Disappeared for 2 weeks and then came back

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June 18, 2021 at 5:18 am #884448 Reply

Hailey

So, I’ve been constantly talking and texting with a guy. We had so many things in common, we could easily understand each other. We were building plans for future and so on. But once I felt like our conversations weren’t going so well and the next day he didn’t text me, I didn’t either. This situation was continuing for about two weeks and finally when I only started accepting and moving on, he came back and texted again with the message “it’s been a long time”.
He didn’t say he was sorry or anything else like that, he just told he had been busy with exams.
Part of me wants to believe that he missed me and that’s why he texted, and another part just wants to end this. Is he only playing with me?

June 18, 2021 at 7:30 am #884510 Reply

Ewa

talking and texting , making future plans with a pen pal?
you haven’t actually met him have you ?
he is messaging you just for an ego boost , nothing else, sorry

June 18, 2021 at 7:44 am #884519 Reply

tammy

have you guys made any plans to meet?

June 19, 2021 at 5:30 am #884808 Reply

Erin

Any guy who disappears on you without warning and surfaces with a lame ‘Long time no see or hey stranger” text is to dismissed with the quickness! He’s not reliable, untrustworthy, and has low to zero interest in you.

If you’re only talking and texting without meeting and time has passed then he’s a pen pal not boyfriend material.

Move on, block him or just ignore him and talk to people who actually want to meet you and put in the effort.
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