Does he still have feelings? Will he write back?

Worriedandcurious, life isn’t black and white so I wouldn’t be as harsh as other members of this forum. You probably see many much more “screwed up” relationships. But they’re right. First off your head will explode. He is probably drinking beer, meeting other women and you analyse situation and think about him. Doesn’t seem right. I totally believe in cold feet. He also (e-mail a prime example) knows you’re into him. It’s pressure. That’s why some men go for married women. The point is that he isn’t willing to overcome his issues. He has the power in your relationship unfortunately and by being so available you’re scaring him off (it’s stupid I know). I know it’s easier said that done. I also believe the chase excites you, the obstacles make us more into unavailable guys.