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    Cierra Cooper

    I met this guy in November of last year and we hanged out. As we was playing pool he told me he has other friends he is sleeping with. I was stunned about why would he tell me this. I put my expectations on the line and I told him I’m looking for a relationship and that friends with benefit thing is old. As we were talking his whole demeanor changed. He was all over me being affectionate. Here we are now in January still here. Ever since he told me about his lady friends. I always throw them up in his face just because. I irritate him and he always ask why am I talking about other girls and that I should be worried about just us. When he goes out of town it makes me mad when he doesn’t text back fast enough or barely answers his phone. I just back away and give him space. Should I still talk to him and date him? He currently lives here but he travels back and forth. We like each other and I want him for myself. He knows I’m a jealous woman and besides he doesn’t like it here in Kansas City. He says he planning on moving back to Miami or Haiti. What should I do?

    #836437 Reply
    Raven

    Why do you want to be with this guy?

    #836441 Reply
    Cierra Cooper

    Because he is cool and he is there for me when I need him. We bond and get along with each other. Plus my mom told me to be his friend

    #836454 Reply
    Raven

    What are your ages please…

    #836456 Reply
    Cierra Cooper

    I’m 30 and he is 34

    #836489 Reply
    Sammy

    This seems like a go nowhere situation where you both are playing games and trying to make the other jealous… he told
    You so you’d know where he is at… he will continue to do that… is that what you want?

    #836491 Reply
    Cierra Cooper

    No I don’t. What was his reason for telling me that?

    #836511 Reply
    Raven

    I think you’re looking for an escape…

    I would not want to be in Kansas either! This guy though is not going to give you what you’re looking for… He’s a player & you’re lowering your standards…

    #836518 Reply
    Cierra Cooper

    I’m not trying to lower my standards

    #836523 Reply
    Raven

    Well… If decide to date this guy, you will certainly be lowering your standards.

    Where is your head?!

    #836526 Reply
    Liz Lemon

    You’re wasting your time. You want this guy to yourself but he’s made it clear he is not interested in a monogamous relationship with you. You’re 30 years old, you’re a grown woman. Surely you can see this isn’t going anywhere. Your best bet is to move on and date other guys. Don’t date a guy who has made it very clear he won’t give you what you want. You’re just setting yourself up for frustration and heartbreak.

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