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Lucy
To give him space?
Melissa
I met a guyear on a chat site we have become close friends we chatted everyday on skype like a year he was so sweet and open he has heard thingssome on that site we met and got really mad stopped chatted with me 2 months needed space I guess now he has come back to chat to me why do I do lol I’m so confused must I chat back he is still not chatting S much but still there on my Skype do I just give him time thanks
Snow
Hi, there’s someone I miss so bad..he went away to continue his studies We haven’t contact each other since last night (10/2/17) cause of the roaming issues (which he says)..He have a gf and flirts alot but I like him anyway he says he like me too but we both having trust issues..I wanna talk to him but I had my pride too.So Shall I just call him and tell him I miss him or shall I hold on to my pride?
Hannah
Snow he has a girlfriend… leave him alone until he ends if with her. If he does.
It’s not just about pride, it’s about self preservation. If you get involved with someone who’s attached, you’re likely to get very hurt and so is she.
Jessica
I was dating this guy for over an year and he told me that he feels a lot guilty when he cannot be available for me. Took a break but continued talking to me, then exactly after a month told me that he has exams coming and won’t be able to talk.
Just a day before this I really got upset and shouted, he did not take that well and we ended up fighting.
I talked to him after 5 days and he told me we’re on a break, just friends. I have been trying to give him time
He told me that he doesn’t mind talking to me, but just doesn’t have time to talk to me .
I see him chilling with his friends and going out for lunch.
I text him after 4-5 days normally, and mostly it’s a normal conversation.
I am thinking to try no contact rule, however I am not sure will that help or noNicki
I’m hoping nc do work to make him miss me.im in day 20 nc and struggling terrible , some days I feel so positive and think that’s it , I deserve better his loss ( he dumped me ) but then other days I feel hopeless , I cry all day . I miss him so much , I feel obsessed that I can’t stop thinking of him . He’s slog younger than me , but he was the one who did all the chasing in the beginning , I always said no your to young , but he kept on for weeks , we got on so well and I fell in love , then he said he couldn’t handle things and ended it ! That’s all I do is read websites like this to help me get through it . How sad am I .
Vanessa
FYI – THIS IS AN OLD THREAD THAT WAS BUMPED UP BY NICKI.
You’re not sad, Nicki. But you shouldn’t be in no contact in hopes that he’ll miss you, but so you can begin the process of moving on. That’s why this isn’t working for you. Don’t expect him to come back. Read articles yes, but also get busy out there in the real world to distract you. When I sit at home, that’s when my mind just go to overthinking hell.
Don’t want anyone that doesn’t want you! There’s someone else out there for you but you won’t find him if you’re still pinning for this one. Good luck!
Karla
He suddenly wanted a break, said i would get too jealous and needed space, I fought him so he said nvm I’m too aggressive. Then I kept messaging him and he said he was seriously going to give me a chance but that now that I freaked him out. I had never reacted this way w him but I really did not want to lose him. He used to love me so much and showed so much affection but it was so much that it kind of got to me and I loved him a lot for it, he eventually needed space because he went through alcohol problems in the past and needed to stay active in helping and running since he is sponsored. Eventually he told me no, he will not promise me he was taking a break anymore.
We spend so much time together. I now see that was not good. Will he still come back after no contact period?
I have started hanging w friends, never post anything negative on fb and he still follows me on social media but makes no attempt to contact me. I try to look like it doesn’t bother me and my life has moved on.mary
He didn’t ask for space we just friends and I think I seemed too needy.He made it clear that I shouldn’t be romantic.& I really like him as a friend but we had physical intimacy which made me emotionally attached & I want to him keep him as a friend.
Raven
Mary, you’re not being honest with yourself… You want more.
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