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Laura
We matched on bumble last week, I’ve never had such a good conversation with someone on bumble, he’s lovely. But he often takes 24-48 hours to reply. He does send long messages though. Would a guy that isn’t interested send long messages and lots of questions and kiss at the end of his last message?
I keep worrying that his previous message will be his last, I really want to meet him. Do guys on bumble tend to speak to many girls at once or tend to speak to one main one at a time? I only invest my time into one guy at a time
Do I have a chance with him? Unfortunately he lives 30 miles away but we both have cars
Peggy
Hi Laura-you should be messaging and going out with a variety of guys at this stage. This guy likely has severa,l people he talks to. A week is my limit for a guy to ask you out. Next time he sends a message reply “Thanks for your message,however, I am on Bumble to date and not collect penpals,if your focus changes,let me know”. Or something to that effect. Then if he does not make a firm date to meet up-just stop engaging with him. There are guys that will just waste your time this way…don’t let them.
Tallspicy
Tough love time…. maybe you should not be dating. You are way too over invested in a total stranger. If you are this invested now, what type of bunny boiler stuff comes later? We can’t answer your question, we don’t know him. And seriously you ask about him sending kisses by text meaning something?
Here is the truth. You sh0uld not be intiating anything, then watch to see if he asks you out within a week. You mirror him, not lead. And in the meantime, date others.
Newbie
He sounds like a smooth talker and trying to get you invested before you actually know him. And its working and thats not good for you. Because in general thise guys are full of words but usually not really looking for something serious. He is e-tethering you. You have to grow a way bigger skin for online dating if you already decided this stranger is lovely and you worried he will never text again. A week ago you didnt even know he existed. Also a 30 mile drive is peanuts so why hasnt he asked you out yet?
Raven
I thought Bumble was where the female did the initiating?
Honeypie
I hope you are mirroring his time to respond and not getting his message two days on and instantly responding. No this guy isn’t interested. Hell feel you’re way too clinginess of that I have no doubt from your post here.
Pull back, and leave it two days yourself before you respond, and when you do make it fairly short but light. He’ll move forward or more likely won’t. If he was into dating you you’d know it by now. Chat to others
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