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Liz
Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago we tried fixing this but it only led to arguments and he told me yesterday he’s moving on and that I should too. I’m kinda upset bc he led me on to believe we had a chance and I feel like he didn’t try hard enough on his end. These past months have been stressful and to think that it’s been almost HALF A YEAR that we broke up is crazy since we only lasted a year. I feel so hurt, just like the time he broke up with me and I feel like at this point I should’ve been over it already. But I’m not. I already had him blocked everywhere else but one app where we were talking through. I just blocked him bc I really want to move on. I’m in nursing school and I’m happy where my life is at right now. It’s just when I think of him it makes me loose focus on everything. I kinda wanted to go MIA and deactivate all my social media to focus on myself more and avoid seeing anything of him. is this a good idea? Or would it be best to keep my social media so he can see I’m moving on? Any tips to move on from a broken heart
Miss_AThe only way for you to heal and move on is to stop having anything to do with him. No contact, no cyber stalking, no stalking his friends or family to see what info you can find. Nothing. I don’t think you need to delete your social media, but you do need to block him AND anyone who posts anything about him, and keep them blocked. That’s the only way. FULL no contact. I know it’s hard, but talking to him or seeing his activity will only keep you stuck.
aliaYou could get stuck pining for an ex for years. Don’t do that. Make an effort if moving on, block him in everything and start a new hobby; etc. You know the drill. After 30 days you will be better and after 60 days you will be as good as new. People don’t speak to their exes for a reason.
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