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and ohhhhh…please never tell a man he is perfect. Freaks them out and its just not true ;). If anything, go the other way and tease him.
When a man says “you’re too good for me” RUN don’t walk to the nearest exit. It’s true and they mean it.
I also think it’s advisable to be cautious for men getting out of a long term relationship (not just a marriage). I dated a man that was 2 months out of a 3 1/2 year relationship -it was perfect at first, but I oftentimes felt like his therapist as he complained about HER a hell of a lot. He ended up breaking things off and I was heartbroken. To him I was the rebound, but to me it was real.
It gets easier, its just learning how to pick these men out of the crowd and run away.
Best of luck!
Yes in his case I WAS too good for him. I know that sounds cocky and condscending, but at the stage he is in his life: Dealing with divorce, custody issues,financial issues since he has to pay alimony and CS, upset children, and a hint of some other family problems, he probably really did see me as “too good” for him. Comparing my life to his that is.. I hope you know what I’m trying to say.
I said the “you seem so perfect, you’re an online dating unicorn” as a joke, though he did seem pretty perfect to me in terms of other men I’ve dated, but yes, I see your point. I shouldn’t have said so.
So is it normal for a 36 year old man not to text or call while We both were away? I was on vacay.. same day I got back he went on trip for business and family. Texted to make sure I got on vacay ok.. I texted once acouple days later.. it’s been a week. We went on 6 dates before we left.. normal? Or should I be annoyed of the non comunication
Oops meant to make this on my own forum. Sorry to barge yours!!
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