Called my boyfriend and a woman answered the phone

Run the other way as fast as you can. They probably deserve each other.

Ask him point direct, WTF …?

What kind of advice are you needing? A simple response telling him, “The lady you’re with right now answered your phone, and told me “we are not really together because you were eating her pussy, so guess you’ve already eaten dinner!”

You then block him from your life. At least you now know he’s a cheater, and if you don’t want to be with a cheater, then you stop being with a cheater, period. If you want to waste your energy, and destroy your self-esteem, and self-respect, dealing with a cheater, then stay with Mr. Cheater. Pick ONE but just know if you decide to stay, then you cannot try to control, stalk, or get angry with him when he cheats again because when you allow it, then you must live with the consequences of all the choices YOU make.

This is what dating’s about—deciding if the person you are with is truly the type of person you want to be with based on their character, actions, and behaviors. If they don’t align (in conflict with yours) you let them go, until you meet the one who does.

Drop him like a bad habit. If someone shows you who they are for the first time, believe them.

His actions say he doesn’t respect you, value you, respect your time but even louder they say he doesn’t deserve You!

Go on a blocking spree and thank you,next.