you need to cut contact with people forever just because it didn’t work out. I think this would be a good time to come up with some short and long term goals and focus on those and your child right now. In time I’m sure the two of you will work it out but I would take sex off the table from hereon as it can become too complicated when there’s no specific objective or goal involved; especially when one wants one thing and the other doesn’t.
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