Am I taking this the wrong way?

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October 2, 2024 at 5:10 pm #944987 Reply

Michelle

Guy called me last night, I was sleeping and didn’t hear the phone. He didn’t leave a message and usually doesn’t. I texted him this morning saying sorry I missed your call and talk tonight?

He read it but didn’t respond. Later today I texted him a link to something and he responded and texted like normal. I then asked if we were talking tonight. He replies…sure.

Doesnt sound too enthusiastic does it? Or am I being picky? I want him to want to talk to me but I also don’t want to be begging. He did call me first so what gives?

October 4, 2024 at 1:31 pm #944988 Reply

Maddie

Did you end up talking?

October 4, 2024 at 2:14 pm #944989 Reply

Mary

I interpret it as he didn’t want you to feel you needed to accommodate him. Try to word things where you aren’t asking a question so you can move on in your thoughts through the day. “Sorry I missed…should be free this eve to talk if your schedule allows.”

October 4, 2024 at 7:20 pm #944991 Reply

Michelle

We did talk. I called him. He was on his way to catch up on some work and was sitting in the parking lot talking to me so I told him I felt bad I was stopping him from finishing his work.

I probably should have just called him the next day when I was free. Just seemed weird he would call and then not seem to care if we talked the next day.

October 4, 2024 at 7:20 pm #944992 Reply

Michelle

We did talk. I called him. He was on his way to catch up on some work and was sitting in the parking lot talking to me so I told him I felt bad I was stopping him from finishing his work.

I probably should have just called him the next day when I was free. Just seemed weird he would call and then not seem to care if we talked the next day.
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