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Gia
Just wanna get some insight about this.
Broke up with my ex like 9 months ago with almost no contact, although we slept together once after the break up a few months back but we NC again after that except he would like my IG posts and check every single IG stories of mine. For some odd reasons, I realized he has unfollowed me but kept my FB. I can say that I have moved on now, but I wonder why he did that? Is he tired of seeing me enjoying my life recently? I traveled lot recently and posted some travel stories and the good life I have with my friends. I also did not like any of his posts because he was not a honest person so I don’t bother liking any of his posts. Is it cuz of that too? Any comments?
Thank you!
peggy
Hi Olga,
If you have truly moved on-why do you care what he does or does not do. You say he was dishonest-so this is even more puzzling. Anyway,I doubt it means anything that he looks at your stuff.Anon
If you have completely moved on … this question would never been raised.
You should ask yourself why do you still care if his character is not all that fabulous
Khadija
Well if you are living the good life why do you care about him?
The only person that can truly answer that would be your ex.
Don’t worry about someone who unfollowed you, its the ones in your life supporting you are the ones you should pay attention to.
Ashley
I think he unfollowed because maybe he doesn’t “care” anymore for some reason maybe he is now focusing on another girl & doesn’t care about keeping up to date with what you’re doing. Maybe he thinks okay it’s time to let it go. I unfollow people sometimes when it’s nothing personal but I just no longer care to see their stuff
Omi G
Agree with Ashley, he’s your ex. He probably moved on and sees no point in following a past person. Nothing wrong with that at all. Don’t take offense to it.
Love
Why do you care?
Amz
I agree with the others, why do you care?
If you’re truly over him, care factor would and should be zero. No excuses, no mitigating factors, just ZERO!!!
Jennifer
My ex fiance after a month unfollowed me on insta he unfollowed all my friends i had a food page he unfollowed that. Why would he do that. First he has a open insta acc he suddenly made it private
Raven
Jennifer, really …?
Why do You think he’s done this…Tallspicy
He did it because he is moving on. He does not want to see you and he does not want you to see him. I know it is painful, but that is a breakup!
Katy
Black and white answer is they have “moved on”. The gray area you are asking about is if they truly feel done or or if it was for some other reason? Nobody but your ex knows for sure. Sometimes I find replies on here to be a a little too blunt without considering what a poster is wrestling with. Just because a person is an ex doesn’t mean they can’t have some unresolved feelings too. It’s ok to acknowledge this. You aren’t kidding yourself or being full of yourself. Even if some feelings still linger, it doesn’t mean either of you want each other back. Life has a funny way of making that happen, so relax if that is the case ;) The important thing is to be honest with yourself about why you want to know and deal with that in a way that treats yourself fairly.
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