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Dessy
If he has lied before why would he change now?
That is correct, he has lied when i even have evidence, he just ignores it says he loves me and only me and so on. I’m so sad and i feel so stressed, my body is not feeling well from this.
Kez
Dessy,
I’m a very blunt person so here it is straight:
YOU do not deserve to be treated like that. Why would sown one who loves you lie to you? They wouldn’t unless they have something to hide or feel guilty about. I honestly think you should dump his ass as you deserve so much better. Especially as you’re feeling stressed and ill. A relationship is supposed to be the icing on the top of your wonderful cake life and if it’s causing you upset and making you ill the best thing to do is leave.
Dessy
Yes, im feeling i’m in bad place with him.
Also, it’s like i only give and give to him, and dont get 10% back.
Even in sex life i was going down on him 98% he not even 2% …
alot of things like that…Phillygirl
When a man or any person shows you who they are believe them. Meaning…if they are deceitful, unstrusworthy, selfish, manipulative, unfaithful and gaslight you (turn their bad deeds around on you and make you feel like the one who did something wrong), or refuse to accept responsibility for bad behavior and change those behaviors…then you need to believe they aren’t a good person and walk away.
The way I see it…you’ve wasted way too much time on a man who is making you miserable. But he is only able to do this because you permit it, by staying and accepting it.
What we allow is what will continue. So…what will you continue to allow???
Hannah
This is difficult because you’re drip feeding us information so it’s very hard to give advice.
What has he lied about? When did he ask this woman out? When you were together?
You mentioned distance. So this is a LDR? How often do you see each other?
Amanda
I know this post is old but my advice is to stop looking because you are only hurting yourself. I got rid of all social media because I had a similar problem but the fact of the matter is that what you don’t see won’t hurt you. Not a good feeling for sure.
Been there Done that
Yup.. there’s something shady about this liking scenario here. Guys don’t like a specific person’s every post. My BF has a girl on his facebook who has a crush on him, she always likes all of his posts and pictures minus the ones with me or the posts catered to me. I know she has a crush on him because she asked him out herself knowing that he has a gf.
If he is lying you can’t do anything about it. You would sound crazy if you confront him because he will ask for a proof. All you can do is, let him know you don’t like that woman and that you feel uncomfortable when he likes every pic or post of her and leave it to that. If he stops he is respectable towards you if he doesn’t you have your answer.
Me too
Hi Sara,
How did this ever work out for you? I am having the same problem now only my boyfriend is meeting up with them in person. There are 2 girls that he likes their every picture! He runs his own business so he makes his own hours, leaves his employees working while he does other stuff etc and I can’t trust him. I opened his tablet lady week only to find he left messenger open. There was a conversation that he stated “how your weekend was good, Ms. Beautiful Girl”… And then offered to go to get house to return a telescope (yes, that means he had seen her recently before that to get the telescope). It’s killing me. The other girl makes sweets and he contacted her to buy sine chocolate covered strawberries. No, he did not tell me about her. He told me he bought them from his friends neighbor. He led about where he got them. I think I want to break up but is Facebook activity enough? We’ve been dating 4 years. It’s gone beyond liking posts… I’ve confronted him and his response was “stop stalking my fb”. Then proceeded to invite me to the movies. I can’t even be intimate with him as I feel he’d be thinking of someone else.Laura
@Me too, you would be better starting your own thread as this one is two years old
Raven
‘Me too’ – Why on Earth would you even consider staying with this guy?!
Phillygirl
At some point you need to wake up and realize that once you know someone is lying and being unfaithful…and you stay with them, it’s willful self-abuse.
No one and I mean NO ONE is worth that.
Emma
Gosh how people WANT to stay in denial. You should be packing and running! you wasted 4 years on this guy and how he tells you “stop stalking my FB”?
If you stay NOW, he be cheating on you openly, without even trying to hide, since you buy all the crap and do nothing. In the end you’d feel so miserable with him that you would leave anyway. Or he would leave YOU for some of those girls, and it will crush you even more, taking a few more years out of you life to recover.
If you have any brains (sorry to be rude but you need to hear that), leave NOW. Yes it will hurt, yes it will be hard, yes you will miss him. Yes it will take along time to recover given that oyur ego is smashed already. But it is better SOONER than later.
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