Ex upset that I blocked him everywhere. I don't understand why?

Hi his ego has been hurt, he wanted you to be upset and wanting to see him, I say tough and was his choice etc. If you want to meet him then suggest it to see what he has to say but it’s up to you xx

Wow, I have to say, I admire your character. I am impressed that you refused to reply to him week after week. Most women would have given in after message 2 or 3 max. If only all women could be as self-protective as you. I wish I could be like you! and I am probably twice your age. lol

Surely he expected you to plead with him, to cry and maybe even beg, etc. At least at some level. He decided to break up with you but was not prepared to endure the consequences. You did not give him any closure. This is one of the worst things to do to a person, it is awfully painful to endure. Silent treatment, stonewalling it is called. Falls under the category of emotional abuse. Only in your case, he asked for it. Granted, you could have talked to him in person, but if you felt it would do you harm, you had all reasons to protect yourself emotionally. He was the one who wanted to breakup, when you break up with someone, you throw them away, you can’t expect them to want to talk to you. Some exes do, and some become friends later on, but you can’t expect it.

Even if he is chatting to other women right now trust me he is NOT enjoying it. I know you did not mean revenge, but if you did, OMG this is as bad as it can get. Short of you sleeping with his brother..

But you, you endured humiliation for too long with him, so your resentment accumulated to this point where you WON’T EVEN talk to him, you just can’t bring yourself to doing it, I totally understand, it is like a mental block.

If you do talk to him eventually, do it when you are completely over, to a point when you can laugh at things. And tell him about his “chatting” with other women and how wonderful it felt for you.

But in the future, if you want a good relationship, I suggest you do not accumulate resentment. You need to confront the person, in a non-aggressive way. And if you feel that they are not where you want them to be in terms of how they feel about you, how they treat you, do not drag things, walk away, do not waste your time and emotions. Emotions have a tendency to root and then affect your subsequent life, usually doing damage.

In addition to the other suggestions, he could be annoyed bc he has no control over the situation. You do. Good for you! And keep it up. Doesn’t sound like a very nice guy, imo.

I was with my ex off and on for 3 1/2 years. We went through alot of ups and downs but, when he broke up with me. He said, “I’m too nice to him and he doesnt like that.” Then, he came back chasing after me again, things were great for 3 weeks until he turned jackel and hide, threatened to make me walk from out in the sticks about 15 miles away from town in the dark. We had no fights, arguements nothing. Then, he ghosted me, and a week later writes that I am a good catch for someone else, after all these years and said I’m too boring since I am always saying, I’m proud of him. Well what else am i suppose to say when he texts me, look my credit went up, look I almost got the house finished, look I got a new job. Apperently, good job and being a good supporter is not a good thing. Anyhow, I knew that once I said I am finished completely, don’t ever contact me again, and delete me from your life after all the abusive mind games for this many years, I finally had to block him or he starts his manipulation again just to get what he wants and leave. To me, I had to do it for my own insanity to move on from his behavior. If he wants to think he won, well there ya go now, move along. That’s what I just did.