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Lara
Last year I met a guy who I felt I had a great connection with and he admitted he really liked me.
We were both living in the same city at the time, so it was easy to see him. Unfortunately, after a few dates, I had to move home for unforeseen reasons, and we decided that we could not do a long-distance relationship.
Six months passed before I contacted him again to stay in touch as I was moving back to the city. I asked if he wanted to meet for a drink, thinking that if he had a girlfriend, he would say no and that it was inappropriate.
He did respond and said that he was with someone now but would still like to meet me as long as his girlfriend was ok with it, but he did sound enthusiastic.
What shall I make of his intentions? Does he want to be friends, or does he still like me? We weren’t friends before, we were dating, so his wanting to meet up has confused me! I don’t want to get involved with a love triangle!
Please can you give me your opinion on how he feels?
Tallspicy
It seems his intentions are pretty friendly and harmless. You contacted him, remember? And he told you immediately he was seeing someone and was going to ask them.
He likes you as a friend. You should chill out.
T from NY
I think it would have been gracious and lady like for you to decline. Why meet another girls boyfriend for a drink?! That’s just me. It would be different if y’all had been only friends to begin with – yet you’re someone he’s dated in the past.
He knows you live nearby now. If y’all were meant to be he’ll find you. Until then – I think it’s disrespectful to his gf. Other people may feel differently. That’s just how I conduct myself.
Ss
What is confusing? You contact him to say you are back in town and lets be realistic and acknowledge you did so in the hope you could pick up where you left off. He said he has a girlfriend so has to ask her- probably assuming you would get the hint and back off. At no point from your description does it sound like anything more than friendly.
I guarantee you if you don’t follow it up to arrange to meet he won’t text you and any connection will fade… as it should because the man isn’t single and unless you were friends prior to dating there is no reason to be friends now.
The fact you are reading so much into his friendliness (and inability to tell you straight thanks but no thanks) and mention love triangles says that you are wanting more than friendship.
Leave the guy alone and let the communication fade out – you know he is taken and there can be no pure intentions on your part if you pursue meeting up!
Zoe
Would you like your boyfriend meeting his ex friends/lovers for a coffee?
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