Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Boyfriend is active on a dating site.
- This topic has 30 replies and was last updated 10 years, 4 months ago by
ann.
-
AuthorPosts
-
ANON
Heck….so many of the same stories!!! Are there any guys out there NOT on dating sites while they’re with someone?? I internet date too but after reading all these I think I’ll give up!!! Online dating is too much of a temptation for most men (women too)I totally believe it is wrecking any ones chance of a relationship because people can pick and choose what they want before kicking them to the kerb or cheating on them with others. How on earth do you meet a genuine guy these days!!?
Simmy
Hej honey, you should confront him, but at the same time…you need to trust your gut that what he replies with is the truth. I am in a very similar situation only a baby is involved. I do think that once you are serious about someone you are no longer on a dating site – unless you cant remember you registered, but then you wouldnt have an app, right? Don’t let him sweet talk you, life is too short xxx
X
Confront then leave. He’ll definitely come up with some BS to make you stay but I’m sure you know best. Guys – they never learn.
I found sexy pictures in my ex’s mobile and when I confronted him he gave me some lame excuses and of course I believed it since I was madly in love. Months past by, caught him sexting over FB with some new girl, again confronted him, broke up for a while but we ended up together when the girl left the country.
A few months later, saw some other girl tagged him in pictures where he was celebrating her birthday, giving gifts and all when he just went MIA from me for the night. Called him to confront him and he said something along the line of ‘you knew everything now, what do you want me to say’. Like he didn’t even care that I’m leaving. And not until after we broke up, his friend told me how he has actually been dating girls when he was with me.
So there you go, leave now. Save yourself from more heart breaks.
X
Annie
Ann, believe what all of these people are telling you.
Tell him what you know, let him know how you feel and then run like hell and dont look back.Sorry to be so brutally honest but if you choose to stay with him then just accept that this will be your life. I have personal experience with someone like this and realised that I stayed in the dysfunctional relationship because of my character. I tried for years to change him, to make him see that I was all he needed. I was wrong, he needed so much more, he craved the “new relationship” type of attention. Eventually I realised he could not change and that I deserved better. It will hurt but you will eventually meet a decent man, someone who will RESPECT you.
Its a sickness or a character flaw in some men. JZ is a case in point, i mean wth cheats on Beyonce? JZ is a sagittarius.
I would be interested to know how many of the men mentioned on here are born under the sign of sagittarius.. Please reply to me if your boyfriend is one.
I found that most sagittarius men crave attention.. The problem is they dont really have the courage to talk to females so they go online.
There is so much heartache brought on by social media and ladies should seriously consider a class action suit against websites the promote immoral behaviour with direct messaging options.
Best of luck!!
ann
Thank you everyone for the advice and the stories. They have really helped. I actually did confront him and ask him and he said that it shows that he’s online when he reads emails from someone on match.com. but the way I see it is why would you bother reading them if you say you’re not looking?? so I actually got on his laptop this morning and went on match.com and he hadn’t logged out of his profile so i looked and he has been sending emails indeed, even on my birthday a few days ago when he was with me. so I’m done. He’s not worth it. no one is. thank you everyone again for the advice!
ann
Hi Annie! my bf well, about to be ex, is actually a cancer and I’m a leo….. sigh….
-
AuthorPosts
