Ending my life…

Hi Ms. Hopeful,

Please don’t fear falling in love again, it will keep you from living a fulfilling life and the potential to find great love. When I left my husband, I felt so broken inside I thought no man would ever love me. Instead, I focused on loving myself and my daughter. I had such overwhelming love for my daughter I realized that I was more than capable of having love in my life again. A couple of years later (and a TON of work on myself) an incredible man came into my life and has shown me a greater love, an unconditional love, far beyond any kind of “love” my ex had. To go from feeling less than human to having someone love every cell in your body is an amazing transformation, and every person should experience it, especially you! Give yourself time to heal, then start your journey towards self love and you will find the world is at your fingertips! The best is yet to come!

Hello everyone!
I’m back again to thank you for everything. All of you who are responsible with my better situation right now. I will be back at same work on Monday, yes, I am ready. My family and friends are supportive as well as my doctor, I fact I don’t need much medication but still needs professional advice therapy for better results. I feel I’m getting strength now after what happened. My feelings of desperation subsided. I’m not afraid now to fall in love again but developing my own strength in handling emotions. Taking everything easy..I feel better and even prettier everyday. No alcohols!

Dear Leila
Yes I’m not afraid now. But I still thinking if I’m ready to go on dating again, or is it a good time to date again. I’m developing right now. Thank you for your help.

Hey miss Hopeful! So pleased to see you back and that everythings going well!

You have done amazingly well to bounce back so strong. If ever you feel down again remember that. Remember you went through it before and you got through it. If you can do it once, you can do it again!

I was depressed and anxious a few years ago but once you realise how strong you really are and find the best way of coping for you, life can be good again!

Never be afraid to lose a man who is ready to let you go and don’t bother chasing. You can waste so much time and energy on that, or you can use your time to find a great guy that will make you happy! Take it slow, you’ve been through a lot, and any worthy man will be happy to move at your pace. Good luck!!

Ms Hopeful so happy to hear about your progress, wow, I am impressed, you go girl! Really kudos to you. Make sure you continue your work with your therapist and come here anytime you need a shoulder or hopefully in the future when you find your happiness too. Forgive yourself if you ever relapse because it can happen though it will not be as bad as it was and if there is ever a doubt in your mind come here. Have your friends with you, your family too.

Of course you are good enough to be chased, we all are, you are the prize and this guy just lost the prize, it is his loss remember that and one day he will know that. What will hurt him the most is if he sees you beautiful, happy, peaceful and radiating. He will be shocked. Be careful though because he may try to get you back just for his ego. Anything that happens you can discuss with us.

Next here I may be offline for a few days going on a trip but will try checking in. Keep up the great work!

My dear SthrnBelle
Yes I am trying my best right now. Thank you for your full support. And yes, I don’t need to feel insecure, I am and my therapist is working very well about this too. I feel comfortable and got back my confidence I lost for a period of time. I think he is wondering what happened why he didn’t see me at workplace for weeks now. I didn’t tell anybody about it except my boss. I talked to few friends at work and just told them I need to arrange few things. He was asking about me, yes. Lol, I think he miss the chasing game. Chasing game no more!!! I remember how much he chased me at the beginning, I dated few while dating with him. He was different almost the best among others so we made it exclusive. I’ll tell more about it next time lol. Well, I knew this ex of him likes him a lot. I admit I was insecure but that time I didn’t realize my value yet as a person, she is successful than me, but I am professional too. Not bad! She is taller but this guy likes petite even more. She is tall and I am totally cute petite like other Asian. I’m younger and my the best future is waiting for me I know. It was crazy I forget all these things about me and turn into a desperate woman begging for love and attention. But now, I am ready to pick up the broken pieces of me and face everything with a positive views.

My dear Lovelylady
Hope you can drop by here again.. I’m sure you will be happy to know about everything.

Thank you Leila!
I feel better right now…although there are still time I was in that feeling of loneliness whenever I am alone. I’ve been in two consecutive terrible breakups, so I think this is normal. I read your post before about how to get into great men and a great relationship. I wish I can apply them. God knows how much I wanted to be loved and cared for.

My dear Stefanie
Yes we are…I believe this. It’s hard sometimes but as long as we desire to see the light, nothing is impossible. I am 36, not young enough. I’ve been through many dark moments in my life. And everyone I am in a relationship, I always hope he is the one but it ended up in sorrow. But what I learned this time that I need to take everything easy. Thank you again, Stefanie for being here always.

Sorrow please call this #:
1 (800) 273-8255
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

Hours: 24 hours, 7 days a week
Languages: English, Spanish
Website: http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org

No man is worth taking your life over. He’s an asshole, a liar, and a cheater.. you don’t want to give up your beautiful life over such a despicable person. You will find love again, and it will be the blessing you deserve. Please call the # and talk to someone. God bless you sweetheart.

I agree Redcurleysue, people with the same experience can relate,understand and sympathize.I’m glad to meet these wonderful ladies who are now a strong woman. I’m on way but can’t say I’m strong as they are right now. I’m hopeful.

Dear Carol
Thanks to you for the support. I’m glad and blessed with great woman who stand by me while recovering. And even Eric was very supportive too.