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Anjani
I have been talking to a guy on and off he seems pretty interested in me but sometimes he gives me cold shoulder as if I don’t exist. It’s hard to understand if he is at all interested in me or still exploring other options, he says he wants to know me better. Someimes when I text him his replies are just one word….I hate it a lot!!
My question is when I meet him how do I get to know if he is interested in me, wants me!
He is a SCORPIO male. I am unable to decode his feelings for me …please HELP !
RavenThere’s no such thing as mixed messages…
RUN! RUN away from Scorpio guys!!
AndreaHis star sign has nothing to do with it.
If you are confused or think something needs decoding, if a guy is hot and cold or isn’t consistent in paying attention to you and being with you – he is NOT INTERESTED and you should move on.
AnjaniHi Raven
Why to run away?? :( I like him a lot and may be I am looking towards commitment…
CrisulaI’m a Scorpio
You can’t base it just on his sun sign
but yes, if a Scorpio is even talking to you, they’re interested,
He will not give any info about himself, until he trusts you….so don’t pressure him for it..He has to warm up to you…so let him chase you, and go with the flow.
It will be maddening, a roller coaster ride…tests, tests, test
Many people get worn out and give up
CrisulaBTW
Scorpios are always hot and coldDark and moody little buggers
AndreaWhat a load of crap.
ShoshannahI would definitely run from any SCORPIO asap!!
ShoshannahDon’t even ask why… he’s a SCORPIO!!!
HannahMy most successful relationships have been with Scorpios. No idea why!
They can be quite emotionally intense but take time to get attached to you. Once they are, that’s it. You’re stuck with them and they’ll do anything to make the relationship work. If they don’t get attached, they’ll stick around with an eye out for a “better” option.
Let him chase you. That’s an absolute must. Let him set the pace of getting to know you. Also mirror him. If he’s sending one word texts, stop texting. If he’s warm and caring, be the same back. Give him lots of space to come to you. Really, this advice goes for any man but it’s especially important for someone with a Scorpio personality, whatever his actual star sign.
If he’s not chasing, he’s not interested. My Scorpios have made it blindingly obvious they have been interested but not in a very emotional way to begin with as they take time to open up. More they wanted to spend a lot of time with me.
SherryRUN as fast as you can from any Scorpio man.
Dated 2 of them. Game players & liers. 2nd one was hot cold. Found out a year later he had a Gf the whole time behind my back. They are people users!!!
And they won’t want to talk about anything they are unhappy about.
Curt and cold. Hot and cold. All for their entertainment and nothing to do with you but everything to do with getting what they want out of you.
Please run at lightening speed!!
ShoshannahAre you people serious?
AnjaniGirls/Guys
I am a Scorpio myself…so both are scorpions…but you guys are right hot and cold is the ultimate behaviour :'(
HannahHaha not really Shos, although my serious ex and husband really are Scorpios! I know what the personality is supposed to be. I’m supposed to be a Virgo and about 10% of the character is correct! Life would be easier if we could divide everyone into 12 groups and understand them from that wouldn’t it?!
Anjani@Hannah
what attracts scorpio men is it the physical beauty? or your personality in all? or something else they look for…and the guy i am dating is hot and cold how do i get to know what he really feels :(
CrisulaAdjani,
You need his birth date to get a reading on him.
A man’s venus and moon are wayyy more important than the sun sign
If your Moon, ascendant or Sun sign don’t match either his Venus or Moon…you can write him off
CrisulaBTW..EVERY man is attracted to physical beauty and personality
NatIs this for real ladies?
The guy is brushing her off in a very rude and dismissive way and she is still asking if he is interested in her or not. Some women are so thick and desperate it is sad.
Amjani for the love of God do not text him anymore. If he is interested in you he will contact you himself and it won’t be with one word.
MichelleI LOVE Scorpio guys but I have found from experience that you never know what they are REALLY thinking, or what their plans REALLY are. They are mysterious and will send you on an odyssey of mixed signals that will keep your head in the clouds and you will never know what direction you are really headed. I have been hurt by two of them and although I have a brother and niece who are both scorpio’s and our relationships are solid…in Love Scorpio’s just don’t work for me. I wish they would but I am a sensitive Cancer and as much a I try to convince myself that I have the wherewithal to handle their games…the testing, the silent treatment, when they go MIA (that’s fun, NOT!)…its all too much for me. Be careful.
Terick NelsonIma break it down in a nutshell. Scorpios have a weakness for people they like. He’ll literally do anything for you and it scares him. So he’s got to make sure you’re worth it. If you stay around you’ll have the best boyfriend ever.
AbbieI’m with L on this one……all this fuss over a man she has not met! Can anyone say “desperate”?
AmandaOld post, same old nonsense. I really can’t believe some people take astrology seriously.
NinaBeing close with Scorpio Man,he get jealous and care, we’re not officially dating.. he’s communicate with song and some quote sometimes.. is it a good indicator that he’s interest to me?
AshYeah I’m a Sag and I’ve been talking for about two months with a Scorpio. He gives me anxiety and I don’t even have one :/ we went out and I think we had a really good connection (at least I did and felt like he did too). We had the first actual fight over something stupid he wouldn’t get over, and ignored me for almost 2 weeks, to the point of saying he was msg me for the streaks only. Idk what his deal is, and I wish I could tell where he’s at, because I’m as straight as it comes, even having Venus in Scorpio myself. Now he talks to me for a little while and then just ignores me in a very rude way, acting as if he was too good for me when he damn well knows that I’m out of his league. It makes me very sad to be treated like this, but sometimes if I say that I didn’t like something he did, he gets super scared, apologizes and don’t do it again. He gives me mixed signals and I don’t like stupid little go-nowhere games.
JaniceIn my experience with Scorpio men, 3 of them, they have all been the same way as you describe.
I hung in there trying to understand them. They are very hard to get close to, although very appealing in many ways.
While they are very emotional, they like to play games like hot & cold to avoid getting involved. They happily used me for sex though. They were very attentive and kind when they needed me for something (sex). After that was done & they got tired of it and a huge wall went up.
My suggestion to you. Run. They are a nightmare in my experience. In the end after all my years of effort trying to understand, listen, give them sex, I was left with nothing more than lonely nights with my warm blanket.
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