Ending my life…

Yes it is very difficult when you are confronted by the person you are having an issue with….it is hard to maintain perspective…but just focus on the things that are not all that charming about him and ask yourself…do you really really want a man who has those traits.

Picture your life wonderful without him…and honestly it will be. Having a bad relationship drags us down….look forward to feeling joyful again without this person….and you will.

Ms. Hopeful! You crossed my mind today and I was wondering how you were doing? I would love to hear from you with an update of all the positive things going on in your life. I was also curious about whether or not you decided to stay at your job. I hope we get an update soon!!

I’m glad to hear that you are doing better. My advice to you, don’t worry about dating right now, continue to work on yourself and finding your happiness within. You’ll know when you are ready to try again. If you meet someone and you are not ready, the right guy will wait for you. And trust me when I say this, that guy did not love you, not the way a woman deserves to be loved by a man. When you find love, it will be amazing and completely worth the wait.

Hi Ms Sorrow. I am sorry to tell you this but you are crying over a man who is not worthy of your time or effort in any way, shape or form. You deserve someone much better and you will find him. Believe me, even if you get this guy, he will mean years of heartbreak for you. However, it will take time to get over this guy and right now, you are very upset. Even though it is normal to be upset, you should see a doctor. It sounds like you have depression and medication (such as Sertralin) may improve your mood. Good luck!

Hi dear Sthrnbelle, you’re here again thank you. How was your vacation trip? Yes, I’m not ready to go on dating right now. I keep myself busy and enrolled in a class. I go out of town too to relax. I start to enjoy life again. Btw, this ex once greeted and approach me and I just nod and smile. Still nervous but I’m okay. Thank you for being here for me.

Dearest Hope! I just dropped in now to see if there just might be a post from you and there you are right at the top just like I found you when you were in trouble. I’m so very happy that you are progressing so well. I am doing well too, returning to work next month. Your life is worthwhile. You are loved. Keep going!!!

bestest,

Stefanie

Oh my, my dear Stefanie… I was about to post “Where is Stefanie?” And here you are…like an angel. I think ladies are connected in mind lol. Thank you. And I’m glad to know you are doing well too. Yes, I’m getting better now and healing. Thanks a lot again for being here until now. Please don’t get tired :)

I don’t post here any longer… just had a feeling to check on you. We must be psychic friends!!!

I totally agree Stefanie…thanks again and again for dropping by for me. Love yah :)

Hi Ms Hopeful,

I am doing great thank you. I loved the advice RCS gave you, what a beautiful post and so very true. There is life after love and love after love, as you can you see there is still a lot of love in the world, we are all here for you. Happiness starts with dreams and I think that puts us in a positive mood. You will see the fruits of your hard work. You will be happy and one day wonder why you even ever thought of this man as a potential partner and what you loved in him.

To all girlfriends who have been very supportive to me…I’m here again :) I don’t know if I need to start a new thread or just stay on this one. I just want to hear from you great ladies about something happening in my life right now..I trust and can rely on every advice the you can give. I cannot say I’m fully recovered from what happened but I think it’s time to “just” try dating again. I reconnect with a guy I met online but since I had a boyfriend (the ex) I decided to cut every connection with him. And since we live long distance I know it won’t work. It’s been few months since my fb is down due to what happened and until this week I opened it again and saw his message. He’s a great guy, single, professional and good looking with a good attitude. We started to chat again and we both made skype profile to chat often and see face to face. I don’t know if it’s safer for me right now trying the online dating since he live too far and less pressure on my part. To be honest, let me confess to you that I’m starting to like him and I know he is pursuing me. I enjoy when we chat and do video and there’s something I can’t explain. Do you think I allow myself to keep doing this or can you please advice me on the best thing to do. I’m not ready to meet in person right now.

Wonderful ladies, where are you?
Thank you Dear Hannah, my girl friends talked about ANM yesterday as some of them got great advice from here. We are thankful. It’s highly recommended to help people who are emotionally problematic.
I checked this site today and read few posts and comments.
I am still chatting with the LDR guy but I think right now I still gave control over situation lol, not to fall and invest.
But i want to tell something about what happened this week, I attended an event where a friend of mine from previous job introduced to me this guy. Gosh, he is very interesting and good looking. I felt that my heart stopped for a minute.
Is it so funny that I have felt this again after my sorrowful situation?
Okay, he asked for my number. We text just to say hi but it’s better not to be do close and comfortable right now. He is asking me out on Sunday? I think I’m ready to try dating again.!? I LIKE HIM..

Give it a shot and just go slow. What the heck. A little kiss under the mistletoe is in order this time of year!!