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Khadija.
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Klm
Hi first if there any error on any word is because is english is not my first language
Ok so i matched with a Guy on tinder we talk alot great conversation nothing boring so when the Time came to finaly meet we arrange a movie date at his
Place since we were looking for nothing serious
So i did go to his place we talk alot drink One beer each put a movie in the middle of the movie we touched and one thing lead to another we had great chemistry in bed we talk and again we did it after that we talked then i need it to go home he told me he wanted and wait to see me so i want home we keep talking told me merry chritmas told me what he did and i told i was with my parent now 3 day i did not go on tinder do to personal emergency yesterday i logged into tinder i saw Him that he was not on my tinder list anymore so i was thinking maybe he Was taking Time off since he told me that tinder dont work for Him expect me and he was into me so i told myself maybe create a 2 account to see If he really deleted is account So i kept scrooling and what i saw him being on tinder i was kinda sad but mosly not happy since i sleep with Him but confused since i know he was so into Him
My question his the 3 day that i was not in tinder made Him think that i did want to talk to Him since he was keep tellinf me he want to see me and i let Him down
Or he did catch feeling was scared
I just want to talk to Him and tell Him why did he unmatch meSorry again english not my first language
Tammy
Did u guys exchange numbers? Or just chatted and fixed a meeting through tinder chat only?
If he has unmatched post your fling on tinder, and if you guys hvnt even exchanged numbers, it probably means he doesnt want to meet again.. its over and u shld move on..
Ewa
i don’t understand? you went to his house because you wanted nothing serious and sorry to say this, but this is all you got.
his is probably setting up another ‘date’ with someone else already.Maddie
A man getting too scared because he has feelings isn’t a real thing, sad to say. If that is the real reason, it means he has too many issues to show up as a good, reliable partner anyway so it just doesn’t matter, and he probably shouldn’t be trying to date (which is why he was only looking for casual in the first place). Having feelings for someone simply doesn’t matter when there’s no ability to follow through, that’s why “love isn’t enough.” An emotionally healthy and available man will never let someone go out of fear, though men with their own issues who aren’t ready to deal with them will.
This guy saying internet dating doesn’t work for him and maybe you are the exception is also a giant red flag. It probably doesn’t work for him because he treats everyone he meets like this. Being told you are the exception by a guy who is still a stranger is always a red flag, to be honest.
And I agree with other posters. If you enter a casual situation, you need to be okay with it turning out to only be a one night stand. Do not meet someone at their house for a first meeting if you’re not okay with this possibility. In general, it is not safe to meet a stranger from the internet for the first time anywhere that isn’t a public place. You should tell someone who your dates are and where you’re going to meet them if you have never met before. Even when you vibe with someone over text or phone, you may get a completely different read on them in person, such as they are creepy, so it’s important to be safe when using dating apps.
I’d drop him and keep looking for someone new while keeping this info in mind.
Khadija
A few pieces of advice. Stopping meeting up with guys at their house and hooking up. You have no idea who this guy really is and in these times its simply not safe to do what you did. Also STD’s are still a thing I hope you used protection.
Lastly, he moved on and is on to the next hook up. I hate to be so blunt but that’s how it goes on Tinder.
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