Do I get him a birthday gift or not

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April 13, 2020 at 6:04 pm #789300 Reply

Tess

Hi everyone! So I met this boy on a dating app like two weeks ago and we talk all the time, text, and have long face time calls. He is very nice, and he says he really likes me, as I am starting to get feelings for him. However I am a little torn on what I should do. His birthday is later this week and hes super excited that its coming up but hes sad with what is happening right now in the world. I am unsure If I should be getting him a gift and either having it delivered to his address or holding on to it and waiting till I see him.I can see both sides – getting him a gift, but also not getting him a gift. Hopefully you can all give me some advice.

Thank you in advance

April 13, 2020 at 6:09 pm #789301 Reply

Tallspicy

No gift. No gifts for men you have not even met.

And slow your roll on the feelings. No feelings in time of corona. No feelings until a man is your boyfriend and you should not be committing to someone you talk on the phone to.

Feel free to wish him a nice birthday if he continues to be consistent!

April 13, 2020 at 6:40 pm #789302 Reply

Newbie

Yeah seriously no gift. A happy b day text is plenty. You have never met this guy and really never give more to a guy than you get in the beginning. It freaks good guys out and less good guys take advantage of it

April 13, 2020 at 7:13 pm #789305 Reply

T friom NY

What Tallspicy and Newbie said all day long.

You are the prize. Do not be oversolicitous. Let him lead and give to you.

April 13, 2020 at 8:20 pm #789309 Reply

Raven

Sing him ‘Happy Birthday!’
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