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Cierra Cooper
I met this guy in November of last year and we hanged out. As we was playing pool he told me he has other friends he is sleeping with. I was stunned about why would he tell me this. I put my expectations on the line and I told him I’m looking for a relationship and that friends with benefit thing is old. As we were talking his whole demeanor changed. He was all over me being affectionate. Here we are now in January still here. Ever since he told me about his lady friends. I always throw them up in his face just because. I irritate him and he always ask why am I talking about other girls and that I should be worried about just us. When he goes out of town it makes me mad when he doesn’t text back fast enough or barely answers his phone. I just back away and give him space. Should I still talk to him and date him? He currently lives here but he travels back and forth. We like each other and I want him for myself. He knows I’m a jealous woman and besides he doesn’t like it here in Kansas City. He says he planning on moving back to Miami or Haiti. What should I do?
RavenWhy do you want to be with this guy?
Cierra CooperBecause he is cool and he is there for me when I need him. We bond and get along with each other. Plus my mom told me to be his friend
RavenWhat are your ages please…
Cierra CooperI’m 30 and he is 34
SammyThis seems like a go nowhere situation where you both are playing games and trying to make the other jealous… he told
You so you’d know where he is at… he will continue to do that… is that what you want?Cierra CooperNo I don’t. What was his reason for telling me that?
RavenI think you’re looking for an escape…
I would not want to be in Kansas either! This guy though is not going to give you what you’re looking for… He’s a player & you’re lowering your standards…
Cierra CooperI’m not trying to lower my standards
RavenWell… If decide to date this guy, you will certainly be lowering your standards.
Where is your head?!
Liz LemonYou’re wasting your time. You want this guy to yourself but he’s made it clear he is not interested in a monogamous relationship with you. You’re 30 years old, you’re a grown woman. Surely you can see this isn’t going anywhere. Your best bet is to move on and date other guys. Don’t date a guy who has made it very clear he won’t give you what you want. You’re just setting yourself up for frustration and heartbreak.
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