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kaye.
Anon
One of my boyfriends exes contacted me saying my boyfriend had been texting her. He said they were talking as friends but she then sent me all the messages between them and they were flirty and he was telling her things that a friend wouldnt. He told me that he felt stupid after it and that he didnt want her he wanted me and that the texts ment nothing. I gave us another chance but I cant get over what he did and what he was saying to her. Hes says I’ve ruined the relationship because I keep bringing it up when we argue which I do because he lost my trust and now I’m paranoid. Hes now said hes lost respect for me because how I’ve been going on and stressing him out and tonight he said that if I cant trust him or cany get over it I should F off because he doesnt have time. I love him but i think i should walk away because i cant get over the fact he did it to mr. Hes also quite abusive to me also and calls me a bitch etc when we argue so I know theres no respect there any advice on what to do?
Raven
Drop him like a Hot Skillet!!
He’s manipulative & abusive…
Khadija
Dump him!
He was wrong for what he did and should be doing everything to earn your trust back.
Since he’s not and told you to F off, its time to move on.
Zoe
You already know what to do!
Ss
I’m not sure why you even need to ask? He broke your trust and is now blaming you! No way… walk away. You deserve better x
Anon
He said that I’m ruining the relationship and that hes beginning to hate me..maybe I have gone on too much about it but I’ve been loyal from day one and still when we argue he will tell me I’m weird and that hes going to get a real woman etc and the when we are not together I’m.thinking who’s he talking too and I’m so paranoid. I feel so stressed out and we are now in that difficult time of the virus so we ate not together anyway this is the time I need to do it for myself.
kaye
Yes you do!!! Let’s ignore the fact he was talking to an ex because even if you could forgive him and get over that you can’t just gloss over the fact he is abusive!! He calls you a b*tch, tells you you’re weird, says he’s going to get a real woman. What man does that to a woman he loves? He ruined the relationship with his actions and now you need to leave. A man would have to build trust after what he did and he should know that. But the fact you argue so much and his apparent lack of respect for you means this needs to be over.
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