Can’t get over him!!!

And to your point, I would absolutely love to see some of these commenters in real life. Have a feeling a lot of them parallel the new guy in some respects…

L- you’re right except for the fat girl/ making up sh*t parts. I do love candy but everything in moderation. :) Fruit is more my jam. And the rest is just my life. Maybe crazy at times but far from boring. Yolo

Well I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m hoping this crap will reach at least 20 pages right ! 😂

Life happened. We’ve been together over a decade and have been through a lot of trials and tribulations – deaths, professional investigation, moves, family fights, etc. This is on top of being sexually dysfunctional as a couple. My friends don’t understand why we married in the first place.

I fell the hardest and the fastest for him. He’s been a rock through everything and has a heart of gold. That’s why I married him. He’s a wonderful man and I never speak poorly of him. I just don’t know if I should have married him. When women have affairs, it’s because they’re emotionally unfulfilled. It’s been five years of not feeling any real connection and hardly any sex. Eventually you break. Sometimes relationships can be repaired and sometimes they can’t. I love him but I’m still not 100% confident we’re going to make it.

That’s part of my ‘real life’. I just come on here and vent about the parts that I don’t want to share with others. The parts that are wrong. The real stuff is complex. I don’t know what I’m going to do. You don’t make these decisions lightly. It’s a life we built together and a man I’ve been with for over a decade. A good man.

A lost cause situation here. Anxiety and heartbreak will be the only outcomes.

Analyzing their relationship problems is a waste of your energy. Let him figure out things for himself.

Nothing good will come out of this but drama. Please focus on other men.

F These guys.. I’m having an amazing time in London and the rest of the guys can f themselves right?! I heard back from new guy recently and ignored him since I was with my husband. Just texted him and told him to make me a priority while he was getting ready, no response beyond he wished he had time. Lame. I like guys that are totally under timble. I blocked my ex when he wouldn’t respond even though he viewed all my stories. Whatever, don’t have time for flakes. I’m a princess.

You keep using and playing games with men ~ it WILL come back to haunt you.

No, you’re not a ‘princess’ at all…you’re just a b*tch.

Why are you still trolling?

I actually had a nice time on my trip with him. The sex was the best we’ve had in years… although the side got me wet beforehand and I was thinking of him during so dunno if that counts. But we did have a nice time for the most part.

I can be a b. I can definitely be a b. You should be seen me the night we met. His friend thanked me for my authenticity haha. Found it refreshing. Apparently no one had ever called out my side before. I did in the first hour. And we’ve been taking ever since.

It is a lack of satisfaction in my real life – even though I have a lot to be thankful for. I actually didn’t even really want to continue with the side or meet up with him but then I saw him commenting on some sorority girl’s social media pic which made me competitive and jealous. Like I can compete with a hot, blonde, 21 yo but still, I felt the need to win. What am I winning tho? A possibility of my whole life coming apart? A good life? I’m having so much trouble not making poor decisions… No willpower these days… All of my chief enjoyment and validation is coming from the wrong areas. I suppose I need to ‘work’ on myself. But how fun is that?

I have this need to always be high on life – that endorphin kick you get when you’re first dating someone does it for me every time. I’m glad drugs were never my thing. Unlike my side…I swear at least once a week he’ll consume so much coke he can’t sleep for a day or two. It’s sad. He’ll probably die before he’s 40. I had a close friend who was dating the heir to a major Kentucky whiskey company who died of liver failure at 50. Side and the heir remind me of each other…

I’m just sad. Crying really. Things are not working out between my husband and I. Time to put on my big girl panties I guess?