Coffee

Ewa, when he said take me out for coffee i said why, why would I take you out on coffee? Then he tried to turn it into a joke like you could have said no but who says no like that. I just let it go. I can’t engage with such man-children. Or sit and teach them how to date.

Next!

This guy that you speak of is not serious about finding a relationship. He’s playing a game. He thinks he’s flirting and screening under the radar, but nope. I see what this casual friend of mine does with women and there is latent misogyny in his dating approach. This is one of his techniques.

I have a casual friend who does this w/women he meets on dating sites. It’s a game, avoid men like this.

We actually met a decade ago on a dating site and he didn’t do this back then. But he was a flake — a nice guy but not someone I would ever date. Since then we’ve been casual friends; he’s been engaged a few times and feels like he has to filter out the gold diggers — with coffee, the ULTIMATE gold digging maneuver ;) He does not have any “gold” by the way.

Ugh, avoid this man it’s just better that way (for you!)