Dating and over thirty.. Radio silence and ghosting

Oh another thing: When I say “it feels right” no, I’m not actually referring to feeling horny. That’s a completely wrong interpretation.

The few times I had sex early on, it felt right because we had the time to connect on so many other levels before that. And you, rightly, might argue that you can’t possibly know a person that well after only a few times. Half true yes, I give you that. But a strong connection can be formed, depending on the circumstances, very very early.

it happened to me and some people I know and the guys didn’t lose their interest. A real connection is what it is: REAL, for a reason.

But I don’t have normal dates (I have stated this on some other thread, don’t remember where or when) and that’s maybe the reason why my relationship history is slightly different.

Happened to me recently. It’s someone I’ve known for years and we started dating three months ago. He had pursued me for some time and was definitely the one pushing the relationship forward. We were getting along well; chemistry and eveyrhing. He insisted we were exclusive from the very beginning.. (perhaps a red light in hindsight)

The first day I thought he was busy with work..or something else came up and he’d call me soon. He usually texted every day. So come the second day, I knew something was up.

From the moment he went MIA, I never texted or called to ask if everything was OK; is something the matter; where are you? …..etc. His sudden ghosting was met by my radio silence…Looking back I am glad I held out and didn’t send that angry text demanding explanation.

Men like that are utterly disrespectful…confrontation is pointless…and if they have played out this scenario few times already they expect you to retaliate…to seek contact and effectively chase an explanation.. Let them go like they meant Nothing to you …it’s the only thing that will dent that ego

You will have to move on either way so don’t let them get away thinking in some twisted way they are in demand