Boyfriend too sexual

If you don’t want sex with him, tell him that and stop seeing him. You don’t want this man, you are not in love with this man. Let him go so he can find a woman who is in love with him.

You also need to find a man who can fulfill you sexually. Obviously this man does not do it for you. Let him go so you can find a good man for yourself.

I wish I had your problem..lol ;)

I would recommend that you go see a doctor also. A change in sex drive could be due to hormonal changes or something else and you might want to have that checked out. If the sex is amazing and you say this is the only issue in an otherwise wonderful relationship then please do communicate with him that you aren’t any less attracted to him. This issue can certainly build resentment and start causing other problems in the relationship if you don’t seek out what is causing the problem.

Men want sex a lot. I would say average is 2-3 times a week.

Less than that is not enough….more than that has to be agreed to by both partners.

See a doctor together – there may be hormone problems on both sides.

I hope that I can offer the point of view that he has to you. I have been blessed with a high sex drive and my fiancee has a lower sex drive. He drives me crazy because when I have sex with him, its a spiritual experience, and I haven’t gotten any in weeks. I would even go as far as to not pleasure myself and give him pleasure if it means to be sexual with him. For me, it gives me a closeness that I can’t compare to anything. I am paying attention mind, body, and soul to him and he to me. Yes, I love long walks on the beach, and being romantic, but nothing can replace this feeling I have for him. Its like an addiction, with a feeling I can’t ignore. I have been reduced to childish screaming and tears over it. Each time he says no, its like a dagger shooting through my soul. I ask what more can I do. What more can I do to make him want me the same way I want him? Am I not good enough for him? I am so desperate for his affection in this way, that if he says that I am no longer allowed to receive pleasure for the ability to pleasure him, I would never pleasure myself again. Yes, I will argue with him. Yes, I start arguments. I am bitchy and needy and will not stop until I get any (even though it doesn’t bring me to climax). I do it for the soul purpose of feeling us combine into one the only way we physically can. If your man is doing it just for the sex, then dump him. If he feels like I do towards my own fiancee, its not the act he is looking for. Its not the release, the feeling of pleasure, or anything that drives me to do what I do for my fiancee. Talking with him will work but both of you will need to seek help before it gets to the point I am. I am getting bitter with him, and most of our good time is ruined by me mentioning it. We could have a perfect day and one mention of the word brings it down. Hell, I am even willing to go once a week with him. I am a year into our relationship and like you my dear gal pal, his libido has sunk. Hes frustrated, since he thinks all I think about is the act but no; I am focused on that time we spend together alone, thinking about one another and the after of laying in his arms feeling the closest I have had in a while. I want to recreate the feeling again and again in passion fueled love making that will leave us both feeling like we were made of jelly and unable to move. Maybe you need a change of atmosphere (I.e sexy rp, or any other kinky fuckery {fifty shades ftw} like BDSM). I know that it may sound bad but try EVERYTHING to get back in the mood. He will go with the flow on that one too, if he is willing. If that doesn’t work, go to a therapist and maybe uncover some issues. We are doing the same so you are not alone. Rejection is horrible so maybe you need to put it down on a schedule to change it up (sexy tuesday, pantyless wednesday, freaky friday, or even sinful sunday. If you are religious, or have come from a highly religious and traditional background, that could kill the mood. Going to hell or to a eternity of torment can really put a damper on sexy time. Lots of things could cause the change. My father, who is teaching to be a marriage counselor says that you need to discover the source of the problem and fix it before it leads to bad feelings. I hope that helps!

Relationships are about compatibility on all levels… I’d say you’re just not compatible on a sexual one. Everything else may be aligned but sexual compatibility just isn’t. Some people can let it slide due to other positives based on lack of importance in the overall view & others can’t. That’s up to y’all to determine. I know myself well enough to know sexual compatibility for me is highly valued so I couldn’t commit to the “perfect” guy if we didn’t align like that, but everyone’s different. Good luck

How often are you two having sex? Also are you on birth control?? Birth control is known to affect ones libido. Google search it & read the side effects of nearly all birth controls out there. It’s highly possible that could be it.

I’m speaking from personal experience on this as well. Birth control has greatly messed up myself and a few friends libidos. But without it I’m not going to have sex.

Hey there. I too have your problem.
Since my sex drive dropped, and my partners still overly sexual. It scares me to think I don’t satisfy him anymore. And that he will move onto someone else. From my experience, there’s nothing we can do. We shouldn’t have to change who they are, nor should we.