Can’t get over him!!!

Aimee, I agree with all of Danita’s points in her latest post. I would like to add:

The sooner that you take ownership over yourself and responsibility for all your actions, the better! So it would be wise to block both your ex-boyfriend and his girlfriend out of your lives, while taking your time to get over all the heartbreak.

I know you can do it! We are here for you! :)

Danita : point taken :)

Thank you, Padmini! Still NC on either end :)

For anyone that is bored by the conversation, maybe don’t click on the thread?

“We” are not here for you.
We want you to put on your big girl panties & grow the F- up…

For real, this is embarrassing.

F*cj this sh💕r, so bad.

Aimee

The reason you were judged:
You represent something feared. You represent the woman who can steal their man. You represent what they know they are capable of doing too. They want to believe their judgment is because they are morally outraged. It’s not moral outrage. It’s fear. It’s fear they will do the same or have it done to them.

The OP just proved my point.

After writing all of this B S and ‘showing remorse’ she was still planning and hoping for going on this trip with him. The lack of integrity is palpable.

You are right, you are embarassing ypourself.

Spot on Tamara.

Aimee-
You’re still clinging to the thinking that she didn’t tell him because you haven’t heard of any repercussions from him.

Not true.

You’re never going to know because he’s never going to talk to you again to tell you one way or the other.

If he is so afraid of losing her if she found out he was ever cheating, she may very well have confronted him.

He may have talked his way out of it – claiming you’re just an obsessed ex who fabricated what was emailed with photoshop to break them up.

He may have even decided how important she is to him and vowed to himself never to cheat on her again for fear of losing her, and they’re now stronger than ever.

That’s another possible scenario. That little stunt may have actually brought them closer. You’ll never know.

But as you did it because you wanted closure and to never hear from him again, you’ve succeeded.

Time to move on and find someone else who will actually choose you, because this situation is a done deal.

I was sure you’d send her an email and tell her. And I am sure you’d do it yet again, this time including them both in the email, so that there is no way she can hide what she knows. Whether you’d admit it here or not, I don’t know.

Please let us all know what you’d say in your second email and how you forced her to tell him.

There is something distressing about all of this.

I hope your desperation doesn’t reach the point when you become a threat to someone.

I agree with Emma, another e-mail or other attempt to mess with her ex and his GF is just a matter of time. Poor people.

I like how I said I was done and explained why I thought she hadn’t told him and then you all spin the situation into your own truth. Lol I would suggest finding another form of entertainment.

It’s not. I’m more joining the conversation since you’re all so invested in my situation. Initially I did find it interesting that she would withhold that info but I’m sure she has her reasons.

I came on here to re-read this thread in hopes of turning my mood around. I’ve been continuing to disengage from my feelings towards him but today’s been a little harder for some reason. I shed a few tears. It just makes me so sad knowing that he basically just viewed me as sex and I was so willing to just accept his breadcrumbs. It’s crazy especially considering I know what it’s like to be his gf and what he’s given me recently is so little in comparison. How do you end a relationship on basically a good note and then end up here? Such a cr*ppy feeling.