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Eric Charles.
Rhonda
Been seeing this guy on an off for two-years. He finally told me he only wants FWB.
Just invited him to “stop by” tonight if he’s free. His response, was “sorry, i can’t today.”
In the past when we try to make plans, he’ll often suggest another day, today he did not, but i know he’s super busy.
I know i can’t read his mind, but don’t know if this is a blowoff or he’s just busy
Thoughts?
Anna
why would you even want to read his mind ? he said FWB, meaning I will contact you if I ever want to have sex… on and off for 2 years? you have no other options? I feel like you are just wasting your time , even if it is just FWB
Rhonda
Thanks, Anna.
Sometimes he contact me to have sex, and I can’t make it.
But don’t know, if this time he really is too busy or its just a blow off, because there was no request for another day, which sometimes he does sometimes he doesn’t
And yes, i agree – waste of my time. And i will go silent
Just have no clue when i guy says, i can’t today if that’s legit or some other message.
Anna
hard to tell really, he is single, so he might and probably is dating others but he doesn’t have to tell you his reasons.
if he really is just FWB for you, then it shouldn’t really matter, because you shouldn’t care :)
Rhonda
Agree! Thank you!
Eric CharlesOK… you didn’t give much to go on here, so let me ask you this:
Why *shouldn’t* you be FWB?
Why *shouldn’t* he be doing what he’s doing here?
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