Ask Me Anything – Sunday, December 13th @ 8 PM ET

I have been privately seeing a guy that I have known for over 20 years. I am divorced with 2 children and he has never been married. We have rekindled our friendship and more. I know he loves me and I love him. I really do believe we were meant for each other. He has always been in my heart. He is a good man and has never hurt me and has always been there for me. We have not gone out yet and he just comes to see me whenever I ask him too. He doesn’t text or call me because he knows I have priorities and he wants me to let him know when I’m available. I don’t have a lot of free time my children are almost always with me when they aren’t in school and I’m at work during the day. He hasn’t met my children yet and said he was concerned about how they would feel about meeting him and us seeing each other. In a way it makes me feel good that he’s not putting any pressure on me , but in another way I do wish he would initiate more contact. What do you think? Is this common with some men for them to wait on the woman to contact them especially in my situation? I really want to have a relationship with this man and I think that’s what he wants too, but I’m not sure. I’m thinking it’s just going to take some time because of my situation.

I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years. In the first year my boyfriend showed he cared so much, but he hasn’t been so caring recently until he started hanging out with his friend who cheats on his girlfriend since high school. I’m afraid his friend is a bad influence on my boyfriend but I don’t want to tell him he can’t be friends with him. His friend told him he just turned 21 so he wants to have fun. I have even caught my boyfriend lying to me about going bar hopping with his friends. We met when he was 20 and I was 21 so I feel like he just wants to go out with his friends more now that he is 21. I want this to work out but I don’t know if I should just tell him he can have fun and we’ll go our separate ways. Please help! Thank you!

i would like to get serious with one guy and settle into a relationship. But i usually only hook up or have friends with benefits. How do i find out if the guys i hook up with wants to just only hook up with me or he would actually want to be in a relationship with me? I don’t want to bluntly ask however because i don’t want to come across as desperate or clingy because i know there’s guys out there that don’t like or find its a turn off by girls that are serious, like they don’t want any strings attached. So how do i ask or find out if theres a chance or possibly lead him to be committed to me without him actually knowing i want to?

This ex left me months ago for another woman. I was heart broken! But never contacted him or anything now I think he left her but I’m not completely sure. I’m ok now but still like him and he’s been txt me and trying to get together Again .. He’s online in site fishing .. So I don’t know if I should meet him again or just let it go

Can a guy and girl who are both attracted to each other and have had an amazing connection, stay as just “FRIENDS” (after an attempt at dating, but did not work out since Both called it off due to not being on the same page as to when to have sex)? I am a virgin and wanted to only have sex with someone I am in a committed relationship. The guy wants to have it sooner. After calling it off, he has not been responding as quickly to my texts like before, but he still does. Then suddenly after almost 5 days of no response, he texted me to go get a drink. And when we met up, we just picked up where we left off, it was just very natural and even talked more a about things we could do in 2016, which involves traveling together. Also, before we called it off, we’ve kissed passionately multiple times (sometimes a steamy makeout session for a good 45mins), but he claims that he does not have feelings for me, besides really enjoy being around me and just liking me because “i am a genuine and great person”. He also said he could see himself with me and doing all the things we’ve already planned, but he does not know how we would be able work through the fact that I am not ready for sex this early in the relationship. Does he really have no feelings for me at all or any feelings when we kissed? We’ve only known each other for about a month, but both feel that we’ve known each other and connected for much longer. What do you think is going on? Thank you!

My question is I have a close friend at work who over the course of a year and a half has become more to me than just a friend,and I might add that we go back and forth in how we talk and flirt with each other. It has been a while since I have dated but when a man consistently looks at you in a certain way and talks to you differently than other women he deals with am I crazy or is he into me? He has has denied it, but I am not crazy because others who are around us think we are a couple. I don’t want to appear like I am chasing him but I also don’t want to act to aloof and have him think I am not interested in him because I am very interested in him … What do I so?