Break up with a 4 month baby so he can have sex with other girls and do drugs.

Did he want to have a child before you got pregnant?

I’m sorry and I know you’re hurting. And you’re still going through some hormonal fluctuations with a young baby so that makes keeping your emotions under control even harder. The fact you have been together 3 years but he never married you shows he wasn’t totally committed to your relationship. If the pregnancy wasn’t planned, having a baby sometimes makes a man feel trapped. It’s a lot of responsibility for a long time. It sounds like he’s choosing his freedom right now and some very bad habits.

Right now you need to go into momma bear mode and protect your child. Get an attorney, file a claim for child support and I would throw in he has to pass random drug testing in order to have any visitation rights with the child. You can’t make him stay with you, but you can make him take responsibility for this child and not allow him to be around the child if he wants to choose drugs instead.