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Karol.
Karol
His cousin who is my senior and he were having a normal conversation over texting. When she asked him how come he had started to like living here. Is it because of some girl.
And he replied”Its not like it’s Miss Karol.”
She asked him if something was wrong between us both.
N he replied ‘ no! Not at all.
(She asked me today if something was going on between us.Its not like she and I talk everyday. We all hangout as a group sometimes though.
There are mix signals from him i took as no because i know otherwise he would have initiated.So i kinda started avoiding him a bit.so We aren’t communicating now. But he lied to his cuz.
And suddenly mentioning my name like this to his cousin,even she was surprised.
What could it mean? Have he ever thought about me in that way or Is he actually being totally platonic towards me.
Anon 2
Eh?
Karol
Lol !
I’m more embarrassed posting over such a small thing. But it is confusing for me too. He is a friend n we get along well but I didn’t assume that he would be interested in me when i had a crush on him. And then I concluded that it was better for me to keep distance as he didn’t show clear interest in me more than a friend.so i have been avoiding him lately.
K
Karol this is pretty poor use of the English language and it’s damn near impossible to figure out what you’re even talking about. If you want advice, please write something more understandable.
Newbie
For me its a bit difficult to understand it too, but what i can tell is that you are reading signs in meaningless things. You have a crush on this guy but if he is not actually trying to get to know you by asking you out, i think its only platonic.
kaye
This is what I understand from your post. His cousin is older than you and all of you hang out as a group sometimes. She asked if he liked living there because of some girl and he said, It’s not like it’s Karol (meaning you)!
To me it sounds like he’s making it pretty clear he’s not interested in you in a romantic way. Even to the point his cousin asked both you and him if something was wrong between you because of his response.
You are absolutely right if he were interested he would initiate. Sounds totally platonic to me.
Karol
@K sorry ! I am not good at English.
Thankyou everyone. Yeah! I guess I should not waste my time hoping for signs from him.
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