Betrayed by ex best friend

@Admin, BOS is back after being told repeatedly she’s no longer welcome to post here because of the all the crazy she spreads. She doesn’t want help she’s just ranting. Please remove all of her posts and block her IP address, for about the millionth time. And forgive me, I’m not using my usual handle on this post because I don’t want her harassing me.

BOS, I’m one of the regulars that has been watching you post here for years on end. You always think someone is stalking you and you have a whole lot of problems you just want to rant about, you’re not trying to solve anything. And that’s why the site admin has told you that you’re no longer welcome to post here. It’s been a good long while now but I guess you’re drinking again or whatever, no one else wants to listen to you and you can’t resist coming back. You refuse to get any help which is sad. So the admin will show up here soon and block your IP address yet again and tell you yet again to stop posting here. SMH.

Poor, delusional thing, I’ll break it down for you in tiny, manageable chunks, since you’re clearly not grasping reality.

Gaslighting, sweetie, is when someone manipulates another person into doubting their own sanity, memory, or perception. Yeah, I know, it sounds crazy (heh), but stick with me here. It’s a thing, and you’re doing it. To. Me.

Let’s take the fascinating case of Amber Heard and Johnny Depp’s relationship, which you’re trying to convince me was just a normal, healthy partnership. Please. We all know Johnny Depp was the real victim here (sarcasm alert!). I mean, who needs evidence or testimony when we have your expert opinion?

Here’s the thing: gaslighting often involves denying or distorting reality, making the victim question their own experiences and memories. Sound familiar? You’re telling me I’m crazy for thinking Johnny Depp’s behavior was, at the very least, questionable? That Amber Heard was just a “crazy ex” making up abuse allegations for fun?

Newsflash: the court documents, witness testimony, and evidence all suggest otherwise. But hey, don’t worry about facts, just keep telling me I’m the crazy one. That’s how gaslighting works, right?

Let me make it simpler for you: just because you say something doesn’t make it true. The world doesn’t revolve around your opinions or your distorted view of reality. There are these things called “facts” and “evidence” that can be, you know, verified.

So, go ahead and keep trying to gaslight me. I’ll just be over here, firmly grounded in reality, with the evidence and facts on my side. You can keep shouting “YOU’RE CRAZY!” all you want; I’ll just smile, nod, and say “Ah, bless your heart.”

Now, do you want to try to spin this another way, or are you ready to accept that, maybe, just maybe, you’re the one who’s a tad… misinformed?

Observer, I’m with you. I hope the admin/keymaster chimes in soon. :)