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March 12, 2020 at 2:27 pm #787702Mia
I would really appreciate some insight and perspective on this problem of mine.
This guy who I had a few dates with last year responded to my text to catch up with an enthusiastic yes. He also mentioned that he had a girlfriend and would have to ask her but that it ‘shouldn’t be too much of an issue’. I did not know about the girlfriend. Now I am wondering about his intentions. We did really like each other but had to stop seeing each other because it became a long-distance relationship. Now I am moving back to where he lives hence why I texted to catch up. I don’t understand why you would want to meet with an ex if you are happy in your relationship. I don’t want to hurt anyone by agreeing to meet. Should I meet with him bearing in mind that I would like to keep in touch (but under no circumstances get involved with his relationship!)?
We weren’t friends before (we dated) so I am confused as to what his intentions are?March 12, 2020 at 2:57 pm #787704Raven
This is your 3rd time posting this… You got tons of great advice…
What is the advice you are looking to hear …?
March 12, 2020 at 3:03 pm #787705Liz Lemon
Yes, you’ve posted about this multiple times.
Let’s forget about him for a minute. What were YOUR intentions for reaching out to him? I assume you were interested in him romantically? If so, you know he has a girlfriend now, so it’s pointless to meet. There’s no point to “keeping in touch” with someone you had a few dates with, but were never friends with to begin with. Be honest about your intentions- you reached out “to catch up” because you wanted to know if there was a chance you could date him again. Well, you found out he’s not single. So leave him alone. Really it’s not that complicated.
My point is, don’t worry about what his intentions are. Be honest about your own.
March 12, 2020 at 3:05 pm #787706Liz Lemon
And let’s play the devil’s advocate here: The title of your thread is “does he still like me?” So let’s pretend he wants to meet because he DOES still like you, and thinks he might want to date you again.
Why would you want to date a guy who would meet up with an ex behind his girlfriend’s back because he secretly still felt something for her?!
March 12, 2020 at 3:18 pm #787707Khadija
You’ve posted this a few times.
Why are you still trying to determine if a man with girlfriend still likes you?
Please stop contacting him and don’t meet up with him. You even said you two weren’t friends before.I think you are hoping he does still likes you so you can rekindle things.
March 12, 2020 at 5:41 pm #787709Lynn
Why do you keep posting this?? NO. He does not still like you or have romantic interest in you. You hadn’t dated for very long before the move happened. He’s only trying to be friendly and sees you as a friend. You however were hoping that he’d want to get back together now that you’re living in the area again and your ego’s bruised because he already moved on. So you’re wanting to believe he is still into you because he’s willing to see you. Be honest – you can’t be just friends with this guy, you want more. Do him and yourself a big favor and don’t see him.
March 12, 2020 at 7:41 pm #787711ANM StaffKeymasterMod update:
Hi Lara (Mia), thanks for sharing your question with the community!
I need to step in here, though, because several people have pointed out that you have posted about this topic multiple times on this forum. In general, the community doesn’t like when you do this – it gives an impression that you are not reading anyone’s follow-up posts. That’s disrespectful and the community bristles at that.
I understand that some folks may just come across this forum when searching topics on the internet. They ask a question, and then forget to bookmark it and just can’t find it in their browser history, so they never come back to the original topic. It happens; I’m not offended. But let’s try and tidy things up, hmm?
You are welcome to continue posting about this topic. But, I’m going to lock this thread. You can continue posting about this back in your original thread, which is here. If you respond there, that’ll help the community see that you are actually reading and acknowledging their feedback.
Best wishes to you!
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