Bf seems very ungrateful.

I’ve been with my bf for a while now. We have a great time when we are together. I am a natural giver and I give from my heart. He just seems so ungrateful at times. I care about his well being and health so I make sure he eats good, I bought him some vitamins to help him out as well, I make sure his health is ok period in any way that I can. I make sure that his emotional health is good by being there for him when he needs to vent, whether he has to fuss about someone I’m there. Spiritually I’m there for him. Recently I noticed that he was eyeing some shoes that he really like. The shoes even matched a Nike outfit that I bought him before. So just because I bought those shoes for him and they were about $300. He knew about me buying them already so it wasn’t much of a shocker. I was on the phone with him and I got the email that the shoes will be delivered soon. I said “yay aren’t you excited!” He responds back “what do I have to be excited about” and it absolutely killed my mood. I’m sensitive when it comes to him. That hurt on the inside. Like I don’t understand why he would even say that. The most I ever got from him was some workout clothes from Marshalls and I was so happy for it. I acted like he gave me a diamond ring or something. It’s because I am appreciative. I don’t care the amount of money on the gift I receive it’s the thought of it. He didn’t even care what I did. Smh. I made him a whole self care basket just because. The shoes I made a another basket with the Jordan’s in it, some high end cologne, gold chain, and some other items. All because I love him and I know he loves these things. Him saying “what do I have to be excited for” cut me deep. Showed zero appreciation. I at a point where k can’t even talk to him on the phone without that playing in the back of my mind. There’s absolutely nothing he could say to “clean” that statement up. I even asked what he meant and he said he didn’t mean it that way and when asked how he meant it he couldn’t tell me a straight up answer. Like I feel like a true idiot for buying this crap now and I really bought it outta the kindness in me. I saw how much he liked these items. I feel dumb now.