Asks me out… for Drinks

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  • April 21, 2015 at 8:24 pm #421027 Reply
    Drinks or Nah

    I just wanted to know what it means when a guy asks you out for drinks versus asking you out for dinner?

    I met this man on tinder and we have yet to meet. Ya, I know, Tinder is meant to be hook up only, but I have actually been out on dates with men there that have taken me on nice dates, no sex involved.
    Does this basically mean he just wants to get me “drunk” or am I reading way into this and this is just a casual thing that people in there 20’s do?

    April 21, 2015 at 8:44 pm #421028 Reply
    Raven

    Going for drinks is easy & casual – first steps. What happens if you don’t like him & you’re stuck having dinner with a schlub?

    I’m EONS old & do drinks with guys all of the time.

    April 21, 2015 at 8:47 pm #421029 Reply
    Drinks or Nah

    True that Raven! Could have one drink and go our separate ways. good point :)

    April 21, 2015 at 9:03 pm #421031 Reply
    Raven

    Typically what happens, in my case, drinks extend into dinner :)

    May 7, 2015 at 6:59 pm #426217 Reply
    James

    It means he knows dinner is a bad first date. Period.

    May 7, 2015 at 7:34 pm #426226 Reply
    Ashley

    it could go either way but this one guy I went out with ONLY asked me to go for drinks with him & it became obvious what his motive was lol. the first date I didn’t think anything of it but he KEPT asking me to the bar & after awhile he made inappropriate comments & you could tell his mission was strictly hoping to score so I say the first time is fine but if he doesn’t ask you to dinner or something more date-like then he likely wants to get you drunk

    May 7, 2015 at 8:00 pm #426231 Reply
    redcurleysue

    Asking a woman to meet for drinks is the same as a coffee but with a different atmosphere..more relaxed.

    The next date should be something else though – and he should pick you up – plan the date – pay and bring you home safely. That is a date.

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