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Lane.
Miriam
BF complains lately he smells something funny down there after we have sex. We both shower before and he still says this.
I dont like oral so we avoid that but he fingers me first. I find he’s rather mechanical about it all too. He’s a computer software guy and there isn’t much sensuality on his part. Emotionless too.
My main issue is about his complaint about my private parts. I don’t smell anything bad. I put my finger in after and it’s just his cum, that’s it.
I’m so depressed about this that I don’t even want to take my clothes off in front of him anymore!
What should I do??
Sandybean
If that is a new development and he’s never brought it up in the past, you might want to go and see a obgyn because you could have an infection or an STI. Many of them change your scent and your boyfriend might be picking up on that. It’s odd that you don’t notice a difference though but it’s never a bad idea to ask an expert for safety and piece of mind.
If it’s not that, I have no idea why he would suddenly be off your scent. Seems like a distancing thing to me so you might want to ask yourself if your dynamic has changed in general.
Raven
We all have odors… it’s natural.
Emotionless sex… What a turn on-
K
Why are you taking this as such an insult?? This is important information. It sounds like you’ve got a bigger problem with him from the way you describe sex.
In the meantime, it’s really important you get to the OBGYN – you could have vaginosis, yeast, trich or something else that needs immediate treatment.
Lane
I think you may be taking this the wrong way. I remember my eldest son coming to me about his platonic female HS friend saying she emitted a bad vaginal odor and didn’t know how to approach her about it without it sounding offensive. I told him that there’s most likely some underlying medical issue involved and she needs to go see a GYN. He did tell her in a gentle friendly way and sure enough she went to a GYN and was soon cleared up!
I would go get it checked out. If it turns out to be nothing then I would suspect he’s coming up with reasons to distance himself from you. If so, you now know he was concerned about your health.
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