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Casey L
Do guys really mean it when they compliment you during sex? I don’t mean over the top compliments.
I’m 25, a virgin by choice, but that doesn’t bother my BF. He’s super naughty with lots of experience and he loves getting intimate with me even though I’m inexperienced.
Every time we have sex, even without intercourse, he keeps compliment that I’m so hot and sexy, then he would go wild, but still able to hold back intercourse. He would ask for my permission every time, whether I’m ready or not. I know he’s having a hard time to hold back but he really respect me and that makes me love him even more :)
Now, his compliments do make me feel comfortable, confident and sexy, but I’m just really curious at whether they really mean it or just compliment without much thoughts during sex.
Lane
Hi Casey.
Yes, he means it and you need to be accepting and appreciative of his compliments. :-)
Men love to make their lady happy…like they say “Happy wife, happy life” even if your his GF. So acknowledge and thank him when he does it because it sets the pace for a healthier relationship.
Casey L
Thank you lane!! That reply means a lot to me. I have no sexual experience with any other guys prior to my current BF. This is also my first serious relationship. I’ve dated many guys in the past but never get pass getting sexual with them because I don’t feel it. So this sums up how much I like this guy.
The reason I’m curious it’s because I understand how frustrating it is for guys to go wild, but not able to go for penetration. We get intimate often and we’ve been together for almost 6 months. He hasn’t change, still the amazing loving and sweet guy even though I’m still not ready for intercourse. Last week, he tried to go anal with me, but failed because I panicked (I have low tolerance of pain and I panic even before he’s in) and kept moving away. After trying for a while, he stopped and said it’s okay baby, next time, then he went oral instead and continued with compliments.
So I’m not sure if he’s complimenting without any meaning to it because he might have sexual frustration…
Dina
I’m not a dude, but if this is consistent, I think he really means it. He knows he’s not getting anywhere further with those compliments, so I’m sure he said it because he felt it. Sounds like he likes you a lot :)
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