Ex being werid on Facebook

I’m sorry that happened to you, it’s not easy to navigate breakups, but sweetie, you really shouldn’t care how he chooses to live his life or conduct his relationships with other women. He’s a grown ass man who knows what he is doing and how if affects the people he does it to and doesn’t want to change it.

Accept you got played and make peace with it.

As for the deranged blocking and unblocking, it shows he wants to get reaction out of you.

1)You’re living rent free in his head and he wants to mindf*ck you, so y’all can get miserable together. He’s obviously a weak guy who can’t make up his mind. Don’t play his game, you won’t win, block back and ignore, ignore, ignore.
2) He’s clearly not over you, I don’t care what he told you when he split. He is/he was in a rebound/overlapping relationship and didn’t really process breaking up with you the way he was supposed to because you didn’t fight it. Checkmate.

You’re also not clearly over him, two weeks is a short time to process a break up. I believe your feelings are yo-yoing between shock, denial and anger

The fact that he’s playing these games means right now you have all the power and he knows it so he wants you to go on his level. Seriously, Don’t.

My advice, block his ass, not to revenge but so you can process the break up and what it means for you and start healing.

This means, no creeping on his social media, no third party,’spying’, cancel his ass Mami. Go scorched earth policy on him. No WhatsApp, Instagram, Telegram, Snapchat, Phone calls or texts. Block, block block.

Lurking on his socials will make you look and sound like a stalker, of course the natural instinct will be stalk the hell out of him in a bid to understand, get closure and feel close to him. It’s time to stop, it’s retrogressive to your healing.

He might miss you or think of you but he’s still the same guy who broke up with you over another woman. Remember,he did this not you. You have nothing to lose.

You’re clearly still running on adrenaline, it’s time to stop and start processing this breakup in a healthy way.

YOU don’t want to be with a man like that.

Get a glass of wine or juice, play some music and do a dance when you press the block button on all the apps.

YOU might feel scared doing this,because it’s final, it means accepting that things are over between you. But for your peace of mind do it. Get together with your friends, talk about it.

Everytime you feel like reaching out to him, reach out to someone who cares about you instead or rant here.
Seriously, f*ck this dude, whoever he is!

Susie I agree that you need to block and stop looking at his behavior on social media. The main points here are: he broke up with you and blocked you!
The unblocking is irrelevant the point he felt the need to block you is what would make me angry.
Not sure how long you dated but I would suggest you detox from this guy for at least a few months.

Nah Susie, like i said, he’s trying to mindf*ck you. You threw him a wrench when you didn’t aggressively fight the breakup.

It’s like this,look at him as a criminal who stabbed you, realized that you didn’t die and now be wants to stab you again and make sure you’re dead. Don’t give him room to hurt you twice.

Please block him, any man who actively chooses another woman over you is not for you. You deserve peace.

Social media games with exes hardly end well, they always end in utter and public meltdowns. You don’t want to go down that road, trust me.

You have more power than you realize right now, use it to heal yourself.

Refuse to spend any more calories on this guy