Does he want a relationship or just sex?


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    Confused

    I met a guy online and we’ve gone out on 2 dates. We kissed and made out on both dates, but I told him nothing more was going to happen. I told him that I don’t have sex until after I’m in an exclusive relationship. He said he understood. Since then, he’s been texting me saying he wishes he could sleep with me.

    Sex isn’t the only thing we talk about. He texts me every day saying good morning, asking how I am, how my day’s been, texts me good night, sends kissy face emojis. During our first 2 dates, we didn’t only make out. The first date was about 4 hours of us talking and getting to know each other, then ended in the make out session. The 2nd date was about 5 hours of talking before making out. He asks me questions about my family, my job, my hobbies, he shares details about his life too, and calls me babe or baby. A few days after the 2nd date, he texted me at 9:30 at night asking if I wanted to try oral sex. I said no, I wasn’t ready yet. He continues to text me daily asking about how I’m doing. So I am confused. Does he want a relationship or just sex?

    #944801 Reply
    Better off single

    Idk. Just go with it, if anything maybe you might realize you get along but want different things in life and you can be friends with benefits.

    #944812 Reply
    tammy

    from what you have said, well it does come across that he’s mostly looking for sex. if that’s all that you want then its fine. but if you want more, you need to take your time and get to know him better. please cut out all the explicit sexual talks so soon. also avoid home dates cause that will only lead you to sex. just figure out what you want and then proceed accordingly.

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    Tallspicy

    Ewwww. Asks about sex so often and calls you baby? Gross. I would never go out with someone who has a nick name like that at the second date… imagine how many other women ge is calling that. Men look for sex and find love, but the good ones push lightly… not with a sledge hammer.

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