Boyfriend follows instagram "models"?

My advice is to ignore it and try to limit social media use, I only go on things in the mornings and then sign out for the rest of the day as my bf used to irritate me with comments on ex girlfriends posts. That way you see less and he’s not getting a reaction which he prob enjoys ! Maybe follow a few good looking men 😁

I’m sorry. Everyone is saying there’s nothing wrong with it. But I had the SAME THING happen to me. Mine was following hundreds of half-naked women. Then i saw that some were commenting on his page. Then I did more research and found he was FB friends with some of them and lived in the part of town HE NEVER wanted to BRING ME TO.

In the end turns out he was living with another woman. THE ENTIRE time we were together.

Girl research and watch out. I’m sorry but there’s a reason he’s following them. Check and see if they follow HIM…

Proceed with caution. Seriously.

I had the same thing happened to me.. half naked girls on his insta. It didnt sit well with me for weeks…i HAD to tell him n i did. Good thing my guy knew i was uncomfortable with it so he unfollowed them. Men r visual creatures but if its something that really bothers u, they will know what to do. But be prepared if the outcome takes a turn for the worse

Do you seriously htink he has a chance of dating these beautiful women? Of course not. And don’t call them hoes. That’s really rude. It may not be your thing, but people can pick on you too for how you judge people and probably your own social media habits. Such as why are you stalking your boyfriends friends on social media?

It’s not about acting secure, it’s about being secure. I personally think it’s immature for grown men to do this, when they can view soft porn in private without exposing their preferences and personal life for all the world to see. But you picked him!

hahah I am glad Anne ohio said this. I was thinking t myself, am I the only one who’d never deal with a dude if he does all those “follows”. I honestly think that an intelligent mature man would not be “following models on instagram”. I know teenagers (boys!) who think it is stupid. Duh!

Oh c’mon lane. He would TELL you if he looked at porn or dirty pics? That’s a p-whipped man. Don’t fool yourself. It gets tiring hearing you go on and on about your guy. It reminds me of the adage, if you have to keep bringing the topic up and tel everyone how wonderful things are, they probably aren’t. And it shows a high level of insecurity. It’s my boyfriend does this. My boyfriend does that. My boyfriend never lies. My boyfriend is an open book. My boyfriend is still married but he loves me and is leaving her now to be with me, because my boyfriend is so in love with me. My boyfriend always communicates. My boyfriend has great boundaries. He sees a sloppy drunk ex at a party we are at and he goes out of his way to apologize to me about it. That’s how much my boyfriend cares about me. My boy, my boyfriend, my boyfriend.

It reminds me of some girlfriends I have had in the past that you want to tell them to just shut up. They are so insecure they can’t have a conversation without injecting some fact or mention of the boyfriend. It’s as if they constantly have to prove to others and themselves that the guy is really the right guy for her. I used to do this too in the past which is hy is recognize the pattern. And I can tell you the reason I kept talking about him was I was fixated. Having him became my identify. Just like it has with you.

Oh you talk about being so independent, and busy. Yet not a response to any threads on here don’t include you bringing up the topic of your relationship as THE example every woman on here should emulate. And the non stop talking about it shows how much your mind is consumed with this. Sure it makes sense to share experiences from time to time but you are OTT in your need to make sure everyone knows how supposedly blissful things are. It’s sad. I’m sure other womenon here can see the same thing. Because when you are confident in your relationship, then it just IS. It doesn’t become all you can talk about. It comes up occasionally in passing but not part of every response you give to a conversation.

I know you will blast me and keep trying to prove how great you have it. And you will prove my point by responding to this and calling me jealous of you. Unhappy. A troll. Lonely. All the men’s things you typically say. For once maybe examine your own behavior and be objective. I’m sure you would be the first to tell another woman that the lady doth protest too much. You just can’t see that in yourself. Being humble isn’t in your genetic makeup.

Lane 😂

No lane, you never disappoint. You did exactly how we all predicted. I was not trolling. I was being sincere in my observations about your behavior on here lately. It feels really high schoolish. It’s true. People really do reveal who they really are over time. I’m not the only one to notice.to the OP. Men are not going to admit they watch porn or look at dirty and provocative pics. As Lane once said, and this is at least true. All men look. They are wired to be visual. Apparently, if you are in denial about it, like lane, you will make up stories in your head that your man will blurt out in guilt or total transparency, the last time he jerked off to another’s woman’s picture.
OP if he is a good boyfriend otherwise ignore it. The internet is full of fake and fantasy. If you can’t get past it tell him and see if he cares enough about you to abstain. I agree tha most men with a real life don’t waste their time playing on Instagram.

Anon, you are slightly missing the point. Nobody said “don’t date a guy that goes on Instagram”. It is about whom you follow there.

And do not mix porn with IG. Those are two different dimensions. Most men watch porn but only titsy ditsy ones follow models on IG. LOL