Do guys usually line up dates with multiple women?

Sweet Dani, juli, kiikki Melanie, you been asked by anm staf not to post anymore, since all you do is ask the same question and never respond

You can’t predict your actions, or his.

1. Yes, guys arrange dates with more than one woman. You should be doing that, too! when I was internet dating, I always had messages with like 5 guys at once. This stopped me from going ga-ga over any one man before I’d even met him just cos he’d been sweet through messages. He does not owe you exclusivity, nor you him, unless you’ve agreed to it. Which would be silly if you haven’t even met.

2. He may have every intention of seeing you IRL. Doesn’t mean he will – I fully intended to meet every guy I stared talking to, but some of them eventually just didn’t look like we’d be compatible, and some quickly looked like pricks. it sounds like he really does want to see you, however it’s not impossible for a guy or gal to lose interest.

3. Once a week isn’t a lot – I messaged guys daily or every couple of days until I could meet them (which might be up to a couple of weeks, given I work weekends sometimes) – maybe try talking a bit more often to see if you guys have a connection.

4. He will probably want to meet up with you. After the date, he will either ask you at the end of the date if you’d like to meet up again, or he will message you. You’re free to message him yourself, too. I tend to let guys say what they feel first, but if I know that we’re not compatible, I’ll message them first to tell them I really enjoyed it but that we should keep it platonic – to avoid their embarrassment if they wanted more.

It’s hard for you, because you’ve probably gotten a bit attached because it’s been 3 months. But take it easy, you don’t know if you’ll have chemistry IRL. And he may well have other dates lined up, you should too! Until you both agree to be boyfriend and girlfriend (exclusive, that is), there’s nothing to say you can’t date other people. I highly recommend it, in fact. Don’t try to rush into a relationship with somoene after like 1 date and ignore all the other options out there until you’ve gotten to know them a little bit, and really know you want to know them better. Too many girls insist on locking down after like 1 date (the shortest I’ve seen in my friends is after like 1 or 2 weeks, it never goes well) when they don’t know a guy. At first, you should be autidioning him to work out if he’s good enough to be your BF and if you’re compatible – not already assuming he’s the one because one date went well.

Why don’t you also talk to some more guys, if you have the time? It sounds like you are putting a lot of hope on this guy before you even met him.