Do you think my ex girlfriend still cares about me?

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January 12, 2021 at 12:44 pm #836901 Reply

Peter

She broke up with me 4 weeks ago. It wasnt a bad breakup, I would say it was quiet. Since then I only replied to one of her stories wishing happy new year. Then a week ago I decided it was best for me to block her because I still really love her and I felt I had to do it to move on. She called me and told me that it was childish and immature to block her and that I’m still friends on facebook with my other exes but I blocked her and stuff and she said if i ever unblock her she won’t accept the friend request. Despite that we had a good 20 minute conversation. When we broke up I told her that she can reach me if she changes her mind but I don’t want to be her friend.

January 13, 2021 at 12:11 pm #837038 Reply

AngieBaby

It’s not childish and immature to take the time to get over someone. Personally I can’t be friends with an ex unless enough time has passed and the romantic feelings have completely gone. That’s normal and reasonable and healthy.

I think she’s the one being childish and immature to say if you ever unblock her she won’t accept the friend request, assuming she wants to be friends with you.

Leave her alone completely and leave her blocked to give yourself the time and space you need to heal. If at some point you feel ready to be friends – and sometimes that’s never by the way – you can get in touch and see where she’s at. But it’s not always possible to be friends with an ex. And that’s OK. I”m not friends with many of mine, not out of spite but because we both moved forward and there’s really no more connection.
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