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Cole
My ex and I have been broke up since April. I had not contacted him since June, until around Thanksgiving. I asked him if he was seeing anyone and he said no, why. I know I shouldn’t have done that, but I didn’t contact him again after that. Well a girl sent me a facebook request and a lil after I accepted it she posted that she was in a relationship with my ex.
I was hurt that he had lied, and that I felt part of a childish game. Then looking through her pictures, I realized she and I are related. I thought, perhaps I am reading too much into it and she requested me because of being related. So I asked if she was my cousin. She said doubt it. I asked if she was related to (my family name) and she said yup. I said then we are. She responds with stop messaging my bf.
I don’t even know how I was on her radar screen, since it has been so long! I don’t message him. I don’t talk to him and if I see him out I avoid looking at him. The even more sad part is that I am not interested in any guy right now. My heart is too fragile and I’m focusing on me. And I feel as tho the scars were ripped open and I’m hurting all over again.
Cole
PS I did want him back. I don’t see it ever happening. I am not pursuing him and I don’t know how to act around him in public. When we broke up I had pushed him away then burned the bridge and he stopped communicating with me. So I forced him to end things. So, I don’t talk to him in public and I don’t look at him. Because he stopped talking to me.
Tasha Boston
Unfriend her even tho she’s family,that’s a constant reminder for u moving on
Cole
She unfriended me. It seems she only requested me so that I would see she and my ex are together. I blocked her tho.
Lane
Hi Cole.
I know its hard but it really is best to just let it go and focus on you! :-)
As they say, people come into our lives for a reason and you recognized where you failed in your relationship and as long as you own it and improve the areas you know need some extra help, that’s what really matters in the end. Don’t ever give someone the power to affect you, just say “good riddance and good luck” and then go skipping down the sidewalk of life without a care in the world :-)
Michelle
What you just experienced is drama. I learned that alot of women are into the competition of the ex ( you). They like to think they ” won” their boyfriend and that they are the preferred partner. As soon as you realize this you will understand how you were searched and looked at and compared to. The fact you have a history with the bf but to the new gf-this is a complete threat. No new girl except mature ones know that they are getting someone else’s rejection. They rather think they have won something than the truth. The only time a new relationship has grown to meet someone new is when all the self awareness and personal work of being alone has truly warranted them to moving forward.
Diane
The new girlfriend so had no class, for a guy to pick her, he can’t be that classy either..
Ignore them and take the high road
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